Fumana abantwana esikolweni, ngeenyawo nangexesha, ngebhasi yesikolo yokuhamba
Ukuba unqwenela ukuba abantwana bakho bahambe esikolweni , kodwa iingxaki zokungena kwizinto zifika endleleni, udinga ibhasi yesikolo yokuhamba. Inika iintsapho incediso efanayo njengoko i-carpool yenza, kunye nazo zonke iinzuzo zokuhamba ngeenyawo. Kwi-WSB, iqela labantwana lihamba esikolweni kunye (imihla ngemihla, okanye amaxesha ambalwa ngeveki), omnye nabazali ababini baphendukela ekulawuleni ukuhamba ngalunye.
Ngaloo ndlela, abantwana bahlala bekhuthele ngaphambi kwesikolo ngelixa banandipha ukuxhamla kunye nokuphucula ukhuseleko lokuhamba kwiqela. Ngaphezulu, abazali bafumana umzimba. Bagcina imali kwi-fuel kwaye bembatha kwizithuthi zabo. Kwaye banciphisa ukukhutshwa kwekhabhoni.
Ibhasi yesikolo ehambayo ingaba sesikweni, kunye neeshedyuli kunye nemithetho, okanye ilungiselelo eliqhelekileyo phakathi kweentsapho ezimbini okanye ezintathu. Ukuze ufumane eyakho, hambisa igama kubamelwane nakwezinye iintsapho esikolweni sakho sezingane. Ukuba isikolo sakho sineqela le-Facebook okanye i-e-newsletter, sebenzisa abo ukukunceda ukuba ulingane nomdla (kunye nokufutshane). Ufuna kuphela enye okanye ezimbini iintsapho ukuba ziqalise.
Hlela Ubhasi Bakho Bokuhamba NgeSikolo
Qala ngokucwangcisa indlela. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kufuneka ufumane ukusuka kwinqanaba A (iintsapho zezingane) ukukhomba iB (isikolo). Qinisekisa ukuba uya kuthatha umntwana ngamnye ekhaya, okanye uqokelele kwiindawo zokuhlangana ezikhethiweyo endleleni.
Emva koko, yenza ithayimthebhile. Bonisa umfanekiso oza ku funeka udibane ukuze ukhethe wonke umntu kwaye ufike esikolweni ngexesha.
Khumbula ukuba abantwana abancinci abakwazi ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza njengoko baninzi. Yenza isigqibo sokuba ngaba ibhasi yesikolo iya kuhamba imihla ngemihla, okanye ngeentsuku ezithile zeveki. Ngaba uza kuba nezingane ezaneleyo kunye neenqwelwana ukuhamba emva kwesikolo? Uza kuthatha njani iintsuku zokugxothwa kwangaphambili, izifo okanye ezinye iinguqulelo?
Xa usayazi ukuba kuphi na nini na, cwangcisa abahambahambayo abadala.
Qinisekisa ukuba wonk 'ubani uyazi ukuba yiyiphi imini ejongene nayo, kwaye ngubani ozakuqhagamshelana ukuba kuvela ingxamiseko. Ingcamango enhle yokusabalalisa iinombolo zeefowuni kunye nomnxeba wefowuni nganye kwiqela.
Yilindele iingxaki kwaye uzame ukuzilungisa phambi kwexesha. Kuthekani ukuba abantwana abengekho kwindawo yokuhlangana ngexesha? (Unako ukubeka ixesha lobabalo, uthi, imizuzu emihlanu uze ushiye ngaphandle kwabo.) Kuthekani ukuba umntu ukhohliwe into kwaye ufuna ukuya ekhaya? (Unokuqhagamshelana nabazali bomntwana uze ubone ukuba ingaza yini na loo nto.) Kuthekani ukuba kushushu, kubanda, kunqabileyo, okanye kunetha? (Gqoka nge!)
Kuthekani ukuba abantwana bebala kunye neenyawo-badonsa? Dlala imidlalo yokuhamba xa icaza okanye ibhaxe ngexesha lokuhamba kwakho. Okanye uthethe nabanye abazali malunga nenkqubo yomvuzo, njengetshathi yesikiti, yokuziphatha okuhle.
Ukhuseleko kwiBhasi leSikolo sakho sokuhamba
Kumele ube nobuntwana omnye kwabadala abathandathu kwibhasi yesikolo sakho sokuhamba (kubantwana abaneminyaka engama-6 ukuya kwe-10; abantwana abadala bangadinga ukunyamekela, kunye nabancinci ngaphezulu).
Ngaphambi kosuku lokuqala, thabatha uhambo lokuhlola ukujonga indlela: Ngaba zikhona iindlela zokuhamba? Yeka iimpawu okanye izibane? Ukugqithisa abalindi? (Unokufuneka ubize isithili sesikolo ukuba ubone oko, ukuba uvavanya indlela kwimihla engeyiyo yesikolo.) Zizitatatasa kangakanani?
Ukuba uhlangabezana naziphi na iingxaki, cinga ukukhangela enye indlela okanye indawo yokuhlangana. Okanye qhagamshelana nesikolo okanye abameli bezomthetho ukucela utshintsho. "Iindlela ezikhuselekileyo eziya esikolweni" luyimithombo entle kakhulu, nayo. Umbutho unokukunceda ukhuthaze ukuhamba kwezithuthi kunye neenguqu zengqalasizinda ezenza ukuba isixeko sakho sivikeleke ngabahamba ngeenyawo.
Ngaphambi kohambo lokuqala lokuhamba ngebhasi esikolweni, khumbuza abantwana malunga nemithetho yokuphepha yokuhamba, njengokujonga izinto zombini ngaphambi kokuba uwele emgwaqweni, uwele ngokukhanya, ubambe isandla somdala xa uceliwe, njalo njalo. Phinda ubuyekeze imigaqo ngokukhawuleza kunyaka wesikolo.
Kuthiwani Ukuba Ufuna Ukuhamba Ngebhayisikili?
Yenzelwe ngokupheleleyo! Ibhasi yebhayisiki yesikolo ehambayo ibizwa ngokuthi "isitimela sebhayisikili," kwaye uza kuyilungisa ngendlela efanayo. Qinisekisa ukuba bonke abathathi-nxaxheba (kubandakanywa nabantu abadala) baneemodemethi ezifanelekileyo . Oku kungafanelekanga. Ukuba kukho umntu onenkathazo yokufaka isigqoko okanye ibhayisikili, jonga kwisithili sakho okanye kwiphondo lamapolisa ukuba ufumane iiprogram zebhayisikili ezikhululekileyo okanye ezihlaziyiweyo.