Uze Uhlale Unomdla Wokuzihlaziya
Nangona umzali unomvuzo, ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kuba nzima iintsuku kunye namaxesha anzima. Ezinye zezo zihlandlo ezinzima kunokuba ngumntwana wakho.
Ukujongana neengxaki zokuziphatha kunokubangela ukuba ugxininise ubunzima bakho okanye ukulibala malunga nemihlali yokukhulisa abantwana ukuba awuqapheli. Kodwa ezi ngcaphuno zomzali zingakunceda ugcine izinto ngendlela efanelekileyo xa uqeqesha umntwana wakho.
1. "Xa umntwana ehlawula umntwana, sikubiza ngokuba yintlupheko . Xa umntwana eshayisa umntu omdala simbiza ngokuba yintshaba. Xa umntu omdala ebetha umntu omdala, sibiza ngokuba kukuhlaselwa. Xa umntu omdala axabela umntwana, siyibiza ngokuba ngumyalelo. "- UHaim G. Ginott
2. "Kodwa abantwana abahlali nawe xa wenza okulungileyo. Ngomnye umsebenzi apho uphelele khona, ngokuqinisekileyo awuyi kufuneka ngexesha elide. "- UBarbara Kingsolver
3. "Ukuba awunakuzondwa ngumntwana wakho, awuzange ube ngumzali." - UBette Davis
4. "Ukuba nabantwana kufana nokuhlala kwindlu engumyeni - akukho mntu olalayo, yonke into ephukile, kwaye kukho ukuphosa okukhulu." - URay Romano
5. "Sitshintsha indlela esiziphatha ngayo xa intlungu yokuhlala enye iya kuba mkhulu kuneentlungu zokutshintsha. Iziphumo zisinika intlungu esishukumisela ukuba sitshintshe. "- UHenry Cloud
6. "Abantwana badinga uthando, ngakumbi xa bengakufanelanga ." - UHarold Hulburt
7. "Andikwazi ukunika abantwana bam yonke into abayifunayo kodwa ndibanike oko bafuna.
Uthando, ixesha, kunye nengqalelo. Awukwazi ukuthenga ezo zinto. "- UNishan Panwar
8. "Ungakhathazeki ukuba abantwana abaze bakuphulaphule; kha thazeka ukuba bahlala bebukele. "- URobert Fulghum
9. "Saziphi na ukufumana ingcamango yobuqhetseba ukuze ukuze abantwana benze ngcono, kuqala, kufuneka sibenza bazive bebi kakhulu?
Cinga ngethuba lokugqibela uziva uhlazekile okanye uphathwa kakubi. Ngaba uzive uthanda ukubambisana okanye wenza ngcono? "- UJane Nelson
10. "Ukuba asiyikumelela abantwana bethu, baya kubumba ngemikhosi engaphandle engakhathalele ukuba yeyiphi indlela abantwana bethu abakhona ngayo." - UDkt. Louise Hart
11. "Ngamanye amaxesha, abantwana bafuna ukulimaza indlela ababuhlungu ngayo." - UMitch Albom
12. "Ubaba wanikela isipho esikhulu kunazo zonke nabanikela omnye umntu, wayekholelwa kum." - UJim Valvano
13. "Iimvana zakho zifuna zonke izinto ukuba zibathande ukuba ziphi, kungekhona ukuba zichithe ixesha lakho lonke uzama ukuzilungisa." - UBill Ayer
14. "Inyani le nto kukuba abaninzi bethu bathetha ngendlela efanayo esakhula ngayo. Le ndlela yokunxibelelana iba yindlela yethu eqhelekileyo yokujongana nemiba, isicwangciso sethu soqhagamshelwano. Yilokho esikwaziyo kwaye sidlulela kubantwana bethu. Singaba ngabantwana bethu okanye senze isigqibo sokuziguqula. "- UKristen Crockett
15. "Ubuzali ... Ngokuphathelele ukukhokela isizukulwana esilandelayo, nokuxolela okugqibela." - UPeter Krause
16 . "Ngokubathanda ngaphezu kwamandla ethu sibonisa abantwana bethu ukuba bangaphezulu kwexabiso lokufezekisa kwabo." - U- Eileen Kennedy-Moore
17. "Ukudlala kunceda ukwakha ubudlelwane obufudumele phakathi kwamalungu entsapho kunye nokwenza ibhanki yeemvakalelo ezihle kunye namava anokutsalwa ngexesha lokungqubana.
Ngokudlala, unokunceda abantwana bakho basombulule iingxaki , bavavanye iingcamango, bahlole iingcamango zabo. "- UCarolyn Webster-Stratton
18. "Umntwana unqwenela ukuthetha kakuhle ukuphulaphula kakuhle." -Robert Brault
19 . "Nabani na ngaphandle komzali, ukuba abantwana bakho bafuna ukupenda iindawo zabo zokulala, njengobumnandi kum, bavumele bawenze. Kuya kulungile. "- URayy Pausch
20. "Yithi" hayi "kuphela xa kubaluleke kakhulu. Ugqoke ihembe elibomvu elikhawulayo ngeempuphu ezimhlophe ze-orange? Kuqiniseke. Beka amanzi kwindawo yokubeka itiye? Kulungile. Ukulala nentloko yakho enyaweni yombhede? Ulungile. "- UGretchen Rubin
21. "Ukuba bekufuneka ndibe nomgaqo-jikelele wokuhlala kunye nokusebenza nabantwana, mhlawumbi oku kungaba oku: qaphela ukuthetha okanye ukwenza nantoni na umntwana ongeke uyenze komnye umntu omdala, onobuchule obunomdla kunye noluthando oluxabisekileyo. "- UJohn Holt
22. "Khuthaza kwaye usixhase abantwana bakho kuba abantwana banokuphila ngokuvumelana nento okholelwa ngayo." - ULady Bird Johnson
23. "Njengoko abantwana bakho bekhulile bangakulibala into oyithethayo, kodwa abayi kukulibala indlela owabenza bazive ngayo." - Kevin Heath