Abantwana abakhulileyo banokukuxelela xa belambile, kodwa iintsana neentsana azikwazi. Hayi, ubuncinane kungekhona ngamazwi. Kodwa, iintsana ziyakwazi ukuthetha oko zifuna ngezinye iindlela. Ekuqaleni, ungeke uqaphele iincwadana zakho zokutya, kodwa njengoko ufumana umntwana wakho kwiintsuku kunye neveki emva kokuzalwa kwakhe, uya kuqalisa ukuqonda iingcebiso ezincinane eziza kukuxelela xa elambile kwaye elungele nobisi lwebele .
Nazi ezinye iimpawu ezisixhenxe eziqhelekileyo ukujonga ukuba umntwana wakho ulambile.
- Uvukile kwaye uqaphele okanye uvuka nje.
- Izandla kunye nemilenze yakhe iyahamba yonke indawo.
- Ubeka iminwe yakhe okanye intonga yakhe emlonyeni wakhe.
- Uyasela emlonyeni wakhe okanye ngolwimi.
- Uhambisa intloko yakhe ecaleni.
- Ujikelele entle yakho xa ubamba.
- Ukuqhaqhazela, ukububula, ukukhwaza, okanye ukwenza ezinye izandi ezincinane.
- Yenza ubuso.
- Akaphumli, agxininisa, axabana, ahlasele, okanye ajikeleze.
Ngaba Ukukhala Isibonakaliso Sendlala?
Mhlawumbi uvile abanye bathi uya kuthi xa umntwana wakho elambile kuba uya kulila. Yaye, oko kunjalo, umntwana wakho uya kulila xa elambile; Nangona kunjalo, ukukhala kuyisigxina sexesha lokulamba. Ngethuba lakho umntwana ekhalayo mhlawumbi ulambile kakhulu. Kungenzeka ukuba udidekile, naye. Kule ngongoma, kunokuba nzima ukumthobela. Kwaye, ukuba umntwana uyagxininiswa okanye aphelelwe yinto, kunokuba nzima ukuba amkhange kwaye amncelise .
Ukukhala kwakhona kusebenzisa amandla amaninzi ukuze umntwana okhalayo angakhathali kwaye angalondeli. Uya kufuna ukwenza okusemandleni akho ukuba unike isondlo ngaphambi kokuba umntwana wakho aqale ukukhala, ingakumbi ukuba uphapheme kwaye uqaphele.
Ukuba Kukho Izibonakaliso Zokulamba Nokuba Emva kokutya
Ukuba ubeka ingqalelo kwimiba yokutya komntwana wakho kunokuba ubeke umntwana wakho kwishedyuli, unokufumanisa ukuba umntwana ulambile nganye iiyure okanye njalo kwiiyure ezimbalwa, aze alele ixesha elide.
Xa umntwana efuna ukuncelisa amaxesha amaninzi ngexesha elifutshane, kuthiwa iqoqo okanye isondlo sokutya . Olu hlobo lwenkcazo yokutya luyabonakala kwaye alukho isizathu sokukhathazeka. Ngoko, nantoni na xa umntwana wakho elambile, nikela isifuba nangona kudla rhoqo.
Iimfuno zolambile kunye neentlobo zokukhula
Iintsana zingabonisa kwakhona iimpawu zokulamba xa zihamba ngokukhula . Ngethuba lokukhula kancinci, kunokubonakala ngathi umntwana wakho ufuna ukuncelisa intsuku yonke kwaye akaze aneliseke okanye azalise. Nangona kubonakala ngathi unesana alunelanga ubisi lwebele, ukunyuka kokukhula kungomnye umzekelo wesondlo oqhelekileyo oza kuvela xa usana lwakho olutsha lukhula. Unako ukuqhubeka ubeka umntwana wakho kwibele rhoqo. Iimpawu zokuhlala zilambile zimele zigcine iintsuku ezimbalwa ngelixa zonke zokuncelisa ukutshiza zibonisa umzimba wakho ukwandisa ukunikezelwa kobisi lwebele . Emva koko, njengokuba umzimba wakho wenza ubisi obisi ngakumbi ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zomntwanakho, uya kuqala ukuhlahlela ukuya kwindlela yokuncelisa.
Ukuba umntwana wakho osana olutsha alubonakalisi naziphi na iimpawu zokulamba
Ukuba unesisu esilalayo , unganakuboni nayiphi na impawu eziqhelekileyo zokulamba. Kungathi ngathi yonke intsha yakho ifuna ukuyenza.
Kodwa, ukungabikho kokutya okucacileyo akuthethi ukuba umntwana wakho akalambile. Iintsana zidinga ukuncelisa ubuncinane kwiiyure ezingama-8 ukuya kwezi-12 kwixesha leeyure ezingama-24, ngoko qiniseka ukuvusa umntwana ukuba udle ubuncinane zonke iiyure ezingama-3 ukuba akavuki. Unokuzama ukubeka umntwana wakho kwibele nangona kungelula ukumvusa. Uya kumangaliswa ukuba ezinye iintsana zinokuyinyamezela njani nangona zingapheli.
Ngexesha lokuya kubiza ugqirha
Ixesha lokuba ubize ugqirha ukuba wakho omncinci ulele kwaye ufumana ixesha elinzima ukumvusa ngenxa yokutya kwakhe. Kumele uqhagamshelane nezingane zakudala ukuba umntwana wakho ubonisa iimpawu zokulamba kweentsuku ezimbalwa.
Iintsana kufuneka zincelise rhoqo ukuba zihlale zi-hydrated kwaye zithole isondlo abazifunayo. Kodwa, ukuba umntwana wakho engabonakali iimpawu zendlala kwaye elele ekudleni okanye elambile imihla, akanako ukufumana ubisi lwebele . Ugqirha wengane wakho unokuhlola kwaye ulinganise umntwana wakho ukuqinisekisa ukuba unempilo, uzuza ubunzima , kwaye ufumana ukutya okunomsoco akufunayo.
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