Ukwenza Ingqiqo Yokulahlekelwa Kwakho kunye Nendlela Ehambayo
Ukufumana ukuphuphuma kwesisu kungaxhalabisa kwaye kudibanise nakho kwakho kunye nomlingane wakho. Ufuna ukwenjenjalo ukuqonda yonke into nokufumana iimpendulo zemibuzo engenakuze iphendulwe ngokupheleleyo.
Ukuthetha kuyisinyathelo sokuqala ekuphiliseni. Ukuze ufumane ingqondo engcono yokuvalwa, dibana nodokotela wakho uze ubuze nayiphi na imibuzo oyifunayo. Yaye kungekhona nje ngokulahleka kwakho kodwa malunga noko wena kunye nomlingane wakho unokulindela kwikamva.
Nazi imibuzo ezisixhenxe ezinokukunceda ufumane zonke iimpendulo ozifunayo:
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Yintoni Ebangele Ukutshatyalaliswa?Ngokudabukisayo, kudla kunzima ukucacisa isizathu esona sizathu sokukhulelwa kokukhulelwa. Ingakumbi ekuphumuleni kokuqala , isizathu asisoze saziwa.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, isona esiqhelekileyo sokusweleka kwesisu si- chromosomal engafanelekiyo , ekhethiweyo kwaye ayinakwenzeka ukuba iphinde iphindwe kwixesha elizayo lokukhulelwa. Kwakuyinto engafanelekiyo yemfuza ukuba umzimba ubonakale ungenakwenzeka.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba kukho isizathu esaziwayo sokulahleka kwakho okanye ufumene uhlobo oluthile lwesisu (njengento ekhutshwe nge-ovum okanye ukukhulelwa kwe-molar ), uya kufuna ukufumana ingqondo engcono kwaye ithetha ukuba ingaba inokuchaphazela amathuba akho esizayo .
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Yintoni Engayenza Ngayo?Ukulahleka kokukhulelwa akusoloko kukho iphoso lomntu. Kwaye kwiimeko apho iyaziwa khona, akukho nto into enokuyenza ukuba ithintele.
Xa kuthethwa oko, kunokubakho igalelo lokuba uqaphele ukuba uceba ukuzama kwakhona. Ukuba umzekelo, unesifo sikashukela , iingxaki ze-hormonal, okanye isifo se-thyroid, kunokubakho umngcipheko ongakunciphisa, unyango onokuzama, okanye ezinye izixhobo ongazisebenzisa ukujonga kakuhle ukukhulelwa kwakho ngexesha elizayo.
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Ngaba Kuya kwenzeka kwakhona?Iingxaki zakho zokulahlekelwa kwesinye ukukhulelwa zihluka kakhulu kuxhomekeke kwixesha kunye nohlobo lokuphuphuma kwesisu oye wafumana. Ukuba unesisu esisodwa sokuqala, umzekelo, amathuba okuba nesibini, ukukhulelwa okuphumelelayo kuphezulu.
Ukuphindaphinda kwamathambo amaninzi kuhambelana nemeko engafumanekiyo eyenza ukukhulelwa kube nzima. Ezi ziquka ukungaqhelekanga kwezibeleko, ukungalingani kwe-hormone, isifo sokuzimela, okanye ukungaqiniseki kwintsholongwane (umlomo wesibeleko ophucula kakhulu ekukhulelwe).
Kwezinye iimeko, ezi ziqhelo zilapha kwaye ziyakwenza ngcono amathuba akho okukhulelwa.
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Ndingayithuthukisa Njani Amathuba Angamana Ukuba Nomntwana?Le yilapho ukuqonda ngonyango kunokwenene ukunceda. Ekugqibeleni, unempilweni njengomntu, mhlawumbi uya kuba nako ukuphatha umntwana wakho kwixesha.
Kukho izinto ezimbalwa ezilula onokuzenza ukuze uphuculwe ngcono ingxaki yakho kungakhathaliseki ubudala okanye isimo sezempilo. Ezi ziquka ukumisa ukutshaya , ukulahlekelwa ubunzima xa ukhuluphele, okanye ulawula izimo zempilo ezingapheliyo ezifana nesifo sikashukela. Ukulungiswa kokuphila okulula kunokuba negalelo elikhulu ekufezeni ukukhulelwa okunesempilo, okungekho mcimbi.
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Ngaba Uncome Naluphina Uvavanyo Oluqhubekayo?Ukuba unesifo esingaphezulu kwesinye sokukhulelwa kwesisu okanye udlwengulo, ugqirha wakho unokukucebisa ukuba ufumane iimvavanyo ezongezelelweyo ngaphambi kokuzama kwakhona.
Uvavanyo luvame ukubonakalisa izizathu ezibangela ilahleko zakho kwaye uncede ugqirha wakho amnike unyango olwenzela ukuba ukwazi ukufezekisa ukukhulelwa okukhuselekileyo nokukhuselekileyo .
Iimvavanyo zingabandakanya ukuhlalutya kwe-chromosomal yabazali bobabini, iimvavanyo zokujonga ukuhlola i-uterine engaqhelekanga, kunye nokuhlolwa kwegazi ukuchonga naziphi na izifo, iingxaki ze-hormonal, kunye neengxaki ze-thyroid.
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Kufuneka Sikhule Kangakanani Ngaphambi Kokuzama kwakhona?Ngokusekelwe kwimiba yecala lakho, ugqirha kufuneka akwazi ukuqikelela ixesha elifanele ulinde ngaphambi kokuzama kwakhona. Abanye oogqirha baya kukucebisa ukuba ulinde ixesha elide kwiinyanga ezintathu, ngoxa abanye banokukucebisa ukuba uqale kwakhona ngokukhawuleza.
Naliphi na impendulo, cela udokotela wakho ukuba achaze indlela yakhe yokucinga. Kukho ukukhathazeka ngokwenyama okanye imiba enxulumene nokuphuphuma kwesisu efuna ukuba ilumke ngakumbi. Okanye kunokuba lube ngumcebisi ngokubanzi, kwaye akukho nqobo yokukhawulela ukuqala kwangaphambili kunexesha elizayo.
Ekugqibeleni, into ebaluleke kakhulu yokuzama kwakhona iyazi xa ulungele .
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Ngaba Unokucebisa uMcebisi?Akuyena onke amabhinqa anesiphelo sokukhulelwa kwesisu aya kufuna umcebisi weentlungu. Akunjalo wonke umntu osizileyo uya kuhlakulela uxinzelelo lweklinikhi .
Iimvakalelo ezijikeleze ukukhulelwa komzimba ziyahluka kakhulu kungekuphela komntu kumntu kodwa zivela kwiibini ezithandanayo. Ayikho indlela "yokunene" yokulila okanye nayiphina into ephosakeleyo kuwe ukuba unako ukujamelana kakuhle.
Kodwa ukuba uzakufumana ubunzima ukujongana nokulahleka kokukhulelwa, cela udokotela wakho ukuba uthunyelwe kwi-engcali yezempilo yengqondo eqeqeshelwayo kunye nolwazi malunga nokucebisana nosizi nokukhulelwa komzimba.
Akunakuze ufune inombolo, kodwa akuyi kuba yingozi ukuba ube kufuphi xa usenza ngokukhawuleza.
> Umthombo:
> Leis-Newman, E. "Ukutshatyalaliswa kwempahla kunye nokulahleka." Umbhalo we-American Psychological Association. 2012: 43 (6): 56.d