Umbuzo wendalo kunye nokunyusa ekudaleni izipho ngumdala. Nangona kunjalo, le mihla abaninzi abantu bakholelwa ukuba umntu unokudala umntwana onobuchule. Abazali benethemba lokunika abantwana babo umncintiswano wokuthenga ukuthenga zonke iindidi zezixhobo zokufundisa, kubandakanywa iiCD zamaMozart zomculo zokudlala kwiintsana zabo okanye kubantwana abangakazalwa esesesibelethweni.
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Ubulumko njengeBlue Rubber
Kubonakala kulula ukuqonda iimpembelelo zendalo kunye nokunyusa ukuba sicinga ngobuchwephesha njengebhola le-rubber. Cinga ngamacandelo e-raber. Ziza ngobukhulu obuhlukeneyo: ezinye zincinci, kanti ezinye zikhulu kakhulu. Ngamnye wethu uzalwe ngenani elithile lobunzima; Mfa nekiso nje nje ngebhodi yerubha ethile.
Yiloo nxalenye yendalo. Ukuba sikhulisa olo bulumko, sinokukunceda ukuba lukhule. Oku kuya kufana nokwelula ibhande le-rubber. Umntwana onobuchule unengqondo efana neqela elikhulu le-rubber. Abanye abantwana banamaqela amancinci e-rubber
Ukukhulisisa Ubume kunye nokuLungisa iBlue Rubber
Nangona izinto ezifana namakhadi adibeneyo kunye nemidlalo yamatye kunye nemidlalo ayinakudala umntwana onobuchule, kusengumzekelo omuhle ukuwasebenzisa xa umntwana wakho ethanda.
Zingasetyenziselwa ukuzala, kungekhona ukunyusa , umntwana wakho. Xa ubuchule bendalo bomntwana bukhuliswe, sisetyenziselwa ukunweba iqela le-rubber abazalelwe ngalo. Injongo yethu ngomntwana ngamnye kufuneka ukuba welula iqela layo le-rubber kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
Kukho, impela, umda wendlela esinokuyolulela ngayo iqela le-rubber. Siyakwazi ukwelula ibhande elikhulu le-rubber kakhulu kunokuba sinokululaza ibhande elincinci le-rubber, kwaye asikwazi ukwenza ibhanki elincinci yerabha enkulu. Ngethuba bebukeka befana, abayikho.
Isidingo Somngeni
Ukuba sinomngeni kumntwana onobuchule, solulela ulwazi lwakhe. Kuyafana nawuphi na umntwana. Xa sinomngeni kumntwana, ngakumbi silula ulwazi.
Khawucinge ngeqela elikhulu le-rubber kunye nebhola eliphakathi kwerubha. Khawucinge nje ulula i-rubber band ephakathi kwaye ungenzi nto neqela elikhulu le-rubber. Unokuphelisa ngeemigangatho ezimbini zerabha ezikhangele ukuba zilinganayo. Ibhande le-rubber eliphakathi elide linokubonakala libukhulu kuneqela elikhulu le-rubber!
Oku kwenzekayo kumntwana onomsebenzi ongeyithandabuzo xa kuthelekiswa nomntwana ophakathi. Esikolweni, oonyana ababini bajonga ngendlela efanayo. Umyinge osemgangathweni unokubonakala ngathi uyabulumko. Nangona kunjalo, umntwana onobuchule unesibindi esikhulu somrubha.
Iimbophu ezimbini zeerubha ngokwazo ziyahlukileyo. Ibhande le-rubber elululwe kunye nelinye elingaqhelekanga lingakhange lijonge konke ngokufanayo nangona umlinganiselo ubude obufanayo.
Injongo yethu kukumngeni abantwana bethu , kungakhathaliseki ukuba bahlakaniphileyo, kwaye batyulise iingqondo zabo ngokusemandleni ethu. Asinakukwazi ukuguqula umntwana ngamnye kuba ngumntwana onobuchule, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo sinokumngeni umngeni ngamnye umntwana ukuze afikelele kakhulu.