Isikhathi sokushiya isidleke ... kwakhona
Abantu abadala kunye neminyaka eyiwaka-minyaka babuyela ekhaya bahlala nabazali babo kwinani lamanani. Kukho izizathu ezininzi zezi zinto, kodwa ngokutsho kwePew Research, isizathu esivakalayo sokubuyela kule ntsapho yintsapho kukuba abantu abaselula banqanda umtshato kude kubekho ngaphambili.
Ukutshata emva kowe-1880, ilungiselelo lokuphila ngokuqhelekileyo phakathi kwabantu abaselula sele lihlala kunye nomlingane othandana naye, nokuba ngumlingane okanye omnye umntu. Olu hlobo lwalungiselelo luye lwafika malunga no-1960, xa ama-62% esizwe sabantu abaneminyaka eyi-18 ukuya kwe-34 ubudala behlala kunye neqabane okanye iqabane labo ekhaya, kwaye kuphela omnye kwabahlanu abahlala nabazali babo. - uPew Research
Ikhaya Labo?
Iindleko zezindlu ngenye into ebathumela abantu abadala ukuba babuyele kumabumbi abo okulala abantwana okanye kwizindlu zokuhlala eziphantsi komzali. Ukuba ngaba bakhetha ukuqhubeka nemfundo yabo, abafumani imali eyaneleyo yokuhlala bodwa, okanye basindisa ngokwaneleyo ikhaya labo, iimali zidlala indima enkulu kubantu abadala abakhetha ukuhlala nabazali babo kwiminyaka yabo-20 nangona kwezinye iimeko zabo ezingama-30. Xa bejongene nokuhlala kunye nabahlali kunye nokuhlala kunye nabantu abangabaziyo okanye abanandaba, abaneminyaka eyiwaka-minyaka bafuna ukuthuthuzelwa kunye nokukhuselwa kokuhlala nabazali babo.
Akunandaba Nothando
Ii-Millennials zinezesondo ezingaphantsi kuneGen-Xers okanye i-Boomers. Ukungabi nentshisekelo kubundlelwane obusondeleyo kubangelwa ukuba, phakathi kwezinye izinto, uxinzelelo lokuba baphumelele kwimisebenzi yabo, ukwesaba ukukhathazeka ngokomzwelo, ukwanda kwintsebenziswano yokuxhatshazwa kwengqondo, enokuchaphazela i-libido, kunye nokudibanisa izinto ezinxulumene nezicelo zokuthandana.
Kunokuba bachithe ixesha kunye namandla abo befuna uthando, i-Millennial ingakumbi ijolise kwimpilo yabo, imisebenzi yabo kunye nohlobo lwabo.
Yilula kakhulu
Ukuphila kunye nentsapho kunokuba kube lula kakhulu kwiminyaka eyiwaka leminyaka, esinye isizathu sokuba banokukhetha ukuba bangabhabhanga kwisidleke.
Imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla njengeentengiso zokuthenga, ukucoca indlu, ukupheka kunye nezinye izinto zihlala zinyamekelwa ngabazali ngokungafihli, ukunika abantu abadala ithuba elide lokukhulula kunye neendleko ezingaphantsi kwezemali. Emva kokuba bebuyele ekhaya baza bafumanisa indlela okulungileyo ngayo ukuba yinxalenye yentsapho, kunye nokutya kunye nendawo yokuhlamba ehlambulukileyo, kunokuba nzima ukuphuma naliphi na ixesha kungekudala, nokuba yintoni imeko yabo yezemali.
Oko Abazali Bangakwenza Ukuze Bakhuthaze Abadala Babo Abadala Ukuba Bahambe
Ukucinga ukuba umntu omdala osemdala wenza ubomi obuhle kwaye unokuzinyamekela, ngaba abazali bangabakhuthaza njani-baze bafune ukuba abantwana babo baphume ekhaya? Kubazali abanjalo, izicwangciso ze-nester ezingenanto okanye abahlala phantsi bangafakwa kwi-burner emva, kuquka ukuthengisa ikhaya elikhulu ukuhlalisa nokunyuka kwisigaba esilandelayo sobomi babo.
Akukho sizathu sokuba abazali bafanele bayeke ukucela abo bantu abaselula ukuba bafikelele ixesha kunye nesicwangciso sinyathelo esilandelayo ebomini babo. Ukuba abantu abadala abakubonakala bengenakunqwenela ukuzinikela kumhla okanye kwishedyuli, abazali bafanele bathathe ukuba baqaphele ukulindela kunye neemfuno zabo abantwana ukuba bafumane ikhaya labo.
- Ukuba abazali baqokelela irente, bayeke ukuyisebenzisa kwiindleko zendlu kwaye baqale ukuyibeka kwi-akhawunti yokulondoloza ngokukhawuleza. Le mali ingasetyenziselwa ukufumana abantu babo abadala abasemaphandleni entsha okanye ukuhlawula ekhaya, kuxhomekeke kwiindleko.
- Yeka ukunyamekela abadala abaselula. Ukugxininisa ukuba bapheke ukutya ezimbalwa ngeveki, yenza uhlamba lweentsapho, uhlambulule indlu yokuhlambela okanye udibanise utshani. Esikhundleni sawo uziva ngathi uhambo olukhululekile, yenza kube nzima ukuhlala.
- Ukuba ukhangele ukuthengisa ikhaya lakho kunye nokunciphisa, yifake kuhlu. Akukho nto iya kukhuthaza umdala wakho omdala ngaphezu kokubona uphawu "lokuthengisa" phambi kwendlu yakho. Cacisa ngobumnene ukuba uhamba kunye nobomi bakho kwaye lixesha lokuba ahambe naye, naye.