Umbuzo ovuthayo owenziwa ngabazali abasebasha abaphendulwayo
Ngaba wakho umntwana uselula? Ukuba uhleka, ungumzali osemtsha! Abazali abaninzi bakhononda ngokukhawuleza kwemizwelo eyenziwa ngabantwana babo xa betshaba . Kukho izizathu ezivakalayo zokuba unomntwana osemva-kwaye akukhona nje ama-hormone.
Iintsholongwane ze-Moody kunye neBrains zabo eziguqukayo ngokukhawuleza
Ngaphambi kokusetyenziswa kwe-MRI (i-imagination magnetic imagination resonance), kwakunzima ukubona ukuba kwenzekani ngaphakathi kwengqondo yengane.
Uninzi lwabaphandi ababenokusebenza kunye nabo babunabantwana nabaselula abaswele kwangaphambili.
Ngoku sinokubona indlela isakhiwo sengqondo esiphuhlisa ngayo ngoncedo lweMRI. Oko sikuyazi ngoku ukuba ingqondo yentsha iyatshintsha ngokukhawuleza xa ushicilelo luyabetha.
I-prefrontal cortex yengqondo yilapho izikhokelo eziyinkimbinkimbi zilawulwa khona - ukwenza ukwenziwa kwezigqibo ezinzima, ukubonisa ubuntu, ukukhokela ukusebenzisana kwentlalo. Lo mmandla wengqondo unobunzima bokuvuselela ngexesha lobuncinci. Ukuqhagamshelana phakathi kwala maseli eengqondo kuvela kumazinga aphezulu kwakhona emva kokuzinzileyo kubantwana bonke.
Ubungqina bentsholongwane bukhula ngakumbi kwimimandla ethile yengqondo ngeli xesha, kwi-lobe yangaphambili kunye ne-parietal lobe. Ezi ndawo zengqondo zijongene neenkqubo ezininzi ezahlukeneyo, kubandakanywa ukuqiqa, ukugweba, nokulawula.
Ngoko ke, ukuthini konke ukukhula kwengqondo kunye noshintsho kuthetha ntoni?
Kunzima ukuthetha, kodwa ukuxhalabisa kwentombazana inokuthi idibaniswe nale nguqulelo. Ngenxa yokuba banokulawulwa kakubi ngenxa yokuguquka kwengqondo, intsha ingabonisa imvakalelo ngaphambi kokuba ikwazi ukucinga ngayo okanye ukujongana nayo.
Ukuba unake uqhutywe kunye nomphathi kwaye uginyile imvakalelo yakho, unokukwazi ukulawula iimvakalelo zakho zomzwelo.
Ingqondo yentsha ingamvumeli ukuba enze into efanayo.
IiHormoni kunye neNtsholongwane Yakho
IiHormone zinendima yokudlala kwimvakalelo kodwa kungeyiyo ihomoni oyaziyo.
Kucingelwa ukuba i-hormones yesini (isrogen kunye ne-testosterone), inokuchaphazela ingqondo yengane, mhlawumbi iholele kwiingxaki ngokuxhalabisa. Nawuphi na umfazi oye waba ne-premenstrual syndrome ebalulekileyo (PMS) uyazi ukuba i-hormone iyichaphazela imvakalelo. Okumangalisa kukuba akuzona nje ii-hormone ezixhaswa kukunyaniseka kwentsha.
Uphando olutsha luye lwabonisa ukuba ihomoni eyancipha abantu abadala ngokwenene yenza ukuba intsha ixhalabele. Ihomoni ebizwa ngokuba yi-THP (okanye i-allopregnanolone) ikhishwa emzimbeni wethu ngexesha loxinzelelo. Kubantu abadala, le hormone inefuthe lokunciphisa. Ngomntwana, ukukhululwa kwe-THP kubangela ukwanda kwexhala.
Nabani na oye wahlala ebantwini abanomdla (okanye nokuba ngumntu omdala oxhalabileyo) unokukuxelela ukuba ukuxhalabisa kunokunyusa ukhathazeka. Ukuba umntwana wakho ubonakale egxininisekile, mhlawumbi unokuba yi-cranky okanye unomsindo ngaphezu komntu omdala.
Le mpendulo kwi-hormone ye-THP igxotha ekubeni intsha isondela kubantu abadala, mhlawumbi ibe negalelo kwiincinodes zokunyameka ngexesha loxinzelelo.
Ngaba U-Moody okanye Uxinekile?
Abazali kaninzi banemibuzo malunga nokuziphatha okuqhelekileyo kokuziphatha kwentsha kunye nento enokukhathazeka.
Umgaqo wesohlwayo kukuba ukuba ukunyameka akuhlali ixesha elide, mhlawumbi kuqhelekile. Ngoko ukuba wakho umntwana usebusuku obunobunzima kwaye uyacaphukisa kodwa ulungile kakhulu kweveki, kusenokuba ngumxhatshazo wesikhashana.
Ukongezelela, ukudandatheka kunye nezinye iziphazamiso zengqondo zineminye imiqondiso ngaphandle kokunyanzela okanye ukunyameka. Ngokomzekelo, ukuxinezeleka kwentsha kunokuhamba kunye nokulahleka kwesisindo okanye ukufumana ubunzima, ukuphazamiseka kokulala, ukuhoxiswa kubahlobo kunye nosapho, okanye ukuthetha ngokuzibulala.
Ukuba unomdla malunga nokuziphatha kwentombazana yakho, ihlala ilungele ukufowunela kumntwana wakho okanye ugqirha weentsapho. Uchwepheshe wezonyango unokukunceda ukuba uhlele into eqhelekileyo kwaye yintoni ingxaki, kwaye kukunceda ufumane isisombululo kwingxaki.
Ukuba wakho umntwana usemoyeni, ungakhathazeki - ayikho isigxina. Njengoko ubuchopho bakho buntutsha bukhula, ukunyameka kuya kutshaba njengoko ekhula umntu omdala. Bambelela apho!
Imithombo:
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Shen, H., Gong, QH, Aoki, C., Yuan, M., Ruderman, Y., Dattilo, M., Williams, K., kunye noSmith. Ukuguquka kwemiphumo ye-neurosteroid kwi-á4â2ä i-GABAA i-receptors ibangela uxhalabungu ekufikeni . Uhlobo lwe-Neuroscience 10: 4 (2007) 469-477.