Umntwana wam akayi kuhamba kwiindawo zokuphumla zikarhulumente

Ukungafuni ukungena kwiindawo zokuphumla zikarhulumente yingxaki eqhelekileyo kwaye kukho iindlela ezininzi ongayisingatha. Nika ezinye zezi mbululo:

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Hamba ngePotty ngaphambi kokuba uhambe ekhaya uze ugcine iziphumo zakho zifutshane

Ukuba uyazi ukuba uya kuphuma kwaye malunga, yenza intombi yakho isebenzise indlu yokuhlambela ngaphambi kokuba ushiye indlu. Gcina uhambo lwakho ukuya kumncinci kwaye xa uphuma, yenza uhambo lwakho lufutshane kwaye lube mnandi ukuze uhlale kwikhaya ngexesha lokuba usebenzise amandla xa isifungo siphinda kwakhona.

Oku kukwenene ukuphepha, nangona kunjalo, kunokuzama ukulungisa ingxaki. Ngenxa yoko, ndiyincoma le nkqubo yesenzo kuphela xa ingxaki inzima okanye ukuba umntwana wakho uqala ukuyeka ukuya ebhodweni nonke. Esi sisisombululo sethutyana kwaye kufuneka uzame ezinye zeengcebiso apha ngezantsi kwaye uthembele kule ncinane nangaphantsi.

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Yiya Ebhodwini Ekuziphatheleni Uluntu

Nangona akufanele uhambe kwaye akayi kuhamba, nayiphi na ixesha ozifumanayo esidlangalaleni libuyisele ithuba lokukubona usebenzisa indlu yokuphumla yoluntu kwaye ufunde ukuba akuyindawo eyoyikisayo emva kwayo yonke into . Nangona uvele uhlamba izandla okanye ukhangele isibuko, mthabathe. Oku kumnika ithuba lokujonga izinto ngaphandle kweengcinezelo okanye umzabalazo wamandla. Uyakwazi ukuhlola izinto kwaye azizimelele ngendalo kwaye angagxininise nakwezinye izinto. Ukuziqhelanisa kuzisa intuthuzelo, ngoko kuya kumkhokelela ukuba angakhathazeki ngokuhamba ngokutya.

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Ukunciphisa iNqanaba loMsindo

Mhlawumbi ingxaki enkulu kwiindawo zokuhlambela zikarhulumente ingxolo. Kwabantwana abakhathalelayo kuyo, kunokuthetha kakhulu kwiintliziyo zabo. Ukuthwala iiplagi zendlebe kunye nawe okanye ulayishe i-iPod yakho ngeengoma ezimbalwa ezizithandayo ukuze ujabule ngexesha lokubhaka. Okanye umthwalo wevidiyo iPod okanye ifowuni kunye neefilimu ezihlekisayo - qaphela nje ukuba ungayishiyi (ewww). Gwema izindlu zokuhlala ngeendawo ezininzi. Iimpawu ezingaphezulu = ngaphezulu kwengxolo. Gwema ukuvuthela ngesandla - thatha iipilisi zakho zamaphepha. Kwiifilimu, utshitshise intsapho okanye indawo yokugcina indawo yokulala (ezi zinto zihlala zinezindlu zangasese kuphela) esikhundleni somkhulu. Myeke e-stall aze alinde nge-sink ngelixa uyamtshiza. Khetha i-stall engenazo ezinye izitampu ezungeze kuyo okanye enye ejikelezwe ngamashishini angagcini ukugcina ingxolo ikude.

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Thatha i-Insert okanye Hlala nomntwana wakho

Ngamanye amaxesha unokwenza indawo engaqhelekanga uzive unobungane ngokuzisa into esuka ekhaya. Unokuthatha isitulo sakho samathambo (leyo yintando enkulu, kodwa isebenza kwabanye) okanye ingeniso ehambelana nesihlalo sendawo yangasese. Umqobo omkhulu kubantwana abathile ukwesaba ukuwela emanzini. Ukuba oku sele kwenzekile kumntwana wakho kwaye bayesaba ukuba kuya kuphinda kwenzeke kwakhona, ngoko ndiza kuthetha ukuthatha i-insert kufuneka. Ndibone ukuyeka ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi kwiinyanga ezili ngaphezu komntwana eshiya isitulo kunye nesiseko sawo sokushaya amanzi. Ukuba awufuni ukuthatha isihlalo okanye ufaka kunye, hlalani nomntwana wakho. Hlola kwindlu yangasese kude ngokwaneleyo ukushiya igumbi elithile lomntwana wakho, mfumene apho kwaye ubambe kuye ngelixa ehamba.

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Gwema i-Splash

Esinye isithintelo sinokuvela ekutyeni kwamanzi xa umntwana ehamba . Ukuze ugweme le nto, qhekeza iphepha elithile lendlu yangasese uze uyiphonsa endlwini yangasese ngaphambi kokuba umntwana wakho ahambe ukuze i-poop ibe ne-pad pad. Oku kungaba ngumcimbi omkhulu kubantwana abasetyenziselwa ukusebenzisa isihlalo samathambo ekhaya apho kungekho manzi ngaphakathi.

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Yiya Ngaphandle Kokuzonwabisa

Ukuphazamiseka kunokuba luncedo esinamandla xa ukhupha abantwana kwaye nanko akukho nto. Ukuba uya kwindawo ethile yokuzonwabisa, unokufumanisa ukuba umntwana wakho uphazamisekile kwaye ugxininise kuyo yonke into abakulibalayo ngokungafuni ukungena kwindawo yokuhlambela. Oku kwakuyinyaniso enyana wam ongeke ahambe, ixesha. Ekhaya okanye ngaphandle! Saya kwi-Toys R Us kwaye sihlolisise de kwafuneka ahambe. Wayekhululekile kakhulu, wangena ngqo waza waqhaqhaza ngaphandle kokukhwaza kunye nokukhawuleza kwaye waphinda waphuma emva kokuhlola zonke iimathoyizi emva kwexesha. Kwakungumhla wokuphumelela, njengoko engazange abe nengxaki ebantwini emva koko. Ngoko khetha apho umntwana wakho ekuthanda ukuya khona aze abone ukuba uyamkhawuleza okanye umphazamise ngokwaneleyo ukuze azame ubume bombutho.

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Yenza "Akukho Bumbi, Akukho Mdlalo"

Ungasebenzisa kwakhona indawo ezonwabisayo ukuze ube nenzuzo nge "Ukuba, ke". "Ukuba uhamba ngamanzi, unako ukudlala epakini." Khetha kwindawo oyaziyo ukuba uyayithanda njengepaki okanye umgodi webhola endaweni ye-pizza. Ngaphambi kwangoko, thetha ngezinto zonke ezimnandi azithandayo ukuzenza apho. Xa ulapho, yibaluleke kakhulu-kwaye-mxelele ukuba kufuneka adle ngaphambi kokudlala. (Kwakhona isicwangciso esilungileyo ukuba uyazonda ukuphazamisa umdlalo ukuze uphume.) Ukuba uyayenqaba, xelela ukuba uya kufuneka uhambe ekhaya ngenxa yokuba akanakunqanda okanye afune ukudlala. Mnike ithuba lokutshintsha ingqondo yakhe, kodwa ukuba unqabe ukuhamba-kwaye le nto iyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu - landela kwaye ubuyele ekhaya. Ukuba awukwazi, uyazi ukuba awunzima kwaye le mbambano ayiyi kusebenza.

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Yiya kwindawo ethile eyaziwayo okanye ngaphezulu ukuba ayikho ekhaya

Ngamanye amaxesha, kukho amaqela ahlukeneyo karhulumente ukuba umntwana wakho uya kuzinyamezela kwaye ukunyuka ngokuthe ngcembe kunokwenza izinto ezimangalisayo. Zama ukuya kulungu lentsapho okanye kwindlu yomhlobo uze usebenzise indawo yokuhlambela. Emva koko uzame ukusebenzisa indlu yokuhlambela ecaweni. Emva koko zama indlu yokuhlambela encinci, i-bookstore epholile okanye ivenkile yekhofi. Umntwana wakho unokufumana inzuzo kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zokuhlambela ezingekho ekhaya, kodwa mhlawumbi ama-standi angama-8 000 eWal-Mart ayingxowankulu kuye ngoku. Sebenzisa indlela yakho ukuya kuyo.

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Tshintsha i-Diapers kunye ne-Pull-Ups

Xa intombi yakho ifuna i-diaper kwaye ulungele enye, uyazi ukuba ikhona kuyo. Iba yi-crutch. Kodwa ngaba uyayidinga ngempela? Ndiyakuva xa uthe uya kuba neengozi xa ungamniki i-diaper, kodwa oko ndikuvayo kukuba uya kuhamba ngokukhawuleza emva kokubeka i-diaper kwaye uya kuzinzela ngenjongo okanye athobe ngebhulukhwe zakhe ukuba uyenqaba ukumnika i-diaper. Ngoko, oku kumxelela ukuba uyazi oko akwenzayo kwaye le ngxaki yomzabalazo wamandla kuye. Kufuneka ulandele nje i-diapers ngokupheleleyo. Qinisekisa ukuba uyazi ukuba sele ehamba kwaye ungathengi nangakumbi kuba ulungile kakhulu ekusebenziseni indlu yokuhlambela. Ndibetha ukuba uya kuba nomphumo ohlukileyo xa eyazi ukuba abakho khona ngokumelene nabo.

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Ziqhelise, Ziqhelise, Ziqhelise kunye Nidumise

Xa umntwana wakho ehamba ngokukhawuleza, zibophelele ekusebenzeni amaninzi. Qalisa amaninzi amancinci amancinci malunga namaxesha emininzi ukuqinisa isakhono esitsha. Ngelixa u kufuphi neendawo zokuhlala, khangela uhlolisise kwaye ubone ukuba kufuneka ahambe. Nangona umntwana wakho wenza inkqubela encinane - ngoku uzimisele ukuma kwisitampu ngenkathi uhamba, kodwa akakulungele ukwenza ukuzithemba ngokwabo, umzekelo - qhubeka uqhuba kwaye ulungile. Mnike indumiso ngomzamo ngamnye awenzayo, kodwa ungayithandi.

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Yihlambulule

Ukuba unengozi, qiniseka ukuba nguye owenza uninzi lwe-clean-up. Ukuba awukwenzi oko ekhaya, qalisa. Ndiyacela. Musa ukuyikhupha ngaphandle kwayo. Qinisekisa ukuba uyazi lo msebenzi wakhe ngaphambi kwexesha. Oku akusiyo nje isifundo sokuzimela kunye noxanduva, kodwa kuyimfuneko yokufumana ingozi kwixesha elizayo. Ukucocwa kweengozi kuphazamisayo kwaye kuninzi umsebenzi. Uya kufunda ukuwaphepha kwikamva xa kunokwenzeka kodwa kungekhona ukuba nguwe owenza wonke umsebenzi. Ndiyazi ukuba abanye abazali bacinga ukuba oku kuthetha okanye ukuba abantwana babo abakwazi ukuyisebenzisa, kodwa themba mna, ukuba umntwana wakho ulungele kwaye unako ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi, ngoko ulungele ukuhlambulula izidlo zakhe. Qinisekisa ukuba awuyiphatha njengesijeziso. Yingxenye nje yobomi.

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Hlola Ukuzivocaza Kwakho

Khumbula kwakhona, ukuba uqaphele nayiphi na impawu ongayithumelayo. Ukuba unqabile ukubeka abacwangcisi beemakhishithi ezingama-20, uphonsa uLysol kwimihlaba yonke, uhlamba ngesandla kwisinyanzelo emva koko kwaye umtshilo ngokusoloko ukuba angathinti nantoni na, ngoko unokuzikhethela. Yinto enye ukukhuseleka nokulumkisa, kodwa yinto enye yokwesaba kunye ne-paranoid. Ngokuqinisekileyo ufuna ukuba umntwana wakho alandele inkqubo efanelekileyo yobuthakathaka, kodwa okwangoku, gxotha nayiphi na isoyiko elibonakalayo elinokuchaphazela intuthuzelo yengane yakho kunye neendawo zokuphumla zikarhulumente.