Indlela Yokugcina Iintsholongwane Ngomsebenzi NgeeKhariti zeKhore
Ingaba ikhefu lakho lokutshisa i-dishwasher okanye ufuna ukuba lihlambulule igaraji, ukuba umntwana wakho enze imisebenzi yinto enzima. Enye yezona ndlela ezilungileyo zokufumana umntwana wakho oshukumisayo ukuba enze imisebenzi, usebenzisa ishadi lomsebenzi.
Amashadi amaninzi okuqeshisa kwiimarike ajoliswe kubantwana abancinci. Kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo awufuni ukuba uneminyaka eyi-15 ubudala ukuba acinge ukuba uphathwa njengomntwana - onokubuyiselwa aze amenze angabi nomthwalo ophantsi.
Yakha ishadi lakho le-chore elivunyiweyo eliselula. Ngokwenza njalo, uya kunika umntwana wakho uxanduva kwaye uza kuchitha ixesha elincinci ukulwa nemisebenzi.
Nazi iindlela ezimbalwa ezahlukileyo zeetrakethi zengqesho eziza kusebenza ngentsholongwane:
1. Ikhefu yemihla ngemihla
Yenza uluhlu lwazo zonke imisebenzi ozilindele ukuba umntwana wakho azalise ngalunye usuku. Thatha ikamelo lakhe, uhlambulule indlu yokuhlambela, uze ucime itafile, ingaba izinto ezimbalwa kwiluhlu.
Emva koko, ngaphaya kwephepha eliphezulu, yakha ikholomu nganye ngosuku lweveki. Mxelele ukuba ahlole yonke imisebenzi yokugqiba xa iphelile. Emva kokuba imisebenzi yakhe yenziwe ngemini, mvumele ukuba abe namalungelo, njengesihlandlo kwikhompyutha yakhe.
Akufanele uhlawule umntwana wakho isibonelelo semisebenzi yonke ayigqibeleleyo. Kunoko, imisebenzi ethile kufuneka ibe yinxalenye yelungu lentsapho elinoxanduva.
2. I-Token System Economy
Inkqubo yoqoqosho lophawu lokubonakalisa yinkqubo yokuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba athathe amaphupha (okanye amathokheni) angatshintshana ngamalungelo.
Yakha uluhlu lwemisebenzi othanda ukuba umntwana wakho azalise, nokuba yimisebenzi yansuku zonke, njengokucoca ikhitshi, okanye imisebenzi yangeveki, njengokutshiza umtshini. Banike ixabiso lephuzu nganye kwindawo.
Nangona umsebenzi olula njengokucima itafile unokuthi ufanele u-1 iphuzu, umsebenzi omkhulu onjengokucoca igaraji ungakufanelekela amanqaku angama-10.
Hlomela uluhlu lwemisebenzi kunye neendleko zabo zabelwe kwindawo evelele.
Yenza imenyu yomvuzo ngokunjalo. Imivuzo ingaba yinto elula njengemizuzu engama-30 yokudlala imidlalo yevidiyo okanye ingaba enkulu njengoko ihamba epakini lokuzonwabisa. Nika inani lenqaku kumvuzo ngamnye.
Emva koko, vumela umntwana wakho athole amaphupha aze ashiye kuye ukuba anqume ixesha lokutshintshisa loo maphuzu ngomvuzo. Mhlawumbi uya kuthatha umvuzo omncinci imihla ngemihla. Okanye mhlawumbi uya kusindisa amaphulo akhe ngomvuzo omkhulu kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ezantsi kwendlela.
Akumelwe umvumele ukuba azuze umvuzo obizayo okanye owonakalisayo. Kunoko, unako ukwenza umvuzo wamalungelo onke ayenayo.
3. Khetha iiCharts zeMvana ezininzi
Amashadi okukhetha amaqela amaninzi anokuba nzima kakhulu. Unokufumanisa okulungileyo ukuba unike wonke umntu ishadi elihlukileyo kunye nemiphumo eyahlukeneyo okanye iziphumo ngokuzama ukubeka igama lomntwana kwitshati enye.
Oku kuyinyani ngokukhethekileyo ukuba unemibono enkulu yobudala phakathi kwabantwana bakho. Umntwana oneminyaka emi-5 ubudala kunye nomntwana oneminyaka eyi-15 kufuneka abe nokulindela okungafaniyo kunye nemisebenzi yakhe.
Kodwa, ukuba unentsholongwane enokukwazi ukuphatha umthwalo ofanayo wokusebenza, ishadi elidibeneyo lingasebenza kakuhle. Unokwenza ishadi lenyanga eliza umntwana omnye ukuba ahlaziye ikhitshi ngelixa elinye lihlambulula igumbi lokuhlambela.
Emva koko, inyanga elandelayo, bayatshintsha uxanduva.
Ungayifumana nayo isebenza ekutshintsheni imisebenzi yonke imihla okanye enye ngeveki. Qinisekisa ukuba enye intombazana ayipheli ukwenza kabini xa omnye engenzi imisebenzi yakhe.
Yenza Umntwana Wakho Uxanduva
Ingongoma yetshathi yeqhosha kufuneka ibe ukunciphisa iingxabano malunga nemisebenzi. Kufuneka kwakhona unike umntanakho inkululeko engakumbi yokukhetha xa wayenza imisebenzi yakhe.
Melana nomnqweno wokumbamba. Kunoko, yenza amalungelo akhe athile ekusebenzeni kwakhe umsebenzi. Ukuba akenzi umsebenzi, musa ukumnika amalungelo akhe. Ngethemba, uya kufunda ukuziphatha ngokufanelekileyo ngokuzayo.