Ukuba ukhangele ukufunda okhethekileyo okanye imbongo yokuvakalisa iimvakalelo zakho kwinkonzo yesikhumbuzo somntwana okanye umngcwabo, uya kufumana apha amacatshulwa kwimisebenzi ecetywayo ukuze uqalise. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba kukho ukholo, ezi zifundo zonke zehlabathi ziyakwazi ukunceda ukuvakalisa iimvakalelo ezingenokuba nzima ukuzabelana ngazo.
Khumbula, nantoni na enentsingiselo ekhethekileyo kuwe nentsapho yakho inokwenza inkonzo ayikhunjulwe.
Musa ukukhathazeka xa ukufunda kwakho okhethiweyo kungabonakali "kukudabukisayo" ngokwaneleyo okanye ukuba kubonakala kungekho kwindawo emngcwabeni. Inkonzo yesikhumbuzo isetyenziselwe ukukhumbula nokunceda abo baphila.
Ukuba Ndilapha Ngaba Ndingathini? nguLorraine Lehman-Jones
"Ewe inyaniso ukuba andizange ndibone konke ihlabathi elibambayo. Iintyatyambo, imithi, utshani-okanye ilanga elikhanyayo. ezi zinto, kwanaxesha lam elifutshane. "
Ukukhanya nguHugh O'Donnell
"Ndoda yam encinci, ngaphantsi kweliphi ixesha lokukhanya oye wahamba ngalo ukuze usifikelele apha, ukuhlala kwakho kukufutshane kangaka;
Ngokubhinqa kweli lihlo owaye uhamba phambili, uthabatha igama lethu kunye nesiphambano somnqamlezo womntu esihluphekileyo; saqhaqhazela ngathi njenge-bhakoni, silinde ebumnyameni ukuba ukukhanya kufikelele, ukuqonda ngentliziyo ukhanya ngonaphakade. "
Isiqu esivela kuViktor Emil Frankl
"Asikwazi ukugweba i-biography ngobude bayo, ngamanani amaphepha kuwo; kufuneka sigwebe ngobutyebi bezinto ezibhalwe kuyo.
Ngamanye amaxesha "ama-unfinisheds" aphakathi kwezinye iindimenti ezimnandi. "
Bakhala ngoCK Williams
"Akuzange kubekho ukungabikho kangako, nangona kunjalo, kungekhona nje ukungabikho,
akuzange kube nombono onjalo wokuphambana nobukho, ukutshatyalaliswa okuninzi, uninzi lwethemba lokugqibela
aphikisiwe, akaze aphelelwe lithemba. "
Uzuko lobomi luLuthando olungaziwa
"Uzuko lobomi alukhona ukuba luhlala ngonaphakade, kodwa oko, kwithuba elithile, luquka into enhle.
Umthi kulabo bawuqondayo, kwaye bayavuya abo bonke abawugcinayo.
Izindlela zalo ziindlela zokuthabatha, kwaye zonke iindlela zayo zizoxolo.
Asifuni ukuba i ntyatyambo ingayi kufa, nokuba ingoma ayisoze yaphela.
Kwakungenakuze sibe nomsindo ngobomi kuba ngelinye ilanga ubuhle balo buya kuba ngothuli, umculo wayo uhlalise, kunye nokuhleka kwayo kunye neinyembezi ezilibalekile. "
Iikhumbuzo ngu-Earl Grollman
"Iikhumbuzo-ithenda, inothando, inzondo ayinakuze ithathwe kuwe,
Akukho nto inokuphazamisa ekuvuyiseni kunye nobuhle wena kunye nomthandane wakho owabelwana ngawo.
Uthando lwakho ngomntu kunye nothando lwakhe ngawe alukwazi ukutshintshwa ngexesha okanye imeko.
Izikhumbuzo zingezakho ukugcina.
Izolo ziphelile, nangona uzigcina kwindawo yengcebo yexesha elidlulileyo. "
Musa ukuma e-Graves, ndize ndilile ngo-Mary Elizabeth Frye
"Musa ukuhlala engcwabeni lam, nilile, andikho, andilali,
Ndiyimimoya engamawaka evuthayo mna
I-Diamond icwebezela kwikhephu
Ndiyilanga ilanga lokuvuna okusanhlamvu
Ndiyimvula yeAmbumnene "
Umntwana oThulileyo nguKelly Lancor
"Umntwana ongeyonto, umntwana wethu oxabisekileyo,
Mfutshane nentliziyo yam ndiya kukugcina kunye nam.
Umsebenzi obalulekileyo uThixo anakho kuwe,
Kukhona uthando lokunika, kwaye usebenze ukwenza.
Ufuna ingelosi eqinile kodwa encinane,
Ukuze ukhanyise abantu abaninzi kwaye unike uthando kubo bonke. "
Ndivakalelwa Njengaxa Nangona Inhliziyo Yami Imelwe Ukuma Ngeentlungu nguNicholas Gordon
"Ndivakalelwa kukuba intliziyo yam kufuneka imise intlungu.
Ndikukhumbula wena, ubumnyama abuyi kulubala.
Mntanami othandekayo, eze kum kwakhona.
Ndiyazi ukuba awukwazi ukuza, kwaye ndiyakunzima
Ukubeka iingalo zam ngeenxa zonke.
Umntwana Ozalwe Kufile U-Elizabeth Jennings
Nguwuphi umkhosi esinokukufumana ngoku? Ukuba ufikile
Ngaphandle kwendawo efudumeleyo
Kule nto, kuya kubakho okuchaseneyo
Ukuze sikwazi wena. Singa
Khawucinge nje ngomoya onomdla.
Emva koko jonga ngaphesheya,
Imvakalelo evela kuwe, umoya
Ukuhluthwa ngamandla okufa. "
Ukupheliswa nguEmily Dickinson
"Wafa, - yile ndlela eyafa ngayo;
Yaye xa iphefumlelwe umoya,
Wayithatha ikhabethe yakhe elula
Kwaqalisa ilanga. "
Kungekudala uMary Yarnall
"Ubomi obungazange buqalwe
Akukho xesha lokufumana indawo yakho kwiLanga
Akukho xesha lokwenza konke onokukwenza
Kodwa sikuthandayo ngokwaneleyo "
I-snowdrop encinci ngoMbhali ongaziwa
"Ihlabathi alinakuze libone Ukuba i-Snowdrop ayiqhakazi,
Okanye nekhefu ukuba uzibuze Ukuba ama-petals awela ngokukhawuleza.
Kodwa bonke ubomi obunjalo,
Okanye iya kuba,
Uthinta ihlabathi ngendlela encinane
Kuphela ngonaphakade.
Omncinci sasilangazelela
Wayekhawuleza apha kwaye waya.
Kodwa uthando oluthe lwahlwayelwa ngoko lukhanyiso olukhanyayo.
Nangona iingalo zethu zingenanto,
Iintliziyo zethu ziyazi ukuba zenzeni.
Kulo lonke ukubetha kweentliziyo zethu
Uthi siyakuthanda. "
Inkcazo evela kwiNkosana encane nguAntoine de Saint-Exupery
"Ngenye yeenkwenkwezi, ndiza kuphila. Ngomnye wabo ndiya kuhleka, kwaye kuya kuba ngathi zonke iinkwenkwezi zihleka xa ukhangela isibhakabhaka ebusuku."
I-Elegy for Child Still Born-by Seamus Heaney
"Ekuhambeni kwedwa ndicinga ngako konke,
Ukuzalwa kokufa, ukuthungulwa kwengcwaba;
Ingubo yeempahla ezincinci, isikhumbuzo
Kwaye nabazali bafikelela kwilungu le-phantom.
Ndiqhuba ngolawulo olukude kule ndlela engabonakaliyo
Ngaphantsi kwesibhakabhaka esiqhaqhaqhaqhazayo, idwala elijikelezayo.
Iindawo ezidlulileyo zeentaba zizele kwi-brim ngefu.
Amagagasi amhlophe agibela ekhayeni ngokukrakra. "
Ingqungquthela evela kuNdiya kukuthanda ngonaphakade nguRobert Munsch
Umama wabamba umntwana wakhe omtsha waza wancinciza ngokukhawuleza, wabuyela emva nangaphandle, nangemuva.
Ndiyakuthanda ngonaphakade,
Ndiyakuthanda njalo,
Ngethuba nje ndihlala
umntwana uya kuba. "