Iinkundla zithatha izinyathelo zobundlobongela basekhaya kwiimeko zokugcina abantwana ngokubaluleka. Kuhlala kukho inkxalabo yokuba ukuba inkundla ingathathi inyathelo elomeleleyo, umzali osolwayo angasiphazamisa kamva kamonakalise umntwana. Ngenxa yesi sizathu, iinkundla zithatha ukuzithemba xa kuziwa ekunikezeni ukugcinwa okanye ukuhanjelwa emva kokumangalelwa kokusetyenziswa kakubi . Nantsi into ofuna ukuyazi malunga nodlova lwasekhaya kunye neendawo zokugcina abantwana:
Ubhubhane lobundlobongela basekhaya
Ubuncinane abantwana abathathu abayizigidi babone ubungqina bodlobongela basekhaya ngonyaka. Enyanisweni, ubundlobongela basekhaya luye lwaba yindlala enkulu ebantwini baseMerika. Ubundlobongela basekhaya phakathi kobudlelwane kaninzi lukhokelela kumlingane omnye ukuba afake isicelo sokuqhawula umtshato okanye ukushiya ubudlelwane. Ukuba kukho abantwana abandakanyekayo, umcimbi wokugcinwa kwabantwana uvela. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, inkundla kufuneka inqume ukuba ngubani umzali oza kugcinwa ngokomzimba kubantwana: umxhaphazi ogxekayo, ulwaphulo-mthetho olutyhutywayo, okanye zombini. Ekugqibeleni, inyanzelekileyo yenkundla ukuba iqwalasele "iminqweno engcono yomntwana" malunga neziganeko zobundlobongela basekhaya kwiimeko zokugcina abantwana. Oku kuthetha ukuba kufuneka baxhomekeke kwizinto ezifanelekileyo zokuphila komntwana kunye nokukhuseleko.
Ubungqina bodlova lwasekhaya kunye neNkxaso yabantwana
Ububungqina bentsholongwane, kunye nexesha elidlulileyo-oludlulileyo, lobundlobongela basekhaya, luhlala luqwalaselwa kwiindawo zokugcina abantwana.
Inkundla inokukhanyela ukugcinwa kumzali kumntu osityholwa ulwalamlo lwasekhaya ukuba inquma ukuba umzali ubangela ingozi kumntwana okanye omnye umzali womntwana, ixhoba.
Izinto ezifanele ziqwalaselwe kwiNkundla
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba iinkundla azithathi nje ukuthatha igama lomzali xa ziqwalasela izigxeko zobundlobongela basekhaya kunye nokugcinwa kwabantwana.
Abagwebi ngokubanzi baqwalasela:
- Ingaba iziganeko zokunyanzelisa ubundlobongela basekhaya zachaphazela okanye zijoliswe kuyo, umntwana
- Ingaba umtyholwa uyaqhubeka engozini kumntwana okanye omnye umzali
- Ubunzima nobude bodlame lwasekhaya (enokuthi iinqununu zithathwa njengesiqondiso esinamandla sokuziphatha kwangaphambili)
- Ingaba kukho ityala lolwaphulo-mthetho elilindelekileyo kummangalelwa
- Naluphina ubungqina bonyango bokuxhaphazwa, kuquka neefoto
- Amapolisa anika iingxelo ngeziganeko zokusetyenziswa gadalala
Ubundlobongela basekhaya kwiNdawo yokuHlola kunye nokuTyelela
Iziganeko zobundlobongela basekhaya azichaphazeli nje ukucwangciswa kwabantwana. Kwakhona kuthintela nokuba umtyholwa uya kufumana ukutyelela. INkundla inokukhetha uku:
- Ukukhupha amalungelo okuvakasha komzali otshutshisiweyo, okwethutyana okanye ixesha elide
- I-odityanisiweyo yokuhanjelwa
- Ukuhlaziya umyalelo wokuvakasha komzali otshutshisiweyo (umzekelo, ngokuhlaziya iindwendwe zobusuku)
- Iikhodi zokubazali zabazali okanye iiklasi zokulawulwa komsindo
- Myalelo umzali otyholwayo ukuba athathe inxaxheba ekucebisi ulwaphulo lwasekhaya
- Ukukhupha umyalelo wokumisela okanye umyalelo wokukhusela
Ukuxhatshazwa kwabangamaMfuduze
Amanye amaxhoba obundlobongela basekhaya anganqwenela ukushiya ubudlelwane obuxhaphazayo, ngakumbi ukuba ixhoba lingumfuduki.
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Ulungiswe nguJennifer Wolf.