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Ngaphandle kokungathandabuzeki, umbuzo obuzwe kakhulu ovela kubazali be-preemie kuyo yonke i-NICU, yonke imihla, yonke indawo, "Ngumntwana uza kufika nini ekhaya?" Yona yinto ebaluleke kakhulu ukuba umzali ngamnye ulangazelela, amaphupha, aphephe, kwaye enesizathu esihle!

Ngaba kuya kukumangalisa ukuba ufumanise ukuba xa usuku olukhulu lufika, xa iiveki okanye iinyanga zokulinda ekugqibeleni ziphela kwaye lixesha lokuthabatha umxube wabo ovuyo ekhaya, ngabazali abaninzi banokuziva bekhululekile kwaye bengalungiselelwanga ngokupheleleyo?

Umzali kwiNICU

Ukuba unomntwana kwi-NICU, ngaba le nto iyaziwayo? Nangona awukwazi ukuma ukushiya umntwana wakho kwaye awukwazi ukulinda ukuza naye ekhaya, ngaba uziva ngathi awuyi kulungeleka xa usuku lufika?

Inyaniso kukuba i-NICU iyindawo enqabileyo. Bazali, nibekwa inxaxheba engavumelekile yokubazali, nihleli ngapha nangapha njengabahlengikazi noogqirha banakekela umntwana wenu, kwaye kulula ukuvumela ukuba lonke ixesha lidlule ngaphandle kokuziva ngathi ufunda ukunyamekela umntwana wakho. Unokubukela wonke umntu onyamekele umntwana wakho, kodwa ingcamango yokuba uya kuba noxanduva lwakho ngokupheleleyo kwintsana yakho ingabonakala iyethusa. Yaye akukho, ngelanga, awukwazi ukuzisa abahlengikazi bakho abakuthandayo ekhaya!

Kule minyaka, sifunde izicwangciso eziliqela malunga nezindlela ezilungileyo zokulungiselela usuku olukhulu. Ngokwenjenjalo ixesha lakho kwiNICU, ukuguquka kwakho ebomini kunye ekhaya kuya kuba lula kwaye kungasabisi ngokucwangcisa okuncane.

Siza kuphuka iziphakamiso kwiindidi ezintathu: ukulungela ikhaya lakho, ukuzilungela, kunye nokufumana iqela lakho lokuxhasa lilungele. Kukho iingcebiso ezininzi, kodwa ungadli. Mhlawumbi awudingi ukukwazi konke, kwaye unokugcina uluhlu lokutshekisha lwento ofuna ukuyifumana kwaye uyithenge xa ​​kuyimfuneko.

Ukufumana ikhaya lakho lilungele

Ukulungela i-preemie yakho kufana nokulungelelanisa nawuphi na umntwana, nangona kukho izinto ezimbalwa ezibalulekileyo ukugcina engqondweni. Akuyiyo inzululwazi yesayensi ukwazi ukuba umntwana wakho unokudinga i-diemers, iingubo, kunye neengubo zokubumba, umzekelo-kodwa sithemba ukuba sele uqaphele ukuba ngoku.

Oko sifuna ukuba ucinge ngako yizinto oza kuzisebenzisa ekhaya ezingagcina i-preemie yakho iphephile, kugcine uziva ukhululekile, kwaye mhlawumbi ungabi ngaphezu kweminye into ekufuneka uyibe nayo.

Ezi zizinto zonke iintsana kufuneka zibe nazo ekhaya, kwaye i-preemie yakho ayifani. Qiniseka ukuba zibukhulu obufanelekileyo.

• Iidrafers kunye nosusa
• Amabhodlela: Ngaphandle kokuba unamaphesenti angama-100 kuphela ekunceliseni, uya kufuna iibhotile ezaneleyo ukuhamba ngosuku ekhaya. Nangona uninzi lwamaxu e-breastfeeding ujabulela ukuba neqabane okanye umhlobo usondla umntwana rhoqo ngexeshana, kwaye ezininzi iintshaba zithatha i-combo yebele kunye nebhotile, ubuncinane ekuqaleni. Buza i-NICU yakho ukuba yeyiphi iindidi zeebhotile kunye neentshontsho umntwana wakho oza kusebenzisa.
• Izambatho ezifanelekileyo: Qhubeka ukhumbule, ezininzi iintshaba zikhula ngokukhawuleza, ngoko ke ungayi kuthenga izilwanyana zeeteme zambatho zengubo. Baya kuba ngobunzima babantwana abatsha ngexesha.

• Iingubo ze-Swaddle kunye / okanye iibhegi zokulala: Uya kufuna ukuzisebenzisa ngaphambi kokuba uqale ekhaya lokuqala, ngoko ubuze ukuba ungabazisa kwi-NICU ngaphambi kokukhutshwa. Kukunceda uzive ukhululekile ukuyisebenzisa, kwaye inceda umntwana wakho ukuba azisebenzise ngaphambili kwexesha.
• Endaweni ethile yokulala : Iimfazwe zama-Epic ziza kubalwa ukuba ngubani ophethe impendulo engcono kunazo zonke apho umntwana wakho alala khona, kodwa ezi zikhokelo ezivela kwi-American Academy of Pediatrics yindawo efanelekileyo yokuqala. Ukuthetha ne-NICU yakho malunga nokuba ngaba i-preemie yakho ayiyi kuyidinga ibhedi ekhethekileyo ibalulekile.
• Iformula: Yithenga kuphela ifom ukuba ngaba oogqirha bakho bayincoma. Lindela de ngaphambi kokuya ekhaya ukuthenga nayiphi na into, ngoko uyazi kakuhle ukuba yintoni umhlobo wakho osetshenziswayo.

• I-thermometer yomntwana: Qinisekisa ukuba ilungele ukusebenzisa kwiintsana. Uninzi lwe-thermometer ye-digital entsha yenzelwe abantwana abancinci kunye nabantwana.
• Ubhedu: Kuhle ukuba uhlambe umntwana wakho nasiphi na isitya esiphephekileyo, kodwa abazali bathetha ukukhetha ibhegi eyenzelwe ngokusana iintsana. Ukuba uya kusebenzisa enye yale nto, hamba phambili kwaye ukhethe enye ngaphambi kokuba usesekhaya.
• I-aspirator ye-Nasal: Awufuni ukungazilungiseleli xa iipumlo zokuqala zithintela, oko kuya kukwenene. Iipilisi ze-bulb zisebenza kakuhle, kodwa abazali abaye basebenzisa i-Nose Frida snot sucker (awuthandi lelo gama?) Ufunge ngalo. Naluphi na ukhetha, ufuna ukuqiniseka ukuba unento ethile esandleni sakho ukugcina icala lakho elincinci licacile.
• Isithenjwa somnxeba: Ngoko ke zonke iindwendwe zinendlela esheshayo nelula yokugcina iintsholongwane zingabikho kwintsana yakho. Unokuqwalasela iimaski zobuso, kwakhona, xa umntu ebonakalisa "ukuphilisa." Ukhuselekile ngakumbi kunokuba uxolo.
• Isirinji yonyango : Ukuba i-preemie yakho ithatha nayiphina imishanguzo nonke, uya kufuna ukuba izixhobo ezisetyenziselwa ukufumana loo mayeza kwintsana yakho, njengemithi ye-pacifier okanye i-syringe. Buza i-NICU yakho iinqununu, kwaye uqhubeke ufunda kuba awuyi kufuna kuphela izixhobo, kodwa uya kufuneka uzisebenzise kwakhona.

Zizo ezo zinto. Xa umntwana wakho sele e-NICU, unokufumana ukuba unomdla kwezinye zezinto ezilandelayo. Buza i-NICU malunga nabo ukuba unemibuzo. Ezinye izixhobo ezongezelelweyo ezithandwa ngabazali abaninzi abazithandayo zibandakanya:

• Uhlolo lwezingane: Ezi zinto zivela kwizinto ezilula ukuya kwinkimbinkimbi, kodwa abazali abaninzi bathanda indlela yokubona nokuva abantwana babo xa behlala emagumbini ahlukeneyo. Ezi zihluke kwizilwanyana zasekhaya zonyango, eziza kuphela ngedololi yakho. Ezi zihloli zekhaya zikuvumela ukuba uve kwaye ubone umntwana wakho, kwaye banikezela abazali uxolo olukhulu lwengqondo.
• I-Rock-n-play: Abazali abaninzi baqala ukufunga ngabo. Benza kube lula ukugcina intloko yomntwana ephakanyisiwe, enokukunceda ngokurhoxisa, kwaye igcina ihamba ngokunyamekayo, apho i-crib yendabuko okanye i-bassinette ayinakuyenza.
• Ukunyuka komntwana : Okuthandayo, ngokude, yi-mamaroo. Ezinye iintsana ziye zasebenzisa ukutshintsha okunye kwi-NICU, ngoko unokufuna ukuthenga into efanayo.
• Ukukhonkxa, ukugoba, okanye ikhati yesikhumba: Nangona usana lwakho lukhulu kakhulu ngoku, kusekho iinzuzo zokuchitha ixesha lesikhumba kwesikhumba. I-Wraps kunye neeshini kunye neekhati ezenzelwe le njongo zindlela ezihle kakhulu zokuqhubeka nokusebenza komntwana omkhulu. Indlela efanelekileyo yokutshintshwa kokusebenzisa enye kukuqala ukusebenzisa ingubo okanye iikhati oyithandayo xa umntwana eseseNICU. Ngale ndlela, yinto eyaziwayo kwintsana yakho, into esele isetyenzisiweyo.
• Ibhondi yokupompoza engenazintambo: Kufuneka ube nalokhu, ungalindelanga ukuba uphazamisa i-preemie yakho. Ukupompa kuyinyaniso kubaninzi bamama, kwaye ezi bras ziphila. Kwaye ungalibali izikhwama zokugcina ubisi-awuyi kuba ne-freebies kwi-NICU kwakhona.
• Umntwana oselula : Enye into enokuyilungisa ukuba uqalise ukuba udlale izandi ngelixa umntwana wakho eseseNICU, kwaye ke ezo zandi ziya kuthuthuzela kwaye ziqhelise umntwana wakho xa uhlala ekhaya.

Xa unayo yonke into oyifunayo-indawo ekhuselekileyo yokulala umntwana kunye neempahla oza kuyidinga ukuba ufikelele kwiintsuku ezimbalwa zokuqala okanye kwiiveki-ulungele ukulungisa ingqalelo yakho ukuba uzilungele.

Ukuzilungela

Nantsi into enokuba awunakucinga ngayo ngaphambili: abazali beentsana ezizeleyo ezinempilo bazama ukufunda ngokunyamekela umntwana ngokuxhoma kunye nabahlobo abanabantwana, okanye ngokuya kwiiklasi, mhlawumbi ukufunda iincwadi . Kodwa abanalo umntwana wabo ukuba bazisebenzise. Abanalo nantoni na into yokuba umntwana wabo uya kuyithandayo okanye ayithandi.

Ngoko, ukuba kukho into enye yokuyiqonda malunga neNICU, kukuba unethuba lokufunda malunga nosana lwakho, uqobo lwakho, umntwana wakho, ngaphambi kokumthatha ekhaya. Unentlahla!

Asikwazi ukuqala ukukuxelela ukuba bangaphi abazali abaye bathathe ixesha lokufunda ngokwenene umntwana babo ngelixa bekhona kwi-NICU, kuzo zonke izizathu, ezilungileyo nezimbi. Mhlawumbi ngabasebenzi be-NICU abagcina abazali bekude, okanye mhlawumbi unengqondo yokuba abahlengikazi bangcono kuwo kwaye kufuneka babe ngabakhathalelayo. Mhlawumbi akunakwenzeka ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kwi-NICU xa unabanye abantwana ekhaya.

Indlela efanelekileyo yokulungela umntwana wakho ekhaya kukunikezela ixesha lokunyamekela umntwana wakho ngelixa ku-NICU. Ukubamba umntwana wakho kukuhle, kwaye utshintsho lwee-diapers lukhulu kakhulu, kodwa ndiya kukuhamba ngeqela leendlela ongayazi ngayo umntwana wakho ngakumbi. Emva koko xa usuka ekhaya, uya kuba nethemba kwaye uphethe, njengomzali ophezulu omkhulu ohlala ephupha ukuba uya kuba!

Uya kufuna ukufunda oku kulandelayo.

• Ungayitshintsha njani i-diaper yomntwana wakho. Ukuba uvumela abahlengikazi ukuba uyafuna ukwenza utshintsho oluninzi njengokuba unako xa ulapho, unesiqiniseko sokuthi ulungile kuyo ngaphandle kwexesha. Emva koko yinto enye encinane ukuxinezela xa uthabatha umntwana wakho ekhaya.
• Indlela yokutya umntwana wakho. Kwezinye iimbandezelo, oku akukho nto enkulu, kwaye kwabanye, akunakwenzeka ukuba bafumane ngokukhuselekileyo kwaye bafumane ngokufanelekileyo ubisi abayidingayo ukuze baqhubeke bekhula. Naluphi na umzekelo kwintsana yakho, kufuneka ube kwi-NICU eqhuba zonke iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokutya oya kwenza-isifuba, ibhotile, isirinji, inkqubo yokuncedisa abantwana, nayiphi na. Kufuneka ucele ukwenza konke okusemandleni akho, kwaye ufumane lonke uncedo xa unakho. Jonga abacebisi bamathambo xa uncelisa okanye ubona abachwephesha bezenzo okanye ulwimi lweelwimi ukuba ngaba umntwana wakho unzima ukondla. Uze usebenzise, ​​usebenzise, ​​usebenzise.
• Indlela yokuthatha ubushushu bomntwana wakho , kwaye uyazi into eqhelekileyo yengane yakho.
• Indlela yokuhlamba umntwana wakho . Vumela oongikazi bakho bazi ukuba ufuna ukuhlamba, kwaye ubacele ukuba balondoloze ixesha lokuhlamba ukuze ufumane umgangatho oyifunayo. Bonke abahlengikazi baneengcamango ezahlukileyo malunga nendlela efanelekileyo yokuhlamba umntwana, ngoko-ke misele ukuzama iindlela ezininzi zokubona oko wena kunye nosana lwakho nithanda kakhulu.
• Ungayifaka njani umntwana wakho . Kwakhona, abahlengikazi baneendlela ezahlukeneyo, ngoko zama ukufunda kwiinkalo zabantu abahlukeneyo kwaye unesiqiniseko sokufumana iindlela ezimbalwa ezikusebenzela kakuhle. Kwakhona, indlela yodwa yokwenza okulungileyo kukuziqhelanisa.
• Indlela yokudibanisa ifomu lakho lomntwana okanye ubisi oluqiniweyo . Iintshaba ezininzi kufuneka zibe neekhalori ezongezelelweyo ekudleni kwazo, kwaye oko kuthetha ukuba abazali bafanele bazi ukuxuba ubisi abaya kuba bancelisa umntwana wabo. Musa ukulinda de kube ngumhla wokugqibela ukufunda indlela yokwenza oku. Cela ukuba uncede ngokuxuba ubisi lwentana yakho kusasa, kwaye ngokukhawuleza uza kukhululeka ngomsebenzi.
• Indlela yokunika unyango. Ukuba umntwana wakho uya kufuna nayiphi na imithi, njengama-vithamini amaninzi okanye i-reflux meds, qi ni sekise ukuba unonesi zibonisa iindlela ezimbalwa ezahlukeneyo zokubanika umntwana wakho kwaye uzenze oko.
• Indlela yokuhlaziya umntwana wakho. Ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ukuba nabanye abantu bakuxelele oko umntwana wakho akuthandayo xa edidekile kuba mhlawumbi unokucinga ukuba wena ngokwakho, ekuthuthukisweni kwekhaya lakho. Kodwa abahlengikazi be-NICU baneetoni zamava anceda abantwana abancasayo, kwaye abanye babo bayaqiniseka ukuba baye bafumana ezinye izinto ezisebenza kakuhle kunye ncinane wakho omnandi. Thatha amacebiso uze uwasebenzise njengoko kuyimfuneko.
• Indlela yokuhlalisa umntwana wakho. Ukuba unethamsanqa ngokwaneleyo ukuba nomntu onomsebenzi onokukufundisa iindlela zokwenza umququzelelo we-preemie yakho , yenza oko! Abazali bahlawula i-bucks enkulu ngamanye amaxesha ukuba babe neengcali ezibafundisa oko, kodwa unokuba nofikelelo kubafundisi abakhulu kwi-NICU yakho.
• Fumana ukuba uya kufuna iimpahla ezizodwa ekhaya, kwaye ufumane uqeqesho olufunayo. Ezinye iintsana zidinga izixhobo ezizodwa ezifana ne-oksijini kunye nezigulane zokutya kwaye ziya kuba neenkonzo zonyango lwezempilo ekhaya. Ukuba umntwana wakho uya kufuna enye yalezi, zama ukufumana ngokukhawuleza. Qala uqale usebenze nabo ngokukhawuleza! Musa ukulinda de kube ngumhla wokugqibela okanye ezimbini ukuze ukhululeke ngezixhobo. Ngaphandle kokungathandabuzeki, kuya kubakho ukuphazamiseka kunye naluphi na uhlobo lwezixhobo zasekhaya kwaye kungcono ukusebenza ngalawo gama usenabo abasebenzi be-NICU khona apho ukunceda.
• CPR yaseNtana. Uninzi lwabazali, siyabonga, asisoze sasebenzisa izakhono zeCPR, kodwa kuyimvakalelo enhle yokwazi ukuba uyazi ukuba wenzeni xa kwenzeka imeko engxamisekileyo. Ukuba isibhedlela sakho asinakho ukuqeqeshwa kweCPR, zibuze apho ungathatha khona iklasi.
• Ukungena. Ezinye izibhedlele zivumela ukuhlala ngaphakathi, apho abazali behlala esibhedlele ubusuku okanye iintsuku eziliqela, bezama ukuzinyamekela ngokuzenzekelayo umntwana wabo ngelixa bekhuselekileyo kwisibhedlele. Kukulungele ukuyenza ukuba ikhona.

Ukufumana iQela lakho loNcedo lilungele

Inkxaso iya kuba yintsapho kuyo yonke intsapho, kodwa ibaluleke kakhulu.

Kuwe, iqela lakho lokuxhasa lingaba ngumkakho okanye umyeni wakho. Okanye iqela lakho lokuxhasa linokuba ngumyeni wakho, abazali bakho kunye nabahlobo abasondeleyo. Kwabanye, inkxaso ingaba yintlangano yesonto lonke, abahlobo beqela loxhaso, ootatomkhulu , oomama, oomama kunye nokunye.

Akukho nhlobo indlela engcono kunomnye. Kodwa kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba ngubani oza kukuxhasa ekhaya, kwaye uncede uqonde indlela nabo, banokukwazi ukulungela ngayo umhla owathatha umntwana wakho ekhaya.

• Yabelana ngale nqaku kunye neqabane lakho okanye iqabane lakho. Uncedo ukuqonda oko kusemngciphekweni, kwaye banokukwenza ntoni ukuze bancede ukwenza lula ukuguquka.
• Ukubonisa ukuba ngubani iqela lakho lokuxhasa. Emva koko yima uze ucinge ngendlela eliza kunceda ngayo iqela. Ngaba uya kuncedwa ngokwaneleyo, okanye ngaba kuya kuba nengqiqo ukufikelela kumhlobo osondeleyo okanye isihlobo ukucela uncedo oluncinane? Ukuba kunjalo, yenza oku ngoku kunokuba ungadinwa okanye ugxininiswe ukuba ucinge ukucela uncedo.
• Cinga ngento oya kuyithandayo, ngokwemigaqo yenkxaso. Ngaba ufuna umntu akunike ikhefu kanye ngosuku ukuze uhambe? Ngaba ufuna uncedo ngokuhlamba okanye ukutya? Ngaba ufuna umntu ukuba athethe naye, okanye uxolo kunye noxolo ukuze asebenze nge-naps ngelixa bebanceda ngomsebenzi wendlu? Abahlobo kunye namalungu entsapho bafuna ukubanceda kodwa baninzi abazi ukuba benzani, ngoko bancede bancede ngokubaxelela oko nifuna. Uya kuvuya xa wenza.
• Cinga iqela loxhaso. I-NICU kunye nobungqungquthela kubangelwa imicimbi ebomangalisayo, kwaye igxininisa abazali ngaphandle. Ukuthatha umntwana wakho ekhaya ukusuka kwi-NICU kunokubonakala ngathi ungena "ngokuqhelekileyo" ngamaxesha omntwana, kodwa uzingqongileyo kunye nabazali "iintsana eziqhelekileyo" kunokushiya ucinezelekile kwaye uzive wedwa ngenxa yokuba abo bazali abayiyixabisa ihlabathi eliyingozi. behlala kulo. Cinga ukuxhuma kunye namanye ama-preemie kunye nabantwana ukukunceda uzive uxabiso kwaye uqondwa. Uphando lubonisa ukuba luncedo kakhulu.
• Khetha ubulumko abantwana. Ukuba ungasikhethanga udokotela wezingane , zama ukufumana umntu onamava afana neyakho. Kuyamkeleka ngokufanelekileyo ukucela ukudibana noogqirha abanokuzibuza malunga namava abo abanakekela iintshaba. Baya kuba yinxalenye enkulu yeqela lakho lokuxhasa emva kokuya ekhaya, ngoko ufuna ukuba unomdla wokuba uthembele kwaye uqhagamshelane naye.
• Fumana ukuba yiziphi iingcali ozakuzibona. Ngokuqinisekileyo uza kubona iingcali ezinjengeengcali zomzimba, ootitshala beelwimi, abacebisi bee-lactation, nangaphezulu emva kokuba uthathe i-preemie yakho ekhaya. Nabo, baya kudlala indima ebalulekileyo kwiqela lakho lokunika inkxaso ukuze uqiniseke ukuba uyazi zonke izixhobo zakho emva kokuba ushiye esibhedlele kwaye ugcine ngokulandelelanayo zonke izithuba zokumisela.
• Nika intsapho yakho ukuqonda ngokucacileyo oko kutyelelo oluya kubakho. Abahlobo kunye neentsapho ngokuqhelekileyo banomdla kakhulu ekugqibeleni badibana nomncinci kwaye bachitha ixesha kunye. Basenokungabi naluphi na umqondo nje ukuba yintoni ephazamisekile ngayo kwaye uya kuqhubeka. Mhlawumbi banqwenela ukunceda kwaye bafuna nje isikhokelo sakho ukuba ubonise indlela yokuba ngabaxhasi abakhulu. Ukuqala, ngokuqinisekileyo akunakunakho na iindwendwe ezigulayo. Qiniseka ukuba ubaxelele oku. Ukuba ufuna ixesha lokubambisana kwaye ungafuni iindwendwe kwinyanga, oko kulungile. Batshele.

Siyathemba ukuba lolu uluhlu lweengcamango lunceda uzive ulunge ngakumbi xa usuku oluvuyayo lufika kwaye uthabatha uthabatha ikhaya lakho elimnandi. Akukho nto iya kusula ukuxhalaba uya kuvakalelwa kukuba, kodwa ukulungiswa kukukwenza kube nzima kakhulu. Inhlanhla, uze ulungiselele umhla olungcono!