NgoFebruwari 2014, ihlabathi layithanda kakhulu ibali likaAnais Bordier noSamantha Futerman. Amantombazana amabini, aphakanyiswe kwiizwekazi ezahlukeneyo, amawele afunyanisana nge-Facebook kunye ne-YouTube. Ibali labo elimnandi ngumzekelo omnye wezinto ezibangelwa amawele ahlukaniswe ngokuzalwa. Xa behlangene kwakhona, bahlala befumana ukufana okumangalisayo kunye neziganeko.
NjengoAnais noSamantha, uJames Arthur Springer noJames Edward Lewis bamkelwa yimindeni eyahlukileyo kwaye bahlukana. Ngowe-1979. Eneminyaka engamashumi amathathu nesithoba, bahlanganisana. Emva kokubandakanyeka kwiSifundo seNtsapho yaseMinnesota iTwin, kukho ukufana okuphawulekayo. Umzekelo (ukusuka kwincwadi ethi Entwined Lives nguNancy Segal):
- Zemvelo: zombini zinamitha ezintandathu ubude kwaye zilinganisa i-lbs eziyi-180.
- Umtshato: bobabini babetshatile kabini. Okubaluleke ngakumbi, bobabini abafazi babo bokuqala babibizwa ngokuthi nguLinda kunye nabafazi babo besibini babizwa ngokuba nguBetty.
- Abantwana: Oonyana babo banegama elifanayo (uJames Alan noJames Allan)
- Izilwanyana: Bobabini babenenja ebizwa ngokuthi i-Toy ekhulayo.
- Ingqesho: Bobabini basebenze ekunyanzelweni komthetho njengabaphathi
- Okuthandayo: Bobabini bavutha iA Salem baze basela ibhiya leMiller Lite
- Iimpawu: Zomibini zinyana iminwe
Kodwa kwakukho ukungafani. Babenentlobo ezahlukeneyo zezinwele. Omnye utshatile okwesithathu. Kwaye omnye wayekwazi ukuthetha ngelixa omnye wayengumbhali ongcono.
Amanye amabali
U-Paula Bernstein no-Elyse Schein bafana noodade odade babhala incwadi malunga namava abo. Abahambi abaqhelekileyo bachaze ibali labo. Baye bahlukana yinkampani yokwamkelwa e-New York eyafuna ukwahlula amawele afanayo njengabantwana baze balandele ukuphuhliswa kwabo njengoluvavanyo.
Abazange bazi ukuba omnye ukhona. Emva kweminyaka engamashumi amathathu anesihlanu, xa u-Elyse eqala uphando malunga nosapho lwakhe lokuzalwa, wafumanisa ukuba wayenodade.
U-Anna Kandl no-Ella Cuares bamkelwa kwiChina ngo-2006 kwaye bakhuliswa e-United States. Oomama abazithobileyo baqhagamshelana ukuba amantombazana azalwa ngexesha elinye kwaye abe nokusola ukuba banokuxhamla. Emva kokuvavanya, kwaqinisekiswa ukuba babe ngamawele omzalwana . Nangona iintsapho zihlala kumazwe ahlukeneyo, zikhuthaza ubudlelwane bamantombazana. Ibali labo lichanekile kule nkqubo yeendaba.
U-Emilie Falk kunye no-Lin Backman bazalwe e-Indonesia kwaye bobabini bezamkelwa yiintsapho eSweden. Bakhula malunga neekhilomitha ezingamashumi amabini anesithandathu kodwa bebengalana baze bafune ukukhangela i-intanethi baze badibana kunye kwaye bahlanganisana iminyaka engamashumi amathathu kamva. Inqaku lichaza ukuba bobabini abantombazana ngabafundisi, banomnye umtshato wesiganeko kunye nokudansa kumculo womtshato ofanayo.
UBarbara Herbert noDaphne Goodship bamkelwe yimindeni eyahlukileyo emva kokuba umama azibulale. Xa baphinde bahlanganiswa njengabantu abadala, bafumanisa iziganeko ezininzi ezinobomi babo. Bobabini bashiya isikolo ngo-14 baza badibana nabayeni babo xa babeneminyaka eyi-16.
Bobabini babethatyathwa ngamathambo enyangeni enye, ngoko babenabantwana ababini nentombi. Bobabini bakhetha ikhofi yabo yokubanda kwaye babe ne-phobias malunga negazi kunye neziphakamileyo. Babenentliziyo efanayo, ukuxuba, ingxaki ye-thyroid kunye nokunyamezela.
Amawele ezafana ngokwabelana ngesini ayenjalo kuphela ahlukeneyo ngexesha lokuzalwa. Kukho ibali lendoda kunye nomfazi otshatileyo ngaphandle kokuqonda ukuba babengumzalwana nodade. Amawele ahlukana xa ezalwa kwaye adibana njengabantu abadala kwaye aziva "ukukhangeka okungenakukugwema." Nangona ubume babo abuzange benziwe luluntu, ibali labo linyanzelisa uluntu kunye nezopolitiko kumalungelo omthetho abantu ukuba bakwazi ukufikelela kwii-biological identity.