Indlela Yokuncwina Umntwana Wakho

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Isondlo kwiintsana

Ukondla umntwana wakho kungaphezulu nje komcimbi wesondlo, kukwazisa nangokukhuthaza. Ukusebenzisa ixesha lokutya ukuze uqhagamshelane nelizwi kwaye ubambe umntwana wakho ziindlela eziphezulu zokunyusa ixesha lokubambisana. Kwakhona sikhulu ixesha lokuthetha nomncinane wakho.

Ukubeleka kukubonelela wena kunye nosana lwakho ngeenzuzo ezininzi . Ukusuka kwintsana ephilileyo ene-IQ ephezulu kumama ovame ukulahlekelwa isisindo sakhe sokukhulelwa ngokukhawuleza kwaye unexesha elininzi lokukhululeka, ukuncelisa kulungele ukuba wonke umntu ochaphazelekayo. Kwakhona ibiza imali encinci kunezinye iindlela zokondla ngokubhekisele kwiinzuzo zezempilo.

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Ukukhetha Indawo yokuxhatshazwa

Unokukhetha nayiphi na indawo ofuna ukuyifumana, nokuba ngaba uhleli okanye ubeke isikhundla. Kufuneka kube yinto ekunika isithuba esona sikhulu sokondla umntwana wakho kunye neemfuno zabo. Oku kuyahluka ngobudala bomntwana, izinga lakho lokuthuthuzela kunye nexesha lemihla. Abantu abaninzi basebenzisa ibamba lokulala, kunye nomama ehleli ngokuthe tye, ebambe umntwana njengomntwana. Oku kukuvumela ukuba ubambe umntwana ngesandla esisodwa kwaye usebenzise enye ukuxhasa okanye ukuhambisa isifuba sakho

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Ukuxhasa iNtsana Ngona Ukhuseleko

Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yiyiphi isigqibo oya kugqiba kuyo, fumana inkxaso! Umlambo onomnyobisi okanye usebenzise umbhede okanye imithwalo yokulala ukukunceda ukuba ubambe umntwana uya kusindisa intlungu entanyeni nasemva. Cela uncedo kwabanye ukuba ufunda nje.

Ungathenga imithwalo emininzi yokwenza umsebenzi ofanayo, kodwa amaninzi amaninzi afumana ukuba nantoni na ephakamisa iingalo zawo, igcina ingxaki. Oku kwenza ukuba imilenze eyenziwe ngononophelo i-luxury for most mothers. Ukuba unamawele atyayo , umlotha owenzelwe ngokukhethekileyo unokuba lukhetho olukhulu

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Ukubekwa kwabantwana kwi Breast

I-latch enhle yenye yezona ndawo zibaluleke kakhulu zokuncelisa. Oku kubuyela ngqo kwisithuba esihle somntwana. Umntwana wakho kufuneka abe sesisu esiswini sakho kunye nesinyobele. Ukuba umntwana usontshisiwe okanye uphendubile intloko, unokukwenza ukuba kunzima kakhulu ukuba bafumane ubisi, kodwa kunokukwenza ukuba izikhwebu zakho zibe nzima.

Abantwana abakhulileyo banokuthi bajikeleze xa bebahlengikazi. Oku kubonakala kungabangela ukuba uninzi unina lubuhlungu. Kodwa ungavumeli umntwana wakho osanda kuzalwa afunde imikhwa engamaqabane abancinci asebekhulile, akakwazi nje ukubaleka kunye neentlobo zeendawo ezifana nezokwelapha ezinokuthi zenze ntoni emva kwezigaba.

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Ukukhangela umntwana wakho

Sebenzisa isandla sakho esisodwa kwikomityi yebele kwaye uyinike umntwana. Umntwana kufuneka avule umlomo wakhe ngokwaneleyo ukuba athathe inxalenye efanelekileyo ye-tisola tissue (inxalenye emnyama yebele) emlonyeni. Njengomntwana oku kwenza ukuba bawabethe eduze kwebele kwaye babone umongikazi.

Ukuba awuzange ufumane i-latch yokuqala okokuqala, ungalingeki ukuba ushiye umntwana nantoni na. Oku kungaba ngumthombo weengono ezinzima. Susa nje umntwana osuswini kwaye uzame kwakhona. Ingathatha amalinge ambalwa ngaphambi kokuba ufumane i-latch efanelekileyo. Njengoko umntwana wakho ufunda ukuncelisa, kuya kuba lula.

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Yintoni Ukujonga Nokuphulaphula Ngona Nangona Umntwana Unesihlengikazi

Ngoxa umntwana usanala ufuna ukujonga izinto ezimbalwa ukuqinisekisa ukuba konke kulungile. Umntwana kufuneka abe nemilomo yabo evulekileyo. Ukuba udonsa umlomo ophantsi ngaphantsi kancane (ngelixa unamongikazi) ulwimi kufuneka lugqitywe malunga nesifuba. Kananjalo unokuva umntwana eginya kwaye abukele iindlebe zakhe ezigubungelayo xa ekhulisayo.

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Ukugqiba Ukutya

Xa umntwana efuna ikhefu, lixesha lokutshintsha amacandelo okanye ugqityiwe, gxotha umunwe ekhoneni lomlomo wabo ukuphulaphula ngokukhawuleza ukutsalwa. Ukuba awukwenzi oku, uzakuzenza ezininzi iintlungu. Unokunikezela kwelinye icala ngokulandela amanyathelo afanayo.