Abazali abancinci nabancinci banenkxalabo yokuba abantwana babo bangabonwaba kwaye bazibuze ukuba bafanele bayenze ntoni ngawo. Ufuna ukugcina umntwana wakho umngeni kwaye uvuseleleke ngoko uya kuphuhlisa amandla akhe ngokupheleleyo.
Unokubonelela njani ngamathuba okufunda afanelekileyo kodwa aphumelele ngokwaneleyo kumntwana onobuchule? Awufuni ukuwela kwisicupho sokunyanzelisa umntwana wakho okanye ukubonelela ngemisebenzi eyakhiweyo.
Oku kunokukhokelela ekukhungeni nasekukhathazeni. Kwakhona, khumbula ukuba iinkalo ezahlukeneyo zomntwana wakho ziya kuba ngamaxesha athile. Umntwana wakho unakho ukuqonda ngokweenkcukacha ukulungele ukwakha izinto, kodwa ulwaphulo lwezakhono ezifanelekileyo ezifunekayo. Umntwana wakho uya kudla ixesha lokudlala ekuphuculweni kwakhe kwentlalo kunye nomoya.
Ngamanye amaxesha kulula kubazali ukulibala ukuba abantwana babo abanesiphiwo okanye abafundela esikolweni basesigxina kuphela. Abazali abaneminyaka eyi-3 ubudala abanomdla ofunda kwisigaba sesithathu, ngokomzekelo, banakho "ukulibala" ukuba umntwana wabo uphila iminyaka emithathu kuphela. Nangona kunjalo, ihlabathi yindawo enkulu, egcwele ulwazi kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo zezifundo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ngaba bahlakaniphile kangakanani abantwana abafana abanesiphiwo , abazange bafike kufuphi nokuhlola lonke ihlabathi eliza kunika.
Ukucinga malunga naba bantwana abancinane kunye nehlabathi ngale ndlela kwenza kube lula ukucinga ngeendlela zokuzigcina zicelomngeni kwaye zivuselele.
Le minyaka ngaphambi kokuba abantwana baye esikolweni bangaba ngamaxesha amnandi kubazali njengoko befunda ngeminqweno yabo namakhono abo. Ihlabathi livulekile!
Iingingqi abantwana abangazihlola
- Ulwimi, iincwadi kunye nokuFunda: Abanye abantwana abanamakhono bathanda ulwimi, ngokukodwa abantwana abanobuchule . Bangaba banomdla ngeencwadi kunye namagama, bafuna ukufunda rhoqo, okanye bafunde ukuzifunda. Nangona kunjalo, nokuba abo bantwana abangabandakanyekanga ngolwimi banokuzonwabisa ngokuhlolisisa le ndawo. Iileta zamaginethi zefriji, ii-foam zokubhabha, iifabhethi ze-alfabhethi kunye neencwadi-ezi zixhobo zonke ezintle zokwenza ekhaya, ngokukodwa kubantwana abaselula abangazange bafunde iilfabhethi okanye bafunde ukufunda. IiVideos okanye iiDVD ze-alfabhethi nokufunda, njengalezo ngeSesame Street, zilungile.
- Amanani kunye neMathematika : Umntwana onomsebenzi wemfundo unokuthanda amanani kunye neengxaki zematriki ezilula. Kwakhona, kwanabantwana abangenalo isakhono semathematika banokuzonwabisa ngokuhlola umhlaba weenombolo. Amanani omnxeba kunye ne-foam ayimithombo emihle yokuba nekhaya njengamanani epuzzle kunye neencwadi.
- Inzululwazi: Ingaba i-biology, i-botany, i-astronomy, i-physics, okanye i-chemistry, isebe ngalinye lezesayensi linemigaqo ethile elula enoba abantwana bayayiqonda, kwaye baninzi ukuhlolisisa ukuqhubela phambili kwengqondo. Umthetho wobukhulu bamandla ngumzekelo omhle. Konke okufunekayo ukufumana ukucinga kwengane ephilileyo kukubuza imibuzo ebonisa eminye yale migaqo elula, imibuzo efana neyo "Yintoni ibhola ewela phantsi xa siyiphosa emoyeni? Ukuhlola kwenyanga kunye neenkwenkwezi, ingakumbi kwixesha leentsuku ukugcina utshintsho esibhakabhakeni. Ugqirha ukuba uhlolwe okanye ugula lunokuthi lube ngumthombo wokuxoxa ngendlela umzimba usebenza ngayo. Abazali akudingeki ukuba babe nazo zonke iimpendulo, bafuna nje le mibuzo: Funa iincwadi kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo zesayensi ezibhalelwe abantwana abancinci. banokufumana iincwadi zokuvavanya ukuba abantwana benze ntoni nabazali babo.
- Ubugcisa: Ngenxa yokuba abantu bathambekele ekucingeni izifundo zezifundo xa becinga ngabantwana abanesipho, bayalibala ngezinye iindawo zokuhlola. Ubugcisa ngenye yezo ndawo. Abazali bangahamba ngaphaya kweekrayoni eziqhelekileyo kunye neencwadi zokubala imibala ukuze bancede abantwana babo bahlole olu cala lobomi lobomi. Gcina izixhobo zobugcisa ukuze uhlolisise ubugcisa. Iphepha lokwakha, i-glue, iintsiba, umtya, kunye nantoni na enye into enokuyibamba kunye nokwakheka inika abantwana ithuba lokufunda ngobugcisa. Izinto ezininzi ezingavumelekanga njenge-macaroni zingasetyenziselwa ukudala imifanekiso. Imibala yeminwe kunye neepompo zamanzi zentsimbi zilungile ukuba nazo. Kungcono nakwimibala ye-tempera kuba ivumela umntwana ukuba asebenzise iibrashi zokupenda zobukhulu obuhlukeneyo, obuza kunika iindlela ezininzi zokuhlola umzobo. Isibalulekileyo kukuvumela umntwana ukuba abe nobuchule. Iincwadi ezibugcisa kunye nezobugcisa kubantwana nazo ziyafumaneka kwilayibrari.
- Umculo: Umculo ungenye indawo engeyiyo yezemfundo abazali abangenakuyicinga njengokuba bazibuza ukuba bangayenza ntoni ukugcina umntwana wabo onobuchule evuselelwe ekhaya. Konke okufunekayo ukuhlolisisa umculo ngumsakazo, uluhlu lokudlala, okanye umdlali weCD kunye neebhotile, ipaneli, iibhondi kunye neepuni. Ukudibanisa umculo kunye neengcweti, abantwana bangenza izixhobo zomculo, ezifana nezo zifumaneka kwiWebhsayithi yakwaPaul Borgese. Ngaphandle koko, abazali banokuthenga izixhobo zokudlala ezingabonwa ngabantwana babo. Ngona iibhola eziphambili ezingabonakaliyo zingabonakali kakhulu, kunye neengcingo zengqungquthela kunye neetoni ezahlukeneyo.
Njengoko abantwana bekhula, kunokuba nzima ngakumbi ukuyigcina ekhaya, kodwa kule minyaka yokuqala, inokulula. Akuqhelekanga ukubonelela ngezifundo ezisemgangathweni kubafundi abancinci kunye nabasesikolweni. Ngokubanzi bafuna ukuchazwa kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zokufunda kunye namathuba okuhlola ezo ndawo. Ukubonelela abantwana abanezixhobo ekhaya kungabaniki nje ngamathuba, kubancedisa (kunye nabazali babo) banqume imimandla yabo yomdla. Abantwana abangenalo ithuba lokuhlola i-astronomy abanokungazi ukuba bathanda kangakanani!
Abazali akufuneki bakhathazeke ngokunyanzelisa abantwana babo xa bebonelela ngezi zixhobo. Ngaphandle kokuba abazali baphoqele abantwana babo ukuba bafunde, akuxhasi, ngakumbi xa abantwana babo bebancinci kunye nabantwana basesikolweni.