Nangona ubude bomyinge webasebenzi bokuqala buqhelekile kwiiyure eziyi-12 ukuya kwezi-18, kungabandakanyi ukunyusa , kukho iimfuno ezihlala zide. Olunye usebenza luhlala ixesha elide ngenxa yeengxaki zomzimba, umntwana ushukunyiswa kwindawo engcono, ukuvula umzimba kamama. Olunye usebenziso lude ngenxa yeemeko zengqondo ezifana noyiko lwenkqantosi okanye ukuba ngumzali, okanye ukuba indoda yakho ayiyi kuyenza ngexesha.
Ezi zinto zingaba izinto zangempela. Kuba besetyhini abajongene nokusebenza okude, kubonakala ngathi ininzi intlungu.
Nangona sele ndiba neempatho ezisixhenxe zam, ndibe namaxesha ahlukeneyo: (ukwenzela) iiyure ezingama-36, iiyure ezingama-45, iiyure eziyi-8, iiyure eziyi-11, iiyure ezingama-4 (iiwele), iiyure ezingama-2-3 kunye neeyure ezingama-45. Imisebenzi elula kakhulu yayinemisebenzi emibili yeeyure ezingama-45. Isizathu? Ngenxa yokuba ndikwazi ukuphumeza umsebenzi wam kwaye ndikwazi. Kwaye ndabona ukuba kwenzeka kwamanye amaxesha ngexesha lami njenge- doula . Kwakhona kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba "ixesha elide" lichazwe ngokuhlukileyo ngabantu bonke. Ukuba uxelelwa ukuba unomsebenzi omude kwaye uncedo oluthile luncedo, buza imibuzo uze ufumane ulwazi ngaphambi kokugqiba indlela yokuqhubeka, ngamanye amaxesha "ixesha elide" akuyona ingxaki, into enokuyinyamezela yona kunye neqela lakho . Nangona uninzi lwamanyathelo anokuba neengxaki ezinokuthi zifike kunye nabo kwaye mhlawumbi okanye angenako ukukhawulezisa inkqubo.
Nazi ezinye izicwangciso zokufumana enye yale mi sebenzi ende.
Ungagxininisi kwiwashi.
Kuyamangalisa xa usebenza ukujonga iwashi. Ndenze kube nini le nto? Ndiza kuhlala ndide kangakanani le nto? Ndiza kufika nini na ukubamba umntwana wam? Leyo yonke imibuzo esebenzayo, kodwa imibuzo ekugqibeleni ikugcina ekugxinineni emsebenzini wezabasebenzi okuyiyo ekufikeni ekupheleni.
Ukuba unako ukususa amawashi kufuphi nawe, bawaphendukele okanye bawafihle.
Hlala ekhaya kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
Ekhaya lakho, ukhululekile kakhulu. Unokuhamba ngokukhululekile, ubukele ithelevishini, udlale kwikhompyuter yakho kwaye uhlale kwigumbi lakho lomntwana. Zizo zonke izinto ezinokuzithuthuzela ekhaya. Kananjalo unayo indlu yakho yokuhlambela kunye nebhebhu okanye isanti, unokutya nokusela ukuthuzela. Kulula kakhulu ukudlulisa ixesha kwindawo yakho kwaye kungakunceda ukukhusela umsebenzi wakho ukuba ugqitheke ngokuya esibhedlele kakhulu . Isicwangciso sangaphambili sezabasebenzi sinokukunceda apha.
Hamba nomsinga.
Njengoko ubuqili njengoko kunokuzwakalayo - landela ukukhokelwa kwabaqeshwa bakho. Ngokusebenza kade, kukho ukuhlala kwinto ephuculayo kwaye ihlaziye. Eli li thuba lokuphumla kunye napha. Uninzi lwabasetyhini alucingi ngale nto kwaye ngokusoloko lijonga le nto iphosakeleyo njengento embi. Kodwa oku kubakho amandla omzimba wakho wokuqonda ukuba ufuna ikhefu elincinci ngaphambi kokuqhubeka. Zisebenzise ezi zikhefu xa kunokwenzeka.
Sebenzisa amanyathelo okuthuthuzela ekuqaleni kwaye kaninzi.
Ngethuba lokuba ndibe nenani lomntwana abathathu kwaye ndikulindele ukuba ngumsebenzi omde kakhulu, ndandifuna ukuba wonke umntu aphumle ukuze andixhase "xa ndifuna ngokwenene." Emva kweyure okanye ezimbini zokuzama ukuhamba yodwa, kuphazamiseka kunye nentlungu.
Ekugqibeleni ndivumela abantu ukuba bancede ndiphumle ndigubungele umqolo wam kwaye bancede. Oo, umsebenzi wawunzima kakhulu. Kwiiyure ezimbalwa kamva xa ndicinga ukuba bekungekho iintsuku ezintathu zezabasebenzi, ekugqibeleni konke kwenziwa ngengqiqo. Ukuhlala uzinzile ngandlela-thile kwathatha amandla amancinci kwaye wandenza ndakhululeke ngakumbi, ndinceda inkqubela phambili yabasebenzi. Kwakhona, ungakulibali ukujikeleza ngokuqhelekileyo , oku kunokubakho amaxesha amaninzi okufunekayo xa abasebenzi bethatha ixesha elide. Inceda ekukhuseleni amalunga akho kunye nesikhumba ukuba ube kwindawo ede kakhulu.
Qala ukusebenza ngokufanelekileyo.
Xa uqala ukuqonda ukuba usebenza, isiluleko esihle kukuba ungayihoywa. Khumbuza ukuba kutheni ungeke usebenze okwamanje.
Uyayazi uluhlu endithetha ngalo: andinakusebenza ngenxa yokuba andizange ndihlambe zonke iimpahla zentsana. Andiyi kuba nzima, kodwa akusiyo umhla ndiwuthathe. Andiyi kuba nzima, kodwa isambatho sam esiyithandayo asixhasi. Kodwa khumbula ukuthatha ixesha lakho. Kwabafazi abaninzi, akukho mfuneko yokukhawuleza. Ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza ukulungele kwaye ujabulele kule mizuzu embalwa yokugqibela yokukhulelwa.
Ngoko ixesha elizayo xa unomntwana kwaye umntwana ubonakala echitha ixesha lakhe , khumbula, kukho isizathu kwaye kukunyamekela ukuba usebenze ngokubaluleka ngendlela enokuthi uzuze wena kunye nosana lwakho.