Iintsholongwane zanamhlanje zizizukulwana zokuqala ezikhulile kunye nethuba lokufumana intando nge-intanethi. Kwaye ininzi intsha iyamkela ithuba lokutshintshana ngokubambisana kunye nobudlelwane be-Intanethi.
Ayikho yonke imiyalezo ye-intanethi yinto efanayo. Ezinye ziquka iingxoxo ze-inthanethi kunye neefowuni kuphela, ngelixa ezinye ziquka iintlanganiso zabantu. Ngandlela-thile, kukho ezinye izingozi zabazali bokuthandana kwi-intanethi kufuneka bazi malunga.
Iimpawu Ezifanelekileyo Zokuthandana Nge-Intanethi
I-world ye-cyber ikhuthaza abantu abanentloni nabangenangqondo ngokuthetha ngokubambisana kunye nomdla onothando. Umntu onamahloni , umzekelo, unokungena ngesibindi kubantu abatsha kwikamelo lokuxoxa inthanethi. Okanye, umfana onokuzithoba angayifumana isiqiniseko xa ehleli emva kwesikrini.
Abaselula abavakalelwa kukuba babhalwa ngabangane babo ngokungahambi kakuhle , okanye abo baziva bengenayo esikolweni, banokufumana abaontanga abanomdla kwi-Intanethi. Kwabanye abatsha, indawo eline-intanethi, okanye ubuhlobo obukhethekileyo kwi-intanethi, kunokubanceda babhekane noxinzelelo olutsha.
Ukuthandana kwe-intanethi ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kuba netyala. Abaselula abakhetha ukuthetha ngefowuni nakwi-intanethi ngokuqinisekileyo abakunobungozi bokuziphatha ngokwesondo. Ngenxa yoko, abazali abaninzi banqwenela ukuba umntwana wabo athathe inxaxheba ekuthandeni inthanethi.
Iingozi Ze-Intanethi Yokuthandana
Iintsholongwane nazo zingakhohliswa ekunikezeni ulwazi lomntu siqu olungaholela ekubanjweni kwazo.
Okanye, kwiimeko ezinzulu, banokukhangwa kwiintlanganiso zomntu ezinokuba yingozi.
Ngelishwa, izilwanyana zisoloko zixhaphaza ukunyaniseka kwentsha. Umntu othi ungumntwana webhola yebhola yebhola ye-16 kwidolophana elingumakhelwane, unokuba ngumntu omdala ofuna ukuphanga umfana ongenakulindelekanga.
Ngokudabukisayo, abaninzi abaselula bakholelwa ukuba inkohliso enjalo ayinakuze yenzeke kubo.
Abaselula basebenzisa amaninzi amaninzi afanayo okuthandana nabantu abadala. Izicelo ezinjengeTinder, umzekelo, vumela abantwana ukuba bafikelele kwisayithi yabo. Ngenxa yoko, intsha isoloko iqala ukuxoxa nabantu abadala abafuna i-romance.
Nangona umfana oneminyaka eyi-15 unokucinga ukuba ukuthetha nomntwana oneminyaka engama-25 'kupholile,' ubudlelwane obusondeleyo kunye nomda wobudala obunjalo bungaba nemiphumo emibi kakhulu nangomthetho.
Ukuthandana kwe-intanethi kunganciphisa intsebenziswano yentlalo yoluntu. Umntwana osemncinci kunye nesoka elithile kwelinye ilizwe angenza isigqibo sokuyeka iintlangano zentlalo, njengomdaniso okanye iqela, kuba ufuna ukuhlala ekhaya ukuthetha naye kwintombi yakhe kwi-intanethi. Oku kunokuba nemilinganiselo enzulu yobomi bentlalo yolutsha.
Ukuthandana kwe-intanethi kubandakanya ezinye zeengozi ezifanayo njengokuba-umntu othabathayo. Abaselula banokuxhatshazwa ngokwemvakalelo kumlingane othandanayo ngaphesheya kwehlabathi.
Xoxa Nomntwana Wakho Ngokuthandana Nge-Intanethi
Thetha intsha malunga neyona nkalo yokuthandana kwikhompyutha. Uninzi lweeblogi kunye namaphephancwadi aselula abonelelo lokufumana uthando kwi-intanethi. Kodwa intsha kufuneka ikwazi malunga nomnyama omnyama wokuthandana kwikhompyutha.
Ukuxelela umntwana wakho ukuba akakwazi ukuthetha nabantu abakwi-intanethi akwenzeki.
Iintsholongwane ezineenkcukacha zentlalo zentlalo ziza kubakho ubuhlobo be-intanethi obuya kuba yintando. Ngoko nangona wakho umntwana engabonanga ngokukodwa uthando kwi-intanethi, kusenokwenzeka.
Xoxa ngemiba yokhuseleko kwaye usebenzise iindlela ezicacileyo zokuzonwabisa kwezentlalo kunye nemithetho ye-intanethi. Ngokomzekelo, musa ukuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba ahlangabezane nabani na kwi-intanethi ngaphandle kokuthetha nawe malunga nalo kuqala. Yaye ukuba uya kuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba adibana nomntu kumntu, yenza kuqala uphando malunga nokuba ngubani lo mntu kwaye ulandelele intlanganiso.