Xa ndiqala ukukhangela inxaxheba yoluntu olungapheliyo kwi-intanethi, ndafumana ambalwa amaqela encedisayo. Ndenenhlanhla. Andizange ndiyazi ngoko ke ... kodwa ndenza ngoku.
Savuya omnye nomnye, kwaye sasiba nethemba omnye komnye. Xa omnye wethu elahlekelwa yilahleko, sakhala.
Kodwa okubaluleke kakhulu, inkxaso yayininzi kakhulu.
Ukuzama umntwana wakho wokuqala okanye wesithathu?
Akukho nto. Ukuzama unyaka okanye iminyaka esibhozo? Akukho nto. Ngaba ufumane ukukhulelwa okulahlekileyo okanye ezininzi zokukhulelwa? Akukho nto.
Ukuba udinga inkxaso, ufumane inkxaso.
Le yindlela okufanele ibe ngayo.
Kodwa a kunjalo. Akukho ndawo. Ndibonile uMnyama oMnyama. Yaye inokungcola ...
Ngubani Unobungozi obukhulu, Ngubani onomdlalo ongcono
Kukhona umdlalo wengqondo apho abaninzi bethu badlala, umdlalo ndiyathanda ukuwubiza, "Ngubani na obenzima kakhulu, ngubani ongcono."
Umdlalo awunabo bonke abasindayo, kodwa sinayo inguqu yethu yomdlalo.
Kukho iindlela ezimbini zokudlala.
KwiNombolo yesi-1 yomdlalo, sinokubi kakhulu, kwaye omnye umntu (okanye wonke umntu) unalo ngcono.
- Ndibe ndizama iminyaka emine, kodwa sele ezama ezimbini.
- Andinabantwana, kodwa ubuncinane ubuncinane.
- Baye bathatha kuphela iComomid , kodwa ndenze i- IVF .
- Baye bazama ngenani elifanayo leminyaka njengoko ndenzile ii-IVF kaninzi kangangoko ndiyenzile-kodwa ubuncinci babesweleka. Bayazi ukuba banokukhulelwa. Andizange ndidideke.
Umyeni kunye nabafazi banokudlala, nabo.
- Kuphela kufuneka angene egumbini enekomityhi, ngelixa ndifumana i-prodded kunye neenaliti kunye nama-ultrasound wands.
- Kuphela kufuneka abhekane neenaliti kunye nenkqubo, kodwa kufuneka ndiphile kunye nokuba ndingumntwana ongenasiphelo.
Emva koko kukho iNombolo # 2 yomdlalo. Ukuba udlala ngale ndlela, omnye umntu unzima nakakhulu, kwaye sikulungele.
- Ndibe ndizama iminyaka emine, kwaye uzama ezimbini - kodwa ubuncinci ndinenkxaso yentsapho yam. Ndiyazi ukuba ndinenhlanhla kuloo nto.
- Unomntwana omnye, kwaye andinayo. Andikwazi ukucinga indlela achitha ixesha elide ngayo abantwana, ecinga ukuba akaze abe nenye. Uyazi oko alahlekileyo.
- Baye bathathe kuphela iComidid, kwaye senze i-IVF-ndiyakhumbula oko kwakunjengokuqala ngokunyanga. Yonke into ibe yintsha nakwamanye amazwe. Ngoku, ndibahlobo abahle kakhulu kwi-techs ultrasound, kwaye ukukwazi ukuba kwenzeke izinto kulula, ngeendlela ezithile.
- Andikwazi ukucinga ukuba kunjani ukuba sisondele kwaye ulahlekelwe ukukhulelwa. Oku kufuneka kube nzima gqitha.
Ungadlala nayiphi na inguqu yomdlalo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba imeko yakho yintoni. Emva koko, kukho umntu onokulungele okanye obi ngaphezu kwethu.
Inombolo # 1 mhlawumbi iyakwenza uzive unzima kakhulu malunga nekota lakho ebomini.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuba udlala i-Version # 2 yomdlalo - ngelixa akuyi kuthatha intlungu yento oye uyenzayo-kunokukunceda ukuba uzive ulula kakhulu.
Ngoku, kungokwemvelo ukwenza lo hlobo lokuthelekisa ngaphakathi.
Yilapho abantu beqala ukudlala umdlalo ngokuzwakalayo - nokuthumela izigwebo zabo kwi-intanethi - yiyo xa izinto zifumana izinto ezintle.
Xa i-IFers ilwa
Iingxaki zele zisabalazela ukuxhasa kunye nokwamkelwa kwihlabathi lenene. Zonke ezo zintlu " zento ongatshoyo kumntu ongenasiphelo " zivela kwinyani yokwenene ukuba i-IFers iva ezi zinto rhoqo. Ziyingozi kwaye zibuhlungu ... kodwa zivela kubantu abakhange bazi kakuhle.
Kodwa kwenzeka ntoni xa amazwi aphazamisayo aphonswa phakathi kweengxaki?
Ndabona iingxoxo kwi-intanethi apho abafazi abanenkathazo yokusweleka kwe- secondary-based infertility baxhomekeke-yebo, baseded - ukuba baveze ukuvezela kwakhe.
Kungenxa yoko kutheni kufuneka akhononde, ubuncinane unomntwana.
Ndibone i-IFers ingqumbo kwabanye ekuposeni ukukhulelwa impumelelo .
Ukuba umntu ongenamntwana ufumana uvavanyo lokukhulelwa olufanelekileyo, mna ndifuna ukukubona! Ngoko ndinokuvuya kwaye ndiziva ndiqinisekile, bobabini kunye nam.
Ndibone i-IFers ingena kwiingxabano malunga nokuba umntu ozama ixesha elifutshane kufuneka avunyelwe ukuxubusha kwiqela elifanayo njengabo bazama iminyaka.
Njenge-Infertile yinto ethile yeqela elikhethekileyo. Ngezikhokelo ezinzulu kakhulu zokumkela.
Kulawe odala umdlalo - kwaye ndiyazi ukuba uyazi ukuba ungubani - kutheni ukwenza oku?
Intukuthelo yenye yeendlela ezininzi ezinokuthi zingabonakali. Hamba phambili kwaye ube nomsindo kwindalo yonke ngenxa yokungabi nantoni.
Kodwa xa ujonge ingqumbo yakho kwezinye izinto ezingabhubhiyo, awuzilimazi nje kunye neqela apho wenza khona - uzilimaza.
Imvakalelo enobungozi iyancipha inzulu kwaye iqinise intlungu yakho.
Oko Ukwenza Xa Ubushushu Bukugubungela
Abanye benu niyifunde le nto yatshiswe ngabanye abangenasiphelo, kwaye abanye benu nizitshisa.
Ukutshiswa, ndiphulaphule - abo bantu benza idrama basenza nje intlungu yabo yangaphakathi. Oku akusiyo kuwe. Oku akusiyo iphoso lakho.
Ukuba iqela elikuloo nto liziva liyingozi kwaye idrama ibetha rhoqo, fumana elinye iqela. Akunjalo bonke! Kukho ezininzi ii-forum kunye namaqela e-Facebook kwi-intanethi.
Musa ukumelana nalo. Awunayo, kwaye awufanelanga oku.
Kwababashisi, ndiphulaphule-mhlawumbi amahomoni akho asebenza kwinqanaba kwi-Clomid ngoku kwaye uqaphela ukuba uyacima. Mhlawumbi unentlungu enjengeyokuba ibona ibali lomnye umntu obonakala kuwe "ngendlela engafanelekanga" yenza ukuba intlungu yakho ibilise.
Izinto ezintathu ... ukuba uyazi ukuba yi-hormone, kwaye unokuziva ukuba yi-hormone ngaphambi kokuba uthayiphe iposi elikhanyayo, hambani. Shayela umhlobo. Bhala phantsi iphepha uze ulinde. IiHormone zenza ukuba wenze izinto ezihlazileyo, kodwa ungazivumeli ukuba zonakalise indlela abanye abantu abakubonayo ngayo.
Awufuni ukubonwa njengengxaki.
Okwesibini, khumbula ukuba kukho amaqela axhomekeke kwiinkcukacha zokuxilonga okanye ixesha elizama ukukhulelwa. Kukho amaqela kuphela kulabo abanesifo sokungabikho kokuqala, okanye kuphela ukungabikho kwengqondo.
Fumana elinye lala maqela endaweni yokuzama ukutshintsha okanye udibanise iqela elibandakanya abantu ongaziva ukhululekile.
Okwesithathu, fumana uncedo. Jonga umgqirha , qhagamshelana neQela lokuXhaswa kweNkxaso . Ngenxa yokuba yonke loo ngqumbo nentlungu ngaphakathi ukuba, awuyi kuhamba ngokukhupha abanye.
Nawe ufanelwe ukuziva uxolo.