Ukuxhatshazwa kuqala ngokusemncinci. Ingabonakaliswa njengabantwana bengavumeli omnye ukuba adibanise isangqa okanye angamenywa ukuba adlale imidlalo okanye enye imisebenzi yempahla efanelekileyo yengane. Ukuxhatshazwa kunokubangela ukuhoxiswa, ukuzithemba okuphantsi kunye nokunciphisa ukuphumelela kwezemfundo kunokubangela ukuba ukungenelela kwabantu abadala kungenzeki.
Abantwana abanokuthi baxelele abazali babo okanye abanye abadala njengabantu abanonophelo okanye abaqeqeshi, kodwa abantwana abangabandakanywa kwiontanga okanye abangenayo abahlobo ekunakekeleni abantwana okanye esikolweni banokubangela umonakalo ongapheliyo wengqondo.
Ukuchasana koontanga kungena kwifom yokungabi nabanye etafileni, kungabandakanywa kwiimidlalo okanye kwixesha lezentlalo ezifana nokuyeka okanye ukudlala kwangaphandle, okanye kungabi nabani eklasini okanye kwiqela elisebenzisana nayo nangayiphi na indlela.
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Ukuzithemba
Wena ungumfundisi womntwana wakho kwaye umntwana wakho ubukele yonke into yokuhamba kunye nokufunda kwakho. Fumana iindlela zokuzithemba ngokuzenzekelayo kwiimeko apho umntu enokukuphatha ngendlela ongayithandiyo ukuze umntwana wakho abe nokuva aze abone indlela yokuzithemba ngayo.
Fundisa kwaye uncede ukuphuhlisa izakhono ezisisiseko zoluntu
Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho uyathandwa kwaye uxhaswa ekhaya , kwaye uqwalasele ukuba ngaba izakhono zentlalo kufuneka zifundiswe okanye ziqinisekiswe ukuncedisa uncedo lwaontanga. Zama ukucacisa ngokuchanekileyo ukuba ukuxothwa kungenxa yendlela yokuziphatha okanye imilinganiselo engavumelekanga kuluntu okanye inokuthi inokubandezela ubungani ekuveleni.
Izakhono zentlalo zingahle zize zivele ngokwemvelo kubo bonke abantwana ngoko kubalulekile ukuba abazali bafundise. Ukudlala umdlalo okanye ukwenza izinto ezibonakaliswa ngumntwana wakho okwenzeka esikolweni. Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba azenzele njani, cela ukujoyina umdlalo wezingane ezidlala kunye.
Fundisa ukuziphatha okuxhasayo
Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba aqiniseke ngokusebenzisa ulwimi olubonisa umntwana ukuba bafumane iimfuno zabo badibana ngendlela ehloniphekileyo.
Banike ngolwimi oluxhasayo abangayisebenzisa xa bengathandi ukuba omnye umntwana uthetha kubo okanye abaphatha ngayo. Cacisa ukuba ukuxhaswa kuthetha ukuma ukuzithemba ngokuzithemba kwaye uhlale uzolile uze udibanise. Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba ahlale ezolile kwiimeko ezinzima ngokuphefumula. Mxhobisa ukuba enze isitatimende esixhasayo aze ahambe, okanye angawunaki ukuxhatshazwa ngokupheleleyo.
Hlala uxhulumene
Hlalana nokudibanisa rhoqo nomntu omdala ophetheyo esikolweni okanye apho umntwana wakho evakalelwa khona kwaye ucinge ngokuzithandela okanye uncedise eklasini apho ungakwazi ukugcina ukuthetha. Ngamanye amaxesha, ngokuqaphela ukuba zeziphi iintsapho ezonwabileyo, ukuthetha ngazo, okanye ukudlala kunganika ulwazi olwaneleyo ukunceda umntwana asebenze ngokuphumelelayo nabanye. Kuyatshitshisa kwaye ngezinye ihlazo kubafundi baxoxe nabazali babo malunga nokuxhatshazwa, ngoko naka ingqalelo kumagama omlomo womlomo wakho kunye nokungaxeli ngomlomo kwaye ufunde phakathi kwemigca. Qaphela ukuziphatha okutshintshayo kwaye uqhagamshelane nomntwana wakho rhoqo ukuze uzive ekhululekile ukuthetha nawe malunga nezinto ezinzima.
Ukungenelela
Umsebenzi wakho ukukhusela umntwana wakho. Abantu abadala kufuneka baxoxe ngokuxhalabisayo ngengxaki yomntwana kwaye baphulaphule ngenyameko, baze benze i-aphoyintimenti yokuxoxa ngale ngxaki ngomniki-nkonzo womntwana, utitshala okanye umqeqeshi.
Buza ukuba ngaba abanye abantu baqaphele ingxaki, kwaye nawaphi na amanyathelo abathathayo ukuba umntwana abe nomuva kubandakanywa ngabanye abantwana. Yenza umntwana wakho azi ukuba uhlangothini lwazo kunye nokungenelela kwabantu abadala kumanye amaxesha kuyimfuneko ukufikelela kwingcambu yengxaki.
Biza kwiingcali, ukuba ziyadingeka.
Unganqikazi ukuthetha nomcebisi wesikolo okanye wengqondo yengqondo yomntwana. Kubalulekile ukujongana neengxakini kwaye ungayihoyi okanye ukhuthaze umntwana ukuba akwazi ukunyamezela. Ukuziqhelanisa akukona nje ngokuthandwa; inokuyichaphazela kakhulu ukuzithemba komntwana kunye nokukwazi ukuba nabahlobo ukuba ingakhange iphendulwe kwaye isonjululwe.