Ukondla kweNdebe yindlela enye yokutya esetyenziselwa ukubonelela isondlo kumntwana osetyayo. Ukuba wena kunye nomntwana wakho unokuba kunye kunye nosana lwakho luyakwazi ukulondoloza kakuhle, indlela enye yokutya ayifanele isetyenziswe. Xa kunokwenzeka, kusoloko kulungele ukuncelisa. Nangona kunjalo, ukondla indebe kunokukhetha ngokufanelekileyo xa:
- Unesana esasingumntwana ongasayi kuncelisa
- Ingane yakho ayinakukwazi ukukhwela kwibele yakho
- Kufuneka uhlukaniswe nomntwana wakho obelethwe ixesha elifutshane
- Ingane yakho ayikwazi ukuncelisa okanye isondlo sesondlo ngenxa yeengxaki ze-neurological
- Ingane yakho inquma ukuya kwisiteti sokunonyameka kwaye inqabe ukuthatha isifuba
- Uyancoma umntwana wakho kwaye wenqaba ukuthatha ibhotile
Ukutya kweNdebe akuyindlela entsha. Kuye kwasetyenziswa kwihlabathi lonke ngeenkulungwane, kwaye kuthathwa njengendlela ekhuselekileyo yokutya iintsana ezincinane, nangona zingekafiki. Ngokukhetha ukusebenzisa indebe yokuncedisa umntwana wakho endaweni yebhotile, unokukwazi ukukhusela umntwana wakho ekuveliseni ukhetho kwibhotile okanye kwiinjuni zokufakelwa. Oku kunokwenza kube lula ukutshintshela ekunceliseni umntwana xa umntwana wakho ekwazi ukukhangela kunye nomhlengikazi.
Iikomityi ezincinci ezijikelezayo, ezijikelezileyo kunye neentonga ezivulekileyo zisetyenziselwa ukondla indebe. Iikomityi zonyango enye ezitholakala kwizibhedlele zingasetyenziselwa iintsana ezingaphambi kwexesha ezithatha inani elincinci lobisi lwebele ngexesha ngalinye lokutya.
Kwiintsana ezindala, iikopi enkulu iya kufuneka. Nangona kunjalo, iikomityi ezinamacwecwe kunye nama-spouts azikhuthazwa kuba zifana neebhotile.
Ukutya kweNdebe kunzima ukwenza, kodwa kuseyikhono. Njengomzali okanye umnakekeli, kufuneka ufunde indlela yokukhusela indebe yakho ngokukhuselekileyo, kwaye umntwana wakho kufuneka afunde ukusela kwindebe.
Kubalulekile ukuba okuqukethwe kwendebe akuthulwanga emlonyeni womntwana. Kunoko, umntwana usenokufunda ukusebenzisa ulwimi lwakhe ngokuthe ngcembe athathe umrhumo emlonyeni wakhe aze awuginye. Akufanele uzame ukukotya umntwana wakho ngaphandle kokuqala ukuthetha nomboneleli wakho wezempilo kwaye ufunde ubuchule obufanelekileyo.
Inzuzo
- Ukutya kweNdebe kunokubonelela ngesondlo ngaphandle kokusetyenziswa kwebhotile. Oku kunokukunceda ukuphepha " ukudideka kweentsimbi " kunye nokuphuhliswa kwebhotile.
- Ucocekile kunokuba usondle ngomunwe.
- Akunjalo nje ngexesha lokutya njengomunwe.
- Ukutya kweNdebe kunokukhokelela ekunceliseni ibele kunye nokuqhubekeka kokuncelisa ixesha elide.
Iingxaki
- Ngokungafani nesebe lokuncedisa abahlengikazi , ukondla indebe akunikezeli naluphi na ukuvuselela amabele ukuza nokugcina ubisi lwebele.
- Akunjalo lula, okanye njengento efanelekileyo, njengokutya kwebhotile.
- Akuboneleli ukuqeqeshwa okunyayo ukuba isondlo somunwe okanye isixhobo sokuncedisa umongikazi sikhuthaze.
- Kufuneka isetyenziswe kuphela njengendlela yokutya yesikhashana.
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