Ukuncelisa ukubeleka kwenza okungaphezulu nje kokubonelela umthombo wesondlo kumntwana wakho. Kwakunokumthuthuzela xa egula, uloyike ukwesaba xa eyika, uthuthukise intlungu xa emele, kwaye uncedise ukuba alele xa elele. Abantwana baziziva bekhuselekile xa besesiswini, bahlanganiswe ngokufudumala kunye nentuthuzelo yeengalo zabo. Ngoko, kuyinto engokwemvelo ukuba iintsana kunye nabancinci baya kunceda nangona bengalambi.
Iintsana
Iintsana kunye neentsana kufuneka zibele imvama ukuze zikhule ngezinga elingaguqukiyo kwaye zivuselele umveliso wobisi obunempilo. Kodwa, kukho amaxesha apho umntwana wakho ubonakala efuna ukuchitha ixesha elingakumbi kwibele. Ekuqaleni, kunokuba kunzima ukuxelela ukuba umntwana wakho uyamnceda lonke ixesha ngenxa yokunyuka kokukhula, umnqweno onqabileyo wokungondleki (induduzo) ukutshatyalaliswa, okanye ukulamba ngenxa yobonelelo obisi bezantsi.
Ukuba umntwana wakho uhamba ngokukhula, uongikazi ohlala rhoqo kufuneka ahlale ezimbalwa iintsuku de ukunikezela kweebisi kwakho kwanda. Ukuba ihlala ixesha elide kuneentsuku ezimbalwa, thabatha umntwana wakho ukuba ubone umntwana wezilwanyana ukuba ahlolwe isisindo sakhe. Xa nje umntwana wakho ekhula kwaye ekhula, unokuqiniseka ukuba ufumana ubisi obaneleyo .
Ukuba ngaba ngumnqweno onamandla wokungasondeli, unako ukubeka umntwana wakho kwibele xa rhoqo umntwana wakho efuna ukunamsa. Unonophelo lononophelo awuyi kukulimaza umntwana wakho.
Kodwa, ukuba awukhululekile ngethuba lexesha umntwana usichitha kwibele, unokuzama ukuthwala umntwana wakho e-sling okanye enye ingubo yomntwana. Ukuvakalelwa komzimba wakho kunye nentliziyo yakho kunye nentembeko yokuhamba ngeenxa zonke kunokunceda ukuthuthuzela umntwana wakho. Enye inketho kukunikela umntwana wakho nge- pacifier .
Xa umntwana wakho uncelise kakuhle kwaye ubonelelo lwakho lwebisi lusekwe, ukusetyenziswa kwe-pacifier akufanele kuphazamise ukuphumelela kokuncelisa.
Abantwana kunye nabantwana abadala
Ayikho iminyaka yokunqunyulwa xa ukuncelisa kufuneka kuphele. Ngexesha lokuba umntwana wakho usemncinci, uya kufumana ubuninzi besondlo sakhe kwenye imithombo yokutya. Iintsana zinokunyamekela ukunyanga, kodwa ixesha abachithayo kwibele liqhubeka likhula kwaye lixabisekileyo. Njengokuba umntwana wakho ekhula kwaye eba ngumntu ozimeleyo, unokuziva enesiqinisekiso sokuba uya kuphinda abuyele kuwe ngenxa yokhuseleko, ukhuseleko, kunye nolwalelo olukhethekileyo lokusondelana.
I-American Academy ye-Pediatrics ikhuthaza ukuqhubekeka kokuncelisa ibinki okungenani omnye unyaka kwaye emva kokuba umama ngamnye nomntwana bakhetha ukuqhubeka emva koko. Umbutho wezeMpilo wehlabathi (i-WHO) kunye ne-UNICEF bobabini bancoma ukuncelisa ubuncinane iminyaka engama-2 nangaphezulu. Ubisi lwebele lubusa ukubonelela ngeempilo kubantwana abadala . Kwaye, okubaluleke ngakumbi, ubudlelwane bokuncelisa abonelela abantwana abakhulayo ngeemvakalelo zengqondo nangokwengqondo, ngokunjalo.
Unonophelo lononophelo lungasetyenziswa ngexesha lokulala. Unesiza unokuzinqabisa umntanakho, kwaye abaninzi abantwana banokulala bebele.
Akulonakalisi ukunyusa umntwana wakho ukuba alale, nangona kunjalo, xa umntwana wakho elele, kukulungele ukuphula ukutshatyalaliswa kwesikhithi kwaye ususe umntwana osuswini. Ukuba umntwana wakho uchitha ixesha elide lokulala ngelixa udibene nesifuba sakho, kunokunyusa ingozi yamazinyo.
Ezinye izizathu
Ukuba ufuna ukumncelisa umntwana owamkelweyo , unobisi obuncinci lobunini , okanye unquma ukunika umntwana wakho ibhotile, unokusondla ngenduduzo. Ubuhlengikazi emva okanye phakathi komnye umthombo wesondlo kunokuba ngamava amnandi kuwe kunye nomntwana wakho. Ngaphezu koko, nangona uhlala unomnxeba wenduduzo, umntwana wakho usenokufumana ukutya okuvela emabele akho.
Unonyango lononophelo luyinxalenye yendalo yokuncelisa. Ngeke kuphazamise umntwana wakho kwaye abukho ubungqina bokuba unyango lononophelo luyingozi okanye ukuba luya kubangela nayiphi na imiba engokwenyama yengqondo kubantwana abadala. Ngethuba nje wena kunye nomntwana wakho nonwabile kwaye nandipha ubuhlobo bakho bokongikazi, akukho sizathu sokuba awukwazi ukunyamezela induduzo.
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