Iimpazamo ezenziwe ngabazali abatsha bamaBafundi kunye namaqela amaninzi

Iinyanga ezimbalwa zokuqala ngeamawele okanye ukuphindaphinda zingaba ixesha elilingayo leentsapho. Ukujongana nokunyamekela iintsana ezitsha ziza kuba ngumsebenzi ojikelezayo. Ukunqongophala kokulala kudibanisa ukuxhamla komzimba xa i-postpartum hormonal swings iphakamisa iimvakalelo zolawulo. Nangona abazali abanamava banokuwela phantsi kwezi zigibe eziqhelekileyo xa amawele abo, ama-triple okanye ngaphezulu azalwa. Ziphephe, kwaye uya kufumana ukuba iinyanga ezimbalwa zokuqala zokunyamekela iziphindaphindwa zilawulwa kakhulu.

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Ukuphuma kweeMpahla

Ngeemfuno eziphindwe kabini, iimpahla zowana ziyasetyenziswa ngezinga elikhawulezayo. Yifaka kwizinto oza kusebenzisa ngazo: i-diapers, isula, iibhotile kunye nefomula. Ukubonelela ngokubanzi kwama-onesesi kunye nabokulala okulula kubaluleke kakhulu. Gcina izinto kwipakethe yazo yasekuqaleni kwaye ubambe kwiirisithi ukuze ukwazi ukubuyela lula izinto ezingasetyenziswanga. Iiklabhu ezikhankanywe ngasentla zibamba ukuthengisa kwonyaka; Ziyithuba elimnandi kwi-stock kwizambatho ezisetyenziswa kakuhle kunye nezixhobo.

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Ayikho

Oku kungacetyiswa, kodwa eli cebiso liphindaphindiwe ngokuphindaphindiweyo bonke abazali bamawele okanye ngaphezulu. Kuzama ukusebenzisa ixesha elihle lokuphumla ukuze ufumane ezinye izinto, kodwa kufuneka ukhumbule iimfuno zakho zokuphumla. Kulula ukuphazamiseka xa uphelile. Ubuthongo luyimveliso ebalulekileyo, ngoko-ke nisebenzise wonke amathuba.

Kaninzi

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Akukho Stroller okanye iStroller Wrong

Enye yezinto ezibalulekileyo zokulawula ukuphindaphindwa yilo logistics: ukufumana phi na kuba yintlungu xa unabantwana abangaphezu kwezandla. Umqhubi omhle wenza kube lula. Abanye abazali bakhetha isitayela (sangaphambili / sangaphambili) isitayela sokwenza izinto kwiindawo eziqinileyo, ngelixa abanye befumanisa ukuba imodeli yecala ikhululekile kwiintsana zabo. Abahamba ngee-Specialized strollers ezintathu , ii-quad okanye ngaphezulu ziyafumaneka. Nangona zixabiso, zifanele utyalo-mali.

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Ukudibanisa iintsana

Wayidla kangakanani? Uliphi ixesha lokugqibela enesipopu se-wet ? Ngumntwana onjani na? Ukusekwa inkqubo ehleliweyo yokugcina izinto ngokuchanekileyo kuya kuqinisekisa ukuba iimfuno zabantu bonke zidibene. Yenza ishati ukulandelela ixesha lokutya kunye neemali, utshintsho lwe-diaper , unyango kunye nolunye ulwazi olubalulekileyo. (Inqaku: ukuba unenkathazo ekutsheleni i-multiples yakho ngaphandle - nokuba ayifani! - i-dab encinci ye-nail polish kwinqwaba elilodwa iya kunceda ukwahlukanisa.)

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Ukudibanisa eziPhambili

Gcina kulula. Vumela izinto zihambe. Ingqwalasela yakho kwiinyanga ezimbalwa zokuqala kunye neeninzi kufuneka zibe kwiintsapho zakho ezandisiwe. Akusiyo ixesha lokupheka ukutya okudliwayo, ukucoceka kwentwasahlobo okanye ukufunda i-hobby entsha. Gxininisa ekunyamekeleni iimpahla zakho ezintsha zovuyo, kwaye vumela izinto ezincinci zidibanise. Uza kuba nexesha lokufumana ezi zinto ezinye iinyanga ezimbalwa phantsi kweendlela xa i-multiples yakho isungile ishedyuli.

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Ukuvimba uNcedo

Abantu bathanda amaninzi, yaye bafuna ukunceda. Zisebenzise zonke iziphakamiso. UMphathiswa. Yibani. Vumela abancedi bakho abanomdla ukuba banakekele ukutya, iziganeko, ukunakekelwa kwabanye abantakwabo, umsebenzi wendlu, umsebenzi weeyadi, ukuhlamba, ukuthenga kunye nazo zonke iinkcukacha zobomi ukuze ukwazi ukugxila kwizinto eziphambili.

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Ukungathathi ixesha

Nangona ubume bakho butshintshile ukuba ludibanise indima entsha njengomzali weeninzi, awukwazi ukunyanzela uqobo lwakho. Kubalulekile ukuthatha ixesha rhoqo ngexeshana ukugxila wena kunye neqabane lakho. Faka isihlobo esinceda, ummelwane okanye umncedisi womama osemtsha ophethe iintsana ngexesha elithile ukuze ukwazi ukuthatha ikhefu. Gwabela kwi-tub, uthathe uhambo, okanye uthathe u-nap. Uya kumangaliswa ukuba uza kuhlaziywa njani uya kuziva emva kwekhefu elifutshane.

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Ukuba Isolated kwabanye

Ukudibana nabanye abazali bamawele, ama-triple okanye ngaphezulu kunokukhuthaza nokuvuza. Akunakukubonisa nje ukuba ubomi obuninzi ngokuphindaphindiweyo, banokukunika iingcebiso eziqinileyo malunga nendlela yokwenza ngayo. Kubalulekile ukuseka inethwekhi yekhona-apho, eyenziwa-loo maqhawe ukuba abize ngexesha leengxaki.

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Ukungaxhamli

Indlela yokufunda ayisebenzisana namawele okanye iziphindaphindi. Yonke intsapho inemikhwa eyahlukeneyo kunye neemfuno kunye nendlela "eyiyo" ngokwenene nayiphi na into ebalulekileyo kuwe. Njengoko ubeka isimiso esichazela zakho izongezelelo ezitsha, zilungele ukuzama iindlela ezahlukeneyo zeeshedyuli, ubuchule kunye nemveliso. Khumbula ukuba ukuphindaphindwa ngabantu ngabanye, kwaye akusiyo isetyenziswe ngokufanelekileyo. Into esebenzayo enye ingenakufaneleka kwenye.

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Ukulahlekelwa ngombono

Gcina izinto ngendlela efanelekileyo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba izinto ezimbi zifumana njani, zisesigxina. Iintsana zikhula. Baya kuqala ukulala ngaphezulu kwaye badle kaninzi. Kuya kuba lula ukubakhupha ebantwini. Ngosuku ngalunye oludlulayo, unyathelo elikufutshane lokufumana izinto phantsi kolawulo. Zolisa ixesha elikhethekileyo lokusana: i-sleepy snuggles, iyancwina ihlazo kunye nefumba elimnandi leintsana zakho. Kungekudala baya kuba yimemori eyigugu.