Ukuba nosana olungaphambi kokuzalwa, olubizwa ngokuba yi "preemie," lunokuyikrakra kwaye lugxininise. Abazali balindele ngelanga xa bengenise umntwana wabo kwisibhedlele, kodwa xa umntwana ezalwa kungekudala, kufuneka ahlale esibhedlele, ngamanye amaxesha ngeenyanga, ngelixa abazali bebuyela ekhaya bengenanto. Kuyinto enesizungu, engenanto.
Ukushiya umntwana emva kwesibhedlele iiveki nje kukuqala kobunzima balindele abazali be-preemie kwiinyanga ezilandelayo.
Enye yezi ngxaki ibona ukuba umntwana ukhula ngokuqhelekileyo. Ukuba usana luzalwa emva kweeveki ezisi-6, umntwana uza kuhlala nini? Qala ukuhamba? Qala u kuthetha? Iingcaphuko zezinto eziqhelekileyo zophuhliso ezibonakalayo azibonakali luncedo kuba uphuhliso lwe-preemie lugxuma emva kwexesha elipheleleyo leintsana. Nangona kunjalo, ukuphuhliswa kwengane engaphaya kwexesha kungekudala ukuba ingasemva emva kokuba abazali becinga. Ukuchonga ukuba uphuhliso lwama-preemie luphakathi kweendawo eziqhelekileyo, zifuna nje ukulungelelanisa iminyaka yobudala . Oko kuthetha ukuba esikhundleni sokusebenzisa usuku lokuzalwa lomntwana, baya kusebenzisa usuku lokuzalwa komntwana. Ngokomzekelo, umntwana ozelwe ngoJanuwari wesithathu kodwa engafanelekanga kude kube ngowesi-3 kuFebruwari uza kuthathwa njengengane entsha ngoFebruwari wesithathu. Ngomhla wesithathu kuMatshi, umntwana uya kuqwalaselwa enye inyanga ubudala.
Ukuphonononga ukuphuhliswa kwe-preemie, naye onomntwana onomsebenzi kunzima nakakhulu. Enye into, nangona iimpawu zobungqina zingabonwa kwiintsana , loo mqondiso ayiyi kuvela emva kwexesha elide emva kokuzalwa komntwana.
Ngenxa yokuba iintshaba zihlala zifumana ukulibaziseka kokuphuhliswa , imiqondiso ingaba nzima nakakhulu ukufunda.
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Kwimeko eqhelekileyo, ukuphuhliswa kwabantwana abanesakhono kunokungafani. Abantwana abanikiweyo abanakuhlala belandela indlela yokuphuhliswa yolu hlobo, ngokulandelayo kunomzekelo wokuphuhlisa .
Ukuphuhliswa kwabo kwengqondo kucacisa ukuba kuqhube phambili kunokuba umntu alindele kubantwana beminyaka efanayo, kodwa ukukhula kwabo ngokomzimba akunakuqhubela phambili. Enyanisweni, inokuthi ingasemva. I-preemie child iyakwazi nokuba neengcambu ezinkulu phakathi kokuqonda kwengqondo, yentlalo kunye nomoya kunye nophuhliso lomzimba. Nangona kunjalo, kuba abazali banenkxalabo malunga nokulibaziseka okuphuhlisayo okuchaphazela umntwana kamva ebomini, ukuphuhliswa okungafaniyo komntwana ozalelwe kwangaphambili kunokubangela ukuba abazali bafune unyango xa kungekho nto ifunekayo.
Iimpawu ezibalulekileyo kunye neempawu
Kwaba nabazali bexesha elizeleyo abanabanikiweyo banenkathazo yokuqikelela ukuba umntwana wabo unelungelo okanye awunayo. Bakwazi ukubheka uluhlu lweempawu eziphathekayo kwaye ukuba umntwana wabo akanalo zonke izicatshulwa ezidweliswe, bacinga ukuba umntwana wabo akafanele anikwe izipho. Ngokomzekelo, olunye ulwimi oluluncedo kubantwana lubhala ngeenyanga ezintandathu. Abanye abantwana abanikiweyo baye bathetha ilizwi labo lokuqala ngeenyanga ezintandathu. Nangona kunjalo, abaninzi abantwana abanesiphiwo sezona zinto zithetha ngokukhawuleza. Abayithethi nje ngaphambili kunabantwana abaninzi, bathetha kakhulu kamva. Enyanisweni, abanye abantwana abanobuchule abakhulumi de kube emva kokuzalwa kwabo okwesibini. Akunakuze balandele iphetshana eliqhelekileyo lokubamba kunye nokulinganisa izandi.
Akuqhelekanga ukuba abantwana abanesiphiwo sokunyamekela bathule baze balungele ukuthetha kwaye xa bekulungele ukuqala ukuthetha, ngokuqhelekileyo kwizivakalisi ezipheleleyo.
Ukuba umntwana wazalwa kungekudala, abazali baya kuba nexhala malunga noko bakubona njengokulibaziseka kweelwimi, xa oko kubonwayo kunokuba yinto evumelekileyo yokuziphatha.
Ubunzima
Omnye umbuzo abazali abanabantwana abanesakhono abanokujamelana nawo kukukhathazeka kakhulu. Enye yezi zizwe, into ebizwa ngokuba yinyameko yenyama, ibukeka kakhulu njengeSingory Integration Disorder, enye into eyaziwa ngokuba yi-Dysfunction of Integration Integration.
Nangona kunjalo, ezi zizona zimeko ezifanayo, kodwa abantwana abazalwa ngaphambi kokuba bazalwe bavame ukuxilongwa ukuba baneengxaki xa oko kuboniswa ngumntwana kukuxhamla kubantwana abanesakhono.
Ubaluleka kubazali be-Preemie
Abazali abanabantwana abazalelwe ngaphambi kokudala kwaye abonakalisa nayiphi na imiqondiso yesipho, njengokulumkisa okanye ukusebenza ngokugqithiseleyo, basesimeni esinzima. Ngaba iimpawu abazijongayo kubantwana babo iimpawu zokulibaziseka kokuphuhliswa okanye ngaba zizibonakaliso zentuthuko evamile? Ngaba abantwana babo badinga unyango okanye ngaba abantwana bayaqhubeka bekhula njengabantwana abanesiphiwo, njengenxanxathela kunye novelwano olunzulu? Le ngxaki ikhona kubazali abaninzi abanezingane ezineziphiwo, kodwa kunxunguphalo xa umntwana ezalwa ngaphambi kokusukela ekubeni iintsana ezingaphambi kwexesha ezinokuqala ukulibaziseka njengokuphuculwa kokuthetha kunye nezinye iingxaki ezinjengeSingory Integration Disorder. Abazali mabahlale bexoxa ngeengxaki zabo kunye nezingane zabo, kodwa kufuneka baqiniseke ukuba bona, kunye nezingane zabo, bayazi kakuhle ukuphuhliswa kwabantwana abanesakhono.