Umbuzo weveki
Umntanami, uBen uneminyaka eyi-8 ubudala kwaye ihlala ibuzwa ngabafundisi esikolweni ukuba "bayithobele ingqalelo" kwaye "bayeke ukutshiza kwidesksi". Uqhubeka ekhungathekiswa yile nto njengoko ebeka ingqalelo, amabakala akhe abonisa amanqaku afanelekileyo. Ootitshala baxhalabisa naye. Akaphazamisi eklasini kodwa kubonakala ecela ukuba ahlale phantsi phantsi kwedeski yakhe okanye ngasemva kweklasi ngenxa yokubamba kwakhe. UBen uthanda ukudlala ngeminwe yakhe. Kubonakala ukuba akaphulaphuli kodwa yena. Sizame ukusombulula ingxaki ngesikolo kungekho nto. Nawaphi na amacebiso aya kuxabiswa. Angela, Chatham, Ontario
Ngelishwa, abanye abantu, kuquka nabazali, ootitshala kunye noogqirha, banokukhawuleza ukuxhoma kwi-ADHD kubantwana abafana nale. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba inxalenye yeendlela zokujonga ukuxilongwa kwe-ADHD kukuba iimpawu kufuneka zenze uhlobo oluthile lokukhubazeka. Ukuba amabakala akhe alungile kwaye akaphazamisi eklasini, ngoko ayivakala ngathi ibangela ingxaki.
Imikhwa emibi
Ngoko ukuba ukutshatyalaliswa kwakhe akuyiyo uphawu lwe-ADHD, mhlawumbi kungumkhuba 'omubi', njengokwakheka kwempumlo, ukudonsa iinwele kunye nokubetha kwepiki.
Sekunjalo, ekubeni engena enkingeni ukuze aphelise, kukho into ekufuneka yenziwe, ingakumbi kuba iyakhuphaza.
Indlela Yokunceda Ukuyeka Izenzo Ezimbi
Enye indlela ukuzama nokuqinisekisa ukuba ootitshala bazame ukuxolela nokunyamekela ukuziphatha. Unokuchaza ukuba lo ngumkhwa wakhe kwaye usebenza ekumncedeni. Ukususela ekungeneni kwinkathazo kuqala ukumkhathaza, unokuchaza ukuba banokuguqula ukuziphatha okuqhelekileyo kwingxaki yangempela kuye ngokulimaza ukuzithemba kwakhe kunye nokubangela ukuxhalaba ngale nto.
Yaye oko kwenza ukuba anxungule kwaye athathe ingqwalasela enkulu kwi-fidgeting mhlawumbi kunokumenza enze oku ngakumbi.
Ukumnceda ukuba ayeke, unokumnika into enokuyenza ngezandla zakhe ezingabonakaliyo. Mhlawumbi ubambe kwaye udibanisa into efana nebhokisi lokuxinwa, umlenze we-fingerquezer, unokukunceda. Okanye ukuxubha isongo, i-coil keychain, okanye ipencil grip.
Nantoni na into eyenziwa ngumntwana wakho ngokunyanisekileyo kwaye ukuba utitshala wakho nabanye babengawuboni - izifihla zokufunda zangasese.
Njengeminye imikhwa 'embi', njengokwakheka kwetyana, ukubetha kweentambo, kunye neenwele zokubamba, kunokukunceda eku:
- Ungayithobeli indlela yokuziphatha kangangoko kunokwenzeka, ngokukodwa ukuba akuphazamisi
- Nika amaninzi endumiso kunye nengqalelo xa engenzi
- Nika izikhumbuzo ezilula ukuncedisa umntwana wakho xa eyenza. Ngokomzekelo, utitshala wakhe angamnika uphawu olukhethekileyo lwesandla okanye uthephe kwideskiti yakhe xa ehlawula kakhulu.
- Ukunikela endaweni yokuziphatha. Ukongeza kwibhola lokucoca, unokukwazi ukwenza umkhonto, ugcine izandla zombini kwidesksi yakhe, okanye sebenzisa zombini izandla ukubamba iincwadi zakhe.
- Ukubonelela ngenkuthazo okanye umvuzo wokuyeka. Isitika okanye inkqutyana yenkwenkwezi sinokukunceda ekumiseni imikhwa embi.
Ingcali yengqondo yengqondo inokukwazi ukumsebenzela nokumnceda ukuba ayeke ukuhlawula. Ukuvavanywa ngumntwana wengqondo kwengqondo kunokukunceda ukuba uqonde ukuba kutheni enjenjalo. Ngaba uqobo okanye uxhalabile?
Kunokukunceda ukuba ube novavanyo olusesikweni kunye nomntwana wakho wezilwanyana okanye umntwana weengqondo ukuze aqiniseke ukuba akanalo i-ADHD okanye into enye, njengengxaki yokunyanzelisa i-OCD.
Ukuba novandlakanyo, nangona kungabonakali kwaye kubonisa ukuba akanalo nayiphi na ingxaki yonyango, kunokukunceda uqinisekise ukuba ootitshala bakhe basebenze nawe ngokuncinane kule nto.
Ukuba kunokwenzeka, unokuzama ukuseka intlanganiso esikolweni ukuthetha nabanye abasebenzi besikolo. Mhlawumbi ufumane umcebisi weziko elichaphazelekayo kuya kuba luncedo.
Usenokuze utshele uthisha wakhe kunokuba uphando olutsha lufumana uncedo kubantu abathintekayo.