Sonke sivile ilizwi elithi "ingwe ayitshintshi amabala akhe." Le ngcaphuno ibonisa ukuba xa umntwana engumxhaphazi, uya kuhlala engumxhaphazi. Kodwa oko akunjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi, ngokukodwa nabantwana abasakhulayo nokufunda. Amaxesha amaninzi ngokuqeqeshwa okuchanekileyo kunye nokungenelela kwangaphambili, abaxhatshazwayo bafumana izakhono ezifunekayo ukwenza ukhetho olungcono.
Ukuba usebenze kunye noxhaphaza ukwenza ukhetho olungcono kwaye uphathe abanye abafundi abangcono, unokuzibuza ukuba ungathini ukuba umsebenzi wakho unempembelelo. Nazi izikhombisi ezisixhenxe ezivulekileyo ukuba utyhutyha uvule.
Ubuqhophololo abukho ixesha elide kunciphisa ingxaki
Ngokuqhelekileyo, umxhaphazi uya kuthatha uxanduva kwizenzo zakhe. Kunoko, uya kuzama ukunciphisa izenzo zakhe. Injongo kukunciphisa ukubaluleka koxhatshazo kunye nokuphuhlisa impembelelo ebeyenayo kwixhoba. Ukuba ungumfundisi, umlawuli wesikolo okanye umcebisi, kufuneka ukwazi ukubona iindlela zokuncitshiswa. Xa umxhaphazi eyeka ukusebenzisa ezo zakhono, unokuvulelwa ukutshintsha.
Ubuqhophozi Awuyi kuXhobisa ngeZakhe okanye eziKhethekileyo
Emva kokuba umxhaphazi akwazi ukuzakhela ukhetho lwakhe ngaphandle kokulinganisa okanye ukulungiswa, oku kuyinyathelo lokwenene lokutshintsha. Umxhaphazi kufuneka akwazi ukucacisa oko akhethayo ngaphandle kokuchazela ukuba kutheni ezi zigqibo zenza ingqiqo.
Ukuba oko kwenzeka, uya kuba uyazi ukuba wenza inkqubela.
Ubundlobongela Awuyizizathu Zokuziphatha Kwakhe okanye Ukuziphatha Kwakhe.
Akuqhelekanga kubaxhatshazo ukuba bazame ukuzibonakalisa njengamaxhoba kwaye ngoko bazame ukuxolela zabo iimpazamo. Yilungiselele amabali ngokuphila kanzima ekhaya, abazali abaqhawule umtshato okanye ukusetyenziswa kakubi ekhaya.
Nangona zonke ezi zinto ziyingozi xa umntwana eselula kufuneka abhekane nabo, abasayi kubaxolela ngokuziphatha. Umxhaphazi kufuneka abe ngumnikazi wakhe. Ubomi bakhe bobubi bemihlali abumniki imvume yokuphatha abanye kakuhle. Qinisekisa ukubonisa uvelwano ngento ayenayo ngelixa eqhubeka ephethe okanye ephendula .
Imibukiso Yokuxhaphaza Abanye Bazisola Ngezigqibo Zakhe
Emva kokuba umxhaphazi evekile ngokwenene ngenxa yentlungu ayibangela abanye, uya kukwazi ukuba wenza impembelelo. Emva koko, ukuba u-bully uyavuma ukuba iziphumo zakhe zenzeke komnye umntu, ngoko uncedo lwakho lusebenza. Yena wenza inkqubela ngokwenene xa ekwazi ukuziva ukuzisola.
Ubundlobongela Awuyikuxhathisa le Nkinga
Xa umxhaphazi enokuxoxa ngesiganeko sokuxhatshazwa ngaphandle kokuphazamisa, uya kukwazi ukuba usondele ekutshintsheni. Akayi kuphinda aphephe umcimbi, kodwa kunokuba akwazi ukuxoxa ngokucacileyo nangokunyaniseka ngelixa ephethe uxanduva lwezenzo zakhe kunye nokukhetha kwakhe.
Ubuqhophozi abukho ixesha elide elizama ukutshintsha i-blame
Phantse bonke abaxhaphazayo bazame ukubeka ityala ngomnye umntu ngokukhetha kwabo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, baxhatshazwayo kwaye bazama ukukuqinisekisa ukuba ixhoba lababangele okanye bafanelwe unyango ngandlela-thile.
Kananjalo banokuthi bangene kwiintsilelo kwixhoba baze bachaze ukuba xa behluke ngandlela-thile ukuxhatshazwa kwakungeke kwenzeke.
Ubuthakathaka Buya Kuvakalela Abanye
Oku mhlawumbi yikhombisi enkulu yenguqu kwi-bully. Ukuba uqaphela ukuba umxhaphazi ngoku unokuziva kwaye aqonde kakuhle indlela ixhoba elivakalelwa ngayo kodwa indlela abanye abakwiimeko ezifanayo banokuziva ngayo, ngoko uya kukwazi ukuba wenze inkqubela yangempela. Nanini naxa umntu ekwazi ukuchaza nokuqonda indlela abanye abanokuvakalelwa ngayo, ngoko uya kukwazi ukuba ukungenelela kwakho ukuxhatshazwa kwenzalo .