Indlu yakho yindawo enye enkulu yokufumanisa kunye nomntwana wakho oyingcali yendalo. Akukho nto ongayenza ukuze utshintshe uhlobo lwakhe kule nqanaba, kwaye uzama ukucacisa ukuba iikhabhinethi zekhitshini azihambeli okanye aziqeqesha ngokubongela izinto ezingayi kusebenza ngenxa yokuba akanalo izakhono zokuqonda baqonde. Mxelele, "Hayi!" kwaye uya kuphinda ayenze kwakhona ngemizuzu elishumi kuba akayi kuba nako ukuqonda imiphumo okanye imithetho kuze kube yile minyaka emithathu ubudala (kwaye nangona kunjalo, kuya kuthatha isikhumbuzo esininzi).
Kukho izinto ezimbalwa ongayenza, okwangoku, ukugcina umntwana wakho ukhuphile kwaye uyonwabile ngelixa uyenzela i-snack okanye utshintshe kwi-loo.
Yenza indawo ekhuselekileyo yokudlala
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ikhaya lakho likhulu okanye lincinci, unokwenza isikhala esiphephile kwintsana. Unokukhetha ezimbalwa, kuxhomekeke kwiminyaka yomntwana wakho.
Abancinci abaselula kakhulu basenokukwazi ukusebenzisa izixhobo zokuzibandakanya ezizimeleyo okanye abaqhubi, apho bahlala khona kwiplatifti, bajikeleze, okanye batye ngexesha bedlala kunye nemidlalo yamathoyizi.
Xa bexakeka kwisiko lomsebenzi, ungasebenzisa ididi yokudlala ephathekayo. Umntwana wakho unokumelana nokuvalelwa kwindawo encinci ngoku akwazi ukuhamba kwaye ahlolisise, kodwa ngokudlala kunye nokuzonwabisa, kuyisisombululo esihle sokuqhubela kwigumbi lokuhlamba okanye umsebenzi okhawulezayo.
Kubantwana abaselula, ungadinga ukwandisa indawo yabo yokudlala. Izinto ezinjengeziko le-Playzone Play nge-Friendly Toys yindlela enhle.
Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu ngemali, le ndawo yokudlala esemgangathweni apho encinane inendawo yokuhamba khona kwaye, ibekwe kude nezinto ezinokubangela ingozi, kuya kukuvumela ukuba umntwana wakho adlale ngokuzimela ixesha elide. Kufuneka uhlale ungaboni kwaye uhlolisise umntwana wakho rhoqo, kodwa usakuvumela ukuba ulandele ukuhlamba kuyo yonke indawo ngaphandle kwezandla ezincinane uphonsa ityhusi.
Unako ukuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba angene kwiindawo zokuhamba xa unako ukukhusela indawo ezinobungozi ezifana nezitebhisi okanye ikhitshi kunye namasango omntwana. Ukunika iinyawo zakho iintsuku ezininzi ukuzulazula kwaye uhlolisise ibhokisi eyahlukeneyo kunye neebhondi zamathoyizi xa uhlala kufuphi nawe indlela ehle kakhulu yokwakha ukuzimela kwaye unelisekile loo nto yendalo. Ngaphambi kokuba uthenge isango, kunjalo, ufuna ukuqiniseka ukuba ucinga ubungakanani bendawo kwaye ingaba isango linokukhutshwa ngokukhuselekileyo.
Khusela i indawo
Ngoko ezo ziyizicwangciso, kodwa inyaniso kukuba, abaselula bayaphuma abaculi abangcono kuneHoudini. Kanye xa ufundela ukuba umntanakho udlala ngokuphandle kwisibhedlele okanye ujikeleza kwindawo yokudlala ekhuselekile kwigumbi lokuphumla, uya kubuya kumatshini wokuhlamba umthwalo omanzi uze uhambe phezu kwakhe. Abafundi bafunda ukucima isikhalazo, ukuvula amasango okuphepha kunomama nobawo, kwaye uguqulwe ngokuvula ngokusemthethweni phakathi kombhede kunye nodonga. Ngezo zizathu, zama ukungazange uphume kwamehlo okanye ezindlebeni ixesha elide kwaye ugcine iingcebiso zokukhusela ezisisiseko :
- Izinto ezingenamntwana. IiWindows, iikhabhinethi, izixhobo zokupheka, izitepisi kunye nezinto ezinobungozi - bonke kufuneka bavalelwe okanye bangenakufikeleleka kwizandla ezincinci. Ngaphambi kokuba umntwana wakho asebenze, qalisa umntwana ukubonakalisa ikhaya lakho. Unokujonga kwakhona kwi-intanethi yamashishini asekuhlaleni aya kuza kwindlu yakho nobungqina bentsana kuwe.
- Gcina iliso elisondeleyo. Ukuba awukwazi ukubona umntanakho xa uqhuba imisebenzi yakho, faka ividiyo okanye umboniso womntwana olalelwayo egumbini kunye naye, kwaye ugcine umnamkeli nawe ngamaxesha onke.
- Qinisekisa ukuba zonke iimathoyi zifanelekile kwaye zikhuselekile. Ngamanye amaxesha, umncinci ufumana into engeyona nto yokudlala kunye kwaye inokuqhotyoshela kuyo. Ndinezingane ezincinci zithintela ukulahla iifowuni zangasese, izitya zasekhishini, okanye isibalo somntu osekudala. Nangona uvumela umntwana wakho ukuba aphathe loo nto xa ujikeleze, qiniseka ukuba ungayishiyi kwindawo yokudlala xa umntwana esedwa. Iimidlalo ezikhuselekileyo ziphela kuphela kwindawo yokudlala ekhuselekile.
- Musa ukuhamba ixesha elide. Unokucinga ukuba kuya kuthatha imizuzu emihlanu ukuba uhlambe, kodwa kulula ukuphazamiseka kwaye uhlale ixesha elide kakhulu. Musa. Izingozi zenzeke ngokukhawuleza, kwaye kungakhathaliseki ukuba ucinga kakuhle kangakanani ukuba ukhusele indawo yendawo yokudlala, usenokuba ulibalekele into engabangela ingozi. Ukuba ucinga ukuba awuyi kubonwa ngumntwana wakho osebenzayo ngaphezu kwemizuzu embalwa, khangela iindlela zokumisela indawo ekhuselekileyo yokudlala kufuphi nawe, njengokumisela ididi yokudlala ekhishini.
Yamkela uMyalezo
Ukunyaniseka, ndiza kuvuyiswa ngamaphunga ambalwa kunye neepaneli ezihlakazekile phantsi. Ndigcina amashalofu amakhishini amancinci aphethe izitya ezikhuphayo kunye neTupperware ukuba umntwana wam okhululekile ukuba adlale kunye nexa ndilungiselela ukudla isidlo okanye uthetha kwifowuni. Kukho imida kwaye kakhulu (kakhulu) ukuqiniswa komntwana wakho uya kufunda ukuba inkunkuma ingakwazi ukudlala, kodwa ukukhulula inkcazo yakho yokutya ingaba yimfuneko yokuphila kwiminyaka emancinci kunye ne-sanity yakho.