Indlela Yokusinda Esi Sigaba Sobungozi
Kuyinto ekhangelekile ngexesha lokuqala lokuzama kwakho ukuzama ukuzityhila kwiqhekeza. Akunakukwazi ukuyeka ukumomotheka kunye neengqungquthela; mhlawumbi unako ukulawula umzabalazo wakhe wokunqoba i-Lay-Z-Boy ukuze ukwazi ukukholelwa. Dlulela phambili kwiiveki ezimbalwa okanye ezimbalwa iinyanga ezimbalwa, nangona, kwaye unomdla ovuyayo unokuthi uhambe njengoko ubukela umntwana wakho ozama ukulinganisa zonke iifenitshala okanye isakhiwo esilungileyo endleleni yakhe.
Siyakwamkela kwilizwe lokukhulisa umntwana osemncinci, ukuba kube lula kakhulu. Ukunyuka kubaluleke kakhulu ekuphuhliseni izakhono zezithuthi ezizenzekelayo , kodwa kunokuziphatha kakubi kubazali ukulawula. Okona kuncinci, kungabonakala kungalungile kwaye kukhwankqise. Kungakhokelela ekubhujisweni kweeninzi zokulala okanye i-bookcase. Into ebaluleke kakhulu kubazali abaninzi, nangona kunjalo, ukhuseleko. Umntwana wakho uya kuwa. Uyakwazi ukutshatyalaliswa aze aphuhlise kwaye angase ahlupheke nakakhulu.
Ngokubhekiselele kwimeko enobungozi, unokufuna ukuphelisa ukunyuka. Ukuzama ukumisa umncinci osenyukayo akunakusebenza, nangona kunjalo. Indlela engcono kukuba ufunde oko kushukumisela umntwana wakho ukuba akhuphuke, khangela iindlela zokwenza ukuba uvuselele kwaye uyenze nantoni na enako ukunciphisa ingozi yokulimala.
Kutheni abantwana abakhulayo bekhuphuka
Bakhuphuka kuba banako (okanye ubuncinci bangayenza). Abantwana baqala ukufumana ulawulo olukhulu malunga nokunyakaza komzimba wabo malunga neenyanga ezili-18 ubudala .
Bayaqonda ukuba bayayiphonsa ibhola, baqhube ngokukhawuleza epakini, baze bazenzele ifenitshala. Akumsulwa ekuqaleni: umncinane wakho ufuna nje ukuhlala esihlalweni esinjengomama noyise. Xa sele efumana amandla emzimbeni wakhe, nokuba kunjalo, umntwana wakho unokufuna ukuhlola imida njengoko akwenzayo nayo yonke into.
Kwabanye abantwana, ukukhunjelwa okungenakukhunjulwa kunye noloyiko oluqondakalayo kwezi ndawo eziphakamileyo kunele ukubenza bangabikho kwimida. Ezi zintsapho ziyakuthi zikhungatheke ngokukhawuleza ukuba zikhuphuke zizikhumbuzo ezimbalwa kunye nezibonakaliso zokuba izihlalo zokuhlala kunye neebhukhimethi azikho amanyathelo.
Kukho olunye uhlobo lobuntu, nangona kunjalo, aluyi kunqunyulwa. Kwaba bafana nabantwana abaneminyaka emi-2 ubudala, ukunyuka kuyinto evuyisayo. Bobabili bafuna ukuguqula izihlunu zabo baze banelise iinqwenela zabo malunga nezinto eziphakamileyo apho. Iintsana kunye nabantwana bakhulileyo banokuthi bazimisele ngakumbi ukunyuka kwabo kuba bazama ukuxelisa abantwana abazungezile.
Ungayimisa njani i-Climber?
Mfutshane ukususa ukusuka kwikhaya yakho yonke into ecacileyo kunye nezinto ezinokuthi zitshintshwe ngokuzenzekelayo, awukwazi ukuyeka ukunyuka. Kwaye, ngokwenene, awufuni (ubuncinane kungekudala). Ukunyuka kwindlela enhle kakhulu yabantwana abancinci ukwakha amandla, ukulungelelanisa kunye nokulinganisela. Kwakhona yindlela yokuba abantwana abancinci bafunde malunga nokusingqongileyo kunye nokuzithemba.
Ewe, nangona ukhulula umyalelo wokunyuka kwendlu yakho, kukho indawo kunye namaxesha apho ukunyuka nje akunakuvunyelwa.
(Ixesha elincinci lizama ukucwangcisa icawa ngexesha leenkonzo ziza kwengqondo.) Kule meko, unokuzama ukusebenzisa iindlela zokuziphatha ezifanelekileyo ukuyeka ukuziphatha okuthe ngqo, kodwa zama ukuphepha ukwenza ukuba kubonakale ukuba konke ukunyuka akuvumelekile. Ukuba ukuphendula kwakho kunoma yiyiphi na ukunyuka kwayo kuyamangalisa kwaye kukuvakala, ungase ulahlekelwe ngengozi kwelinye lemiba yokuziphatha encinci kakhulu: ukuguqula into engavumelekanga kumdlalo omnandi othobela umama.
Ukutshintshisa iGunya lakho leNtsapho kunye nomdla kwenye indawo
Nangona abanye abantwana bebonakala 'bekhuphuka' ngokwemvelo, akuthethi ukuba umntwana wakho uya kuvuyiswa xa ekhawuleza (kunye non--all-long-structures).
Kwintliziyo yomnqweno wokwenyuka ngumntu onqwenela ukusikhangela. Uyakwazi ukuphepha ukukhathazeka kunye neengxabano eziza kunye nokunyuka ukuba unako ukwanelisa ukuba umntwana wakho unqwenele ukuhamba nemisebenzi egcina iinyawo zakhe emhlabathini.
Into yokuqala enokufuneka uyenze ngoko kukuvuma ukuba abantwana abaselula abakwenziwanga ukuhlala. Ukuza ngokuvumelana nelo qiniso kunokukunceda ube nesigulane xa ubhekene ne-tyke eneqhwa.
Emva koko, kufuneka unike umntwana wakho ixesha kunye nendawo ukuba ahambe. Iyure okanye ezimbini kwididi okanye kwindawo yokudlala ihle kakhulu, kwaye inokuthabatha umntwana omncinane kangangokuthi uya kufuna ukulala okanye ukuphumla ixesha elithile emva koko, kodwa xa evuka kwakhona, uya kulungela ukuya, ukuya , buya kwakhona. Ukuba uzama ukugcina umntanakho uvalelwe okanye unikezele amathoyizi ahlala nje "kwiindawo ezahlukileyo zokuhlala" ziyakwazi ukubuyela emva kwaye zitshintshe umntwana wakho osebenzayo (ngokoqobo) ukuqala ukuphakama izindonga.
AmaMama avuma ukuba abantwana babo banesidingo sokugijima, bagxume, kwaye banokukhwela banokukwazi ukufumana ulawulo oluninzi malunga neemeko ngokubeka indawo yokudlala ekhuselekileyo yokunyuka. Fumana indawo ngaphakathi okanye ngaphandle apho unako ukunika umntwana wakho inkululeko yokuhlola ngokuzimeleyo aze agcwalise loo ndawo ngamathoyizi akhuthaza abantwana ukuba basebenze kunye nemilenze, i-bedding cushions, kunye nezinto ezizithobileyo ukuba abantwana bangakwazi ukukhupha nokunyuka. Ukuba nomdlali ojikelezayo kungaphazamisa umntwana wakho ekukhuphukeni. nokuba ngaba babini kuphela abadlala kwindawo yokudlala efanayo , i-pal inokuphelisa intswelo yokuba abathile bephakama kufuneka bafumane into emnandi ngakumbi.
Ukugcina Abancinci abaselula
Ngokuqinisekileyo konke ukwamkela nokuphazamisa kwihlabathi akuyi kukuyeka ukuba ungene ngokutya xa ufumana umntanakho uqala ukutshitshisa kwiphepha lefestile okanye ukuxhoma kumkhangeli. Kodwa ke, ukuba uyazi ukuba unako ukuyeka ukunyuka, unako ukugxila ekudaleni indawo ekhuselekileyo yokukhusela abantwana abaya kuba (ngokuqinisekileyo) bayawa.
Omnye ummandla ukuhlawula ngokukhethekileyo ukhuseleko lomkhuhlane . Ngokuqhelekileyo ayithatha ixesha elide ukuba abaqhubi bafunde ukuba balinganise njani amacala omlobo. Abanye abazali banokuzama ukugcina umntwana okhuselekileyo kwisibhedlele ngokusebenzisa itende le-crib . Abanye bakubona njengesibonakaliso sokuba sekuyisikhathi sokutshintshana encinane kwibhedi . Ukuba ukhetha ukugcina umntwana wakho kwisibhedlele, kungenokuba ngcono ukuba wenze kube lula kwaye ukhuseleke kunokwenzeka ukuba umntwana aphume. Esikhundleni sokuthatha umngcipheko wokuthi umntwana wakho oza kubangela ukulimala ekuphumeni kwakhe kwisibhedlele ukusuka kwindawo ephakamileyo, unokubeka ifenitshala ekhuselekile kufuphi nesiqwenga ukuba umntwana wakho onganako ukunyuka kwaye apho angakwazi ukuzihlalisa khona lula mgangatho. Iingcaphetha zincoma ukuba ungasebenzisi imilenze ejikeleze isikhalazo ukuba uhlasele ukuwa kwezingane ukususela ekubeni ezi zihamba ngokulula kwaye zishiye umntwana wakho osengozini yokulimala.
Ngaphandle kwee-nursery, jonga ngeenxa zonke kwimimandla apho umntwana wakho odlalayo edlalayo aze abone indlela onokuyenza ngayo indawo ekhuselekileyo ngokuthatha amanyathelo afana ne:
- Ukubeka i-stolen-friendly friendly stool kufuphi neelabhile okanye ezinye iindawo angakwazi ukufikelela kuzo (kwaye apho ungacingi ukuba uyabamba izinto kwi-shelf).
- Phakamisa i-trinkets, i-knickknacks kunye nezinye izinto ezikumagumbi ezincinane ezisisigxina (okwethutyana; kufuneka ubenokukwazi ukuzikhupha ngaphandle xa umntwana wakho ehlasela esikolweni).
- Hambisa ifenitshala kude kwiifestile uze uqinisekise ukuba zonke iifestile zigcinwe ngokufanelekileyo ukukhusela ukuwa.
Enye into yokugqibela ukugcina engqondweni kukuba ukunyuka ngenye yezo zigaba abancinci baya kudlula. Naluphi na uxinzelelo oluvakalelwa ngoku, khumbula ukuba akuyi kuba ngonaphakade. Umntanakho uya kukhupha umnqweno wokunyuka kuyo yonke into ... njengoko efumanisa into entsha enokukwenza uzive uxhalabile.