Yintoni omele uyazi ngokudlala okusebenzayo kunye nezingane ezincinci
Ngamanye amaxesha ndicinga ukuba abantwana banamagunya. Isivinini esiphezulu esivumela ukuba bashenxise kuwe esitolo. Amandla agubungelayo abenza ukuba baphume kwi-harrow ne-bolt yesitalato. Futhi masingalibali i- Spider-Man njengekhono lokukhuphuka elenza ukuba bakwazi ukunyusa ibhukhimethi kwi-blink yesiso. Konke oku, ngelixa ngamanye amaxesha kuphazamiseka, kunene ngokwenene.
Enyanisweni, ufuna umntwana wakho ukuba asebenze, ukuxumla, kunye nokudibanisa kwimibuthano (ngokwenene!).
Ngokutsho kweengcali zezilwanyana, abantwana abasecaleni akufanele basebenze ngaphezu kweyure enye ngexesha (ngaphandle kokuba balele). Oku kuthetha ukuba unokuba lunandipha ukuphumula ofumanayo xa umncinane wakho ekhupha ngeemifanekiso okanye aphendulela amaphepha ekhathalogu yokulandelela iposi, ufuna ukumkhuthaza ukuba ahambe emva kweyure echitha phantsi . Ngokuqhelekileyo, akusiyo ingxaki nantoni na, kuba kulesi sigaba sophuhliso akukho nto inokubamba ingqalelo encinane kwimizuzu engaphezulu kwemizuzu embalwa.
Ngoko xa ukunyakaza okungapheliyo okanye okungapheliyo kokubili kuyinto entle kwaye kungenakukhuphela kubantwana abaselula, unokuzibuza ukuba yeyiphi imisebenzi efanelekileyo ekuphuhlisweni komntwana wakho. Iintlobo zemisebenzi ziya kuxhomekeka kakhulu kwimpembelelo yomntanakho, izakhono zakhe eziphambili zezithuthi kule ndawo, kunye nommandla wakho wokhuseleko kuba ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ukuvumela abancinci ukuba bahambe bakhululeke kwaye bangengozini yokulimala.
Iingcali zinika izikhokelo ezibini eziqhelekileyo zokudlala phakathi kweenyanga ezili-12 kunye neenyanga ezingama-36 ubudala:
- ukubonelela ubuncinane imizuzu engama-30 yomdlalo ngamnye ngosuku
- vumela umntwana wakho ubuncinane kwiminyaka engama-60 yokudlala yamahhala (umsebenzi ongenziwanga ngokomzimba) ngosuku
Ixesha lokudlala elihlelwe
Ngomnye umsebenzi owenziwe ngokwasemzimbeni ubizwa ngokuba ngumsebenzi okhokelwa ngabantu abadala.
Cinga nje ngamaxesha apho ufundisa umntwana wakho ubuchule obufana nokukhaba okanye ukuphosa okanye ukukhwela ibhayisikili. Ukuba umntwana wakho ufumana unyango lomzimba, izinto azenzayo kunye nomgulisi wakhe unokucatshangelwa nesikhathi sokudlala esakhiweyo.
Unokubandakanya nawaphi na amaklasi asemthethweni oye wabhalisa kuwo. Nangona iiklasi azikho imfuneko yokuphuhlisa umntwana, kukho ezinye iindlela ezintle zokukhetha abantwana, kuquka:
- kubhukuda
- umdaniso
- gymnastics
- ukukhwela
Gcina ukhumbule ukuba umntwana wakho umncinane kakhulu ukuba angene kwiqela lemidlalo elihlelwe. Abantwana abangaphantsi kwe-3 badla ngokuqhubekayo kwimodi yokudlala kunye nokuba bangakwazi ukuqonda imithetho esemthethweni yezemidlalo yeqela njengebhola nebhola.
U kudlala
Kwabancinci abaselula, umsebenzi owenziweyo olungabonakaliyo wenza ubuninzi bemini yabo. Nangona eyakwamkela ubukho bakho kunye nokusebenzisana ngezihlandlo, umntwana wakho akayi kufuna kakhulu into evela kuwe ukuze ujonge. Abantwana abakwazi ukuzibhokoxa ngokwabo ngokukhawuleza ukuba benze izinto ezibonakalayo ezinjengezinto eziqhelekileyo ezifana nokugijima kwiqhekeza ukuya kwisihlalo sokuthanda okanye ukugcwalisa indebe etafileni ngamatye egadi yakho. Ungacingi ukuba ufanele ungene kuzo zonke "ukungeza" kule midlalo. Ufunda malunga nommandla wakhe kunye nomzimba wakhe kunye nangoko nje evuyayo kwaye ephephile, unokumvumela ukuba abe.
Ewe, kukho ixesha elininzi xa umntwana wakho efuna kwaye akufuna ukuba uncede ukuba benze ixesha elide lokudlala. Amanye amacebiso:
- Yenza izinto ezilula zemihla ngemihla zibe yimidlalo. Ukuhlamba impahla, imilenze, iikomityi kunye nezinye izinto ezikujikeleze indlu ziyimilingo ecocekileyo kwiintsana.
- Invest in a few key key play items. Iimpawu zokudlala ziindlela enkulu yokunceda abancinci basebenzise amandla athile ngelixa besakha amandla kunye nokulinganisela. Isanti esomeleleyo kunye netafile yamanzi okanye i-kiddie pool iya kubangela ukuba abantwana banomsebenzi ngokukhawuleza xa benandipha ngaphandle. Kwaye, ke, iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zebhola zihlala zihlaselwa.
- Mthabathe epakini. Kungaba nzima ukubukela umncinane wakho ukhubeke kwaye aqhubeke njengoko ephethe izixhobo, kodwa ngokubambisana nemithetho ethile yokukhusela ukhuseleko lweendawo zokudlala ungaqinisekisa ixesha elifanelekileyo.