Iindaba ezentlalo zitshintshile indlela esinxibelelana ngayo, fumana iindaba kunye nokwabelana ngomxholo nabanye. Kweli hlabathi elitsha apho amajelo asekuhlaleni asinika ibhokisi ye-sese engenamida, iphinde ichaphazele umzali wethu. Ngaphambi kokuba ulayishe le pic elandelayo ekhangayo yomntwana wakho kwaye ulinde ukuba abathanda ukuza, jonga indlela amajelo asekuhlaleni ashintshile ngayo umzali.
Sima
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Iindaba ezentlalo zenze ikhefu ebuseni bethu. Ngaloo mizuzu yomzali xa siza kubhiyozela kunye noJoshi okanye sibalekele ekuhlanguleni kukaMorgan, ngoku asikho ngokukhawuleza sithatha ixesha elifutshane ukuba sinqume ukuba ngaba ngumzuzu ofanelekile we-Facebook. Siyibamba loo ma-smartphones kwaye siphume endaweni esikhundleni sokunikezela ngokukhawuleza ukufumana ukutya okutsha okanye ukubamba ukuba lo mfana-wethu kodwa usabekile ukuthungela kwiingubo eziphazamisayo.
Ngaloo mzuzwana mzuzwana, silahlekelwa yinto ekhethekileyo. Siyaphuthelwa ngumzali ongokwemvelo kunye nentsebenziswano yabantwana apho kukubini nje, kungekho sabelo okanye ukuthandwa ngabani ngaphandle.
Sithelekisa
Njengomzali, unako ukubala ukuba unomama ohlala eqhayisa ngomntwana wakhe kunye nazo zonke izinto eziphumelelayo. Utshitshise iimbali zakhe zakudala, wamkelwa kwisikolo esona sihle kakhulu edolophini kwaye unokuthi i-alfabhethi phambili, ngasemva, kunye ngeelwimi ezimbini ngelixesha elithathu.
Ngombulelo kwimidiya yoluntu, akudingeki ukuba uye kwindawo yokudlala ukuze uhlaselwe ngolu lwazi. Eyona nto ibhetele kakhulu ngabantwana bonke ngoku ihanjiswa kuwe kwinqanaba elihle, lizaliswe ngemifanekiso, ngqo kwikhaya lakho.
Abazali basabela ngokuthanda kunye neengcamango kodwa iimfazwe eziyimfihlo zivela ngaphakathi.
Abazali abaninzi bachaza ukuba baqhathanise impumelelo yabo yomzali kunye noko baziva ngathi bangaphumeleli ngokusekelwe kwinto abayifunayo kumajelo asekuhlaleni. Oko kwandisekela nakwimpilo yethu yasekhaya njengoko siqhathanisa nendoda eyoyikekayo kunokuba yabuya ekhaya kususela emisebenzini ukupheka intsapho ukutya okunempilo ebomini bethu ngobusuku esiye sikuma kwindawo yokutyela yokutya ngokutya kwaye sidle sakusihlwa emotweni.
Xa ukhangelelwa kumajelo asekuhlaleni, uninzi lwabazali abanabelana ngezinto ezilungileyo, ezimbi kunye ezimbi. I-media media ifana ne-real-time scrapbook apho wenza isigqibo esicacileyo sokungabelani ngeengxaki zakho okanye iintsuku ezimbi. Sibelana ngecala lobomi lobomi ... kwaye njalo wonke umntu.
Ukuthi "wonke umntu wenza ngcono kunokuba ndi" ingqondo kubangela uxinzelelo olungadingekile. Uphando olutshanje lubonisa ukuyeka i-Facebook kwenza abantu bazive bevuya.
Nangona i-Pinterest ayikhuseli. Uphononongo olutsha oluthola uPinterest lungabangela ukuba lube ngumthombo woxinzelelo. Uvakalelwa nje ngokuba awukwazi ukuhlala kulo mama othumele izikhonkwane ezi-1,000 ze-craftschools uthatha inzuzo kuwe xa wenza kakuhle xa ufika ukuza kuhlamba imihla ngemihla.
Sokugqithisa
Zibuze ukuba unongqongqo kwi-media media kwaye mhlawumbi uya kuthi, "Hayi." Khawuzibuze ukuba ucinga ukuba abahlobo bakho bayaphumelela kwaye impendulo iya kutshintshela ekumanyeleni, "Ewe."
I-media media iphendulele abazali kubagqwetha. Siphula ixesha lethu lezithombe kunye nokuhlaziywa, ngamanye amaxesha ngamaxesha amaninzi ngemini. Kwaye akukho mxholo ubonakala ungabikho umda, ukusuka kwiingozi zokuqeqeshwa kwamanzi ukuhlanza izibhamu.
Yilokho uphando olwenziwe kwakhona. IYunivesithi yaseMichigan CS Mott yeZibhedlele zeSizwe iNational Poll kwiMpilo yabantwana ithole ukuba i-75% yabazali bacinga ukuba abanye abazali bayaphumelela. Bathi "ukuxubusha" kuvela kwiifoto ezingafanelekanga ukuya kwiinkcukacha ezininzi ezinokunika indawo yengane.
Sizinikela ixesha lethu
Zama lo mzamo. Akukho nkohliso. Ingena yonke iminithi uthayiphe ifowuni okanye uhlale kwikhompyutha usebenzise imidiya yoluntu.
Emva kokuba ungeze yonke imizuzu yakho yeveki, mhlawumbi uya kutshitshiswa ngendlela olawula ngayo ixesha lakho.
I-media media izakukuchitha ixesha elingaphezulu kunokuba ucinge ukuba unako. Mane ucele abantwana bakho ukuba bacinga ukuba ungumzali ophazamisayo. Ngelo xesha ude uchithe kunye nosapho lwakho okanye uthathe ixesha lokuzihlaziya.
Oko akuthethi ukuba kufuneka unikezele imidiya yoluntu ngokupheleleyo. Qinisekisa ukuba ubeka imida ukuze wonke umntu abe namaxesha angabonwanga kwaye akonwabele inkampani yomnye.
Sakha i-Kids-Hungry Kids
Ingaba umntwana wakho wabuza ukuba uya kuthumela loo pic kwi-Facebook? Ngaba ufuna ukwazi ukuba bangaphi abathanda ukufumana loo pic oyithumele izolo? Ukuba kunjalo, akayi kuba ngowokuqala.
Uphando lubonisa ukuba, njengabazali, xa sithumela imifanekiso yabantwana kwiimidiya zentlalo, senza amaqela alambileyo. Balinganisa ukuthandwa kwabo kubaninzi bethu abahlobo be-Facebook, abaninzi abantu bethu abantombazana bethu abazi, baqakraza ukuba unje iqhosha.
Siyaziqhayisa (kakhulu)
Sonke siyaziqhayisa kwiindaba zentlalo kuba abantwana bethu bayamangalisa. Ewe, uyaziqhayisa ngezingane zakho kwaye ufuna abantu bazi.
Abanye abazali baqala ukugqithisa amehlo abo xa ukuhlaziywa kuhamba ngokugqithiseleyo, njengokuthumela izibuyekezo ezininzi ngosuku. Okubi nakakhulu xa abazali beqala ukugqithisa kunye nezibuyekezo ezifihlakeleyo ngokuzihlaziya (uEliza akazukufumana ukugqwesa kwakhe ukufundela kum.) Ngokuchanekileyo Njengaloo mbiko wekhadi!) Okanye ukuziqhayisa okubangela abanye phantsi (uKaleb wenza umtya wokuqala kwibhola Iqela. Akukho bhentshi lokufudumala kuye!).
SinoMandla-Mfanekiso opheleleyo
Umntwana wakho ubonakala enhle kuloo nqopu ephezulu. Ukuthatha i-smartphone.
Ngoku, xhoma. Wayeya kukhangela i-cuter ukuba isandla sakhe sisekhanda lakhe. Hayi, isandla siphakeme kakhulu. Ngaphantsi. O, linda. Kuthiwani ngaleyo bhoki ebomvu ebomvu? Oku kukhangeleka kulukhuni nale nqaku. Ngoku yibambe. Kulungile, yima nje ngomzuzu. Ndimele ndifake oku kwiphepha lam le-Facebook.
Ingxolo njengengxoxo oyenayo? Imidiya yoluntu igcwele ezo zithuba-ezigqibeleleyo, ngaphandle kwezo zithuba-ezigqibeleleyo zathatha izibhengezo ezili-15 zeefayile ezifanayo kunye nesikhokelo esivela kuwe njengomfaki-zithombe kwi-photoprintel photo shoot.
Ngaphambi kokuba uthumele nayiphi na imifanekiso yomntwana wakho kwi-intanethi, kufuneka uqikelele ubuchule kunye neqhinga. Ukuba usagqiba isigqibo sokuba ufuna ukwabelana ngezithombe zakho, cima ezo zihlwele kwaye uzihlekise kunye nezingane zakho. Mthabathe nje umfanekiso njengokuba nguwe kuphela oya kuwubona, kungekhona ihlabathi. Uzonwaba ngakumbi kwaye uthatha imifanekiso kuya kuba lula kuwe bobabini.
Senza i-Digital Footprint
Khumbulani xa umama wakho efake umfanekiso ohlazo xa usencinane? Ilungile lo nto. Yonke loo mifanekiso yayinganiselwe kwi-albhamu yezithombe ezabelwana phakathi kwamalungu entsapho ngenxa yokuba i-Facebook ayikho.
Namhlanje, sidala i-digital footprint ngexesha lokuqala silayisha umfanekiso wezingane zethu kwi-Intanethi. Iikholeji kunye nabaqashi baqhubeka bekhangela amathuba kwi-intanethi ukujonga kwiifoto, izimvo kunye nezikhundla. Uza kuthini ngonyawo lwezandla zedijithali ngomntwana xa ekhulile?
Imidiya yoluntu yindlela yeendlela ezininzi esinokuyenza, ngokuzithandela okanye kungenjalo, ukuphula umthetho wabantwana bethu. Nangona ucinga ukuba ukhuselekile ngenxa yokuba unesitoreli sobumfihlo kwi-akhawunti yakho kwaye unokususa imifanekiso yakho nayiphi na ixesha ofuna ukuzonwabisa kuyo, akukho nto ithetha ukuba uyayiphumeza loo nto. I-Facebook's site ithi akusiyo yonke into isusiweyo ngaphandle kokuba ususe unaphakade i-akhawunti yakho. I-Twitter isusa intsuku ezingama-30 emva kokucima. Kodwa nangona kunjalo, sonke siyazi ngokukhawuleza ukuba ifayile ilayishiwe, ikhona ngaphandle nangona ufuna ukuyibuyisela. Iifoto zingagcinwa, zabiwe, kwaye zahanjiswa nangona ungafuni ukuba zibe nazo ngaphandle kolwazi lwakho.
Siphakamisa Inkqubela Yethu yobazali ekuthandweni, Ethandwayo, Ezintando, naseTweets kwakhona
Uthumela umfanekiso womntwana wakho kwaye uthanda ukuthandwa ngama-33. Emva koko uthumela umfanekiso wenja yakho kwaye uthanda ukuthandwa ngama-67. Ngaba abantu bacinga ukuba inja yakho ikhuphe ngaphezu kwengane yakho?
Silayisha umfanekiso womntwana wethu ekuhlaseleni i-trary ye-bar yokutya ye-chocolate kwiidlo sakusasa. Sithandwa ngama-50 +. Hooray kuthi, kunene? Emva koko ufumana enye impendulo evela kulo mnye umzali othi akayi kumvumela umntwana wakhe adle i-ts'oleta ekudleni kwasekuseni. Yaye yakho imvakalelo.
Ayikuyeka. Kubonakala ngathi ukhuphiswano olungabonakaliyo kwiimidiya zentlalo kuba ngumzali onobumnandi, obalaseleyo, onommangaliso kakhulu kwaye usenza sibe ngabamama noodade abajonga impumelelo yethu yomzali ngokusekelwe kwabanye abantu, ukuthandwa, iintandokazi kunye nee-tweets zomxholo wethu .
Ukuba ususe yonke i-akhawunti yakho kwaye wanyamalala kwimicimbi yoluntu kusasa, ngaba loo nto ingakwenza ube yimpumelelo engaphantsi komzali ? Akunakufuneka uhambe ngokugqithiseleyo ukuba awufuni kodwa indlela amajelo asekuhlaleni asithintela ngayo abazali kufuneka kusenze sijonge ngakumbi indlela esibheka ngayo ukubaluleka kwayo ebomini bethu.