Nangona amandla amaninzi afakwa ekukhuseleni ukukhulelwa kwentsha, akukho inkxaso encinane kwabasetyhini abaneminyaka engama-18 nangaphantsi abafumana ukukhulelwa kwesisu.
Abantu abadala abangenakukhunjulwa amava malunga nokukhulelwa kwesisu kungaxhomekeka ngakumbi kubafana, abahlala bexelwa ukuba, "Le ntsikelelo," okanye "Oku kusebenze okulungileyo," nokuba, "Unenhlanhla" - yonke into eyoyikisayo izinto ekumele zithi kumntu ongeyena nje ubuhlungu obunokuba buhlungu, kodwa kunye nokulahlekelwa ngumvakalelo.
Endaweni yoko, abantwana abaselula kufuneka baphathwe ngenhlonipho nangemfesane ngexesha lokukhulelwa komzimba. Eli lixesha elicelomngeni, ngokwengqondo, nangokwenyama kubomi bomntu wonke, kunye nokugqithisela ukuba ngamava amaninzi okukhulelwa kokukhulelwa kukugqithiseleyo loo mingeni.
Izinto zokungabikho komngcipheko kubantwana
Abaselula banomngcipheko omkhulu wokukhulelwa kwesisu kunye neengxaki ezivela ekukhulelwe kunomfazi omdala osemdala. Nangona intsha eninzi ingayazi ukuba ikhulelwe kude kube yimva kamva ekukhulelweni, okanye ingafunanga ukunakekelwa kokubeletha ukuze kugcinwe ukukhulelwa kube yimfihlelo, izinto ezinobungozi ziba yingozi enkulu. Imiba enjalo mngcipheko iquka:
- Ubudala, ingakumbi kuma-15 nangaphantsi
- Ukunyanya, ubunzima obukhulayo phakathi kwabantwana babo bonke ubudala
- Ukuba ungaphantsi
- Izifo ezithathelwana ngocansi
- Ukusetyenziswa kakubi kweziyobisi, kuquka ukusetyenziswa kotywala nokusetyenziswa kwecuba
- Preeclampsia
- Sikashukela
- Ukungabi nonyango lokubeleka
Ukwelashwa kokutshatyalaliswa
Ngokuqhelekileyo, unyango lokusweleka kwesisu alufani nakubutsha kunokuba ngabafazi abadala abadala.
Kubalulekile ukuqwalasela iimeko ezithile ezikhethekileyo ezichaphazela intsha, nangona kunjalo:
- Ngakwazi. Ukukhulelwa ngexesha leminyaka elishumi elivisayo lidla ngokuba ngumfazi wokuqala, kwaye abaninzi abaselula abazange babe novavanyo lomzimba; Enyanisweni, abazange baphinde baphathwe esibhedlele. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantwana baya kuxhalabisa kwaye bekwesaba iinkqubo kunye neemviwo ezifunekayo ukuba babe nenxalenye yokunyamekela kwabo.
- Imiba yeMvume. Ngaphandle kwimeko yongxamiseko, amaninzi amazwe aya kufuna imvume yomzali kwintwazana ukuba athole unyango lokukhulelwa kwesisu. Amaninzi amaninzi, eli lixesha lokuqala umzali efunda malunga nokukhulelwa kwentombi yakhe, eyongeza uxinzelelo olukhulu kwiimeko ezinzima.
- Ukuphepha kweNyango. Kukho imeko yabaselula abakhusela unyango ngexesha lokuphuphuma kwesisu ngenxa yokwesaba ukungena enkingeni nabazali, kunye nokwesaba isigwebo ngabahlobo, entsapho kunye nabaqeqeshi bezonyango. Umntwana osetsheni ojongene nokulahlekelwa nguye ngokwakhe akayi kufunda iimpawu ezixelisayo zeengxaki , njengokusuleleka, ukuphuma kwamanzi ngokweqile, okanye ukugcina i-placenta, kwaye unokubeka impilo yakhe engozini.
- Amalungelo omlingani. Ngokuxhomekeke kumthetho wendawo, umgaqo-bhedlele, kunye nokhetho lwabazali, omnye umntu obalulekileyo okhulayo angeke avunyelwe ukuba abekhona ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwesisu. Oku kunzima kubini kunye nentlungu yakhe ebalulekileyo, enokuthi ingxaki yakhe ingathinteka njani.
- Imiba yoMthetho. Kwezinye iimeko, ubunzima bokuvalelwa kwesisu buya kubandakanywa neengxaki zomthetho ngokunjalo. Ngokuxhomekeke kwiminyaka engama-10 ubudala ekukhuselweni kokukhulelwa, isisebenzi sezentlalo-ntle esibhedlele sinokunyanzeliswa ukuba sixelele ityala kwiinkonzo zentlalo njengodlwengulo olusemthethweni.
Imiba yokubuyisela
Njengomntu omnye emva kokulahleka kokukhulelwa, abantwana abaselula banemicimbi yokuzilungisa ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo yokujongana nayo. Njengomntwana oselula, kunokubakho ubunzima obongezelelweyo ekujonganeni.
- Ukuthotywa. Abaselula banokuziva benetyala ngokukhulelwa kwindawo yokuqala, kunye netyala malunga nokulahleka kwabo. Ezi mvakalelo zinokuba nzima xa useneminyaka engama-10 uvakalelwa kukuba ukukhulelwa kwakhe kuphele ngaphandle kokuba umntwana anakekele.
- Ukungabikho kweNkxaso. Abaselula banokujamelana nomsindo kubazali babo, kunye nesigwebo sabo ontanga- kunye nosapho-nangaluphi na ukukhulelwa. Ukungabi ncediso lwentlalo kunokuba negalelo ekuzivekeni, kwaye kunokubangela ukuphuhliswa kwengcinezelo .
- Iingcamango ezingenakuvakalisa. Njengoko kukhankanywe ngasentla, abaninzi abantu banokuziva bekhululekile ukuthetha ngokungafanelekileyo kubaselula emva kokukhulelwa kwesisu. Kungenxa yokuba umntwana osemncinci angazange acwangcise ukuba akhulelwe akuthethi ukuba akazange azive ehambelane nomntwana wakhe, kungakhathaliseki ukuba lifanelekileyo ixesha lokukhulelwa. Ukumbiza ngokuthi "inhlanhla" okanye ukukhanyisa ukulahlekelwa kwakhe kwenza umntwana useve ukuba intlungu yakhe ayibalulekanga okanye ayimkelekanga. Ukuntuleka kobubele kungenza inzima kakhulu inzima.
- Amava okuQala ngokuFa. Kwabanye abatsha, ukukhulelwa kwesisu kungaba ngamava abo okuqala "ngokufa," kwaye izakhono zokujamelana nazo akunakulungele. Intombazana inokuziva ibude kakhulu kule meko.
- Ukulahlekelwa kwabantwana. Nangona umntwana osemncinci ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuguqulwa ngamava okukhulelwa kunye nokulahleka okulandelayo. Ukujongana neentlungu zentlungu kunokuba nzima xa umntwana osemtsha ejongene nokulahlekelwa kwesigaba somntwana wobomi bakhe.