Nangona ininzi intsha ikhangele phambili ekuphumeni kwehlobo, ininzi yabo iyakhuthaza ngeveki yesibini yeholide. Kwaye ngokudabukisayo, abaninzi abantu abakhathazekayo bachitha ixesha lokuphumla kwehlobo ekhangela kwi-electronics .
Okona bubi nakakhulu, ukukhunjulwa kungakhokelela ekukhethweni okungafanelekanga njengokuzama izinto okanye ukuthatha ingozi kubahlobo.
Okona kuncinci, ihlobo elihle liyakuthintela ukufunda kwakho kwentombazana.
Unokulahlekelwa ezinye zezakhono zakhe zokufunda xa engakhange abe ngumngeni wengqondo ngexesha lehlobo.
Ngoxa uncedo oluncinci kuwe, ke, i-teen yakho ingenza ikhefu ikhefu elihle kakhulu. Nazi izinto ezona zivelele zentsholongwane ezokugcina umntwana wakho onwabileyo, efanelekileyo kwaye enempilo.
Phakamisa Imisebenzi Yomndeni Ingane Yakho Iya Kuyithanda
Ihlobo lixesha elide lokuchitha ixesha elifanelekileyo kunye kunye . Ngaphandle koxinzelelo lomsebenzi wesikolo kunye nemisebenzi embalwa kwikhalenda, uya kuba namathuba amaninzi okubambisana. Nazi ezinye izicwangciso zokudala imisebenzi yentsapho intsha yakho iya kuyenza.
- Yenza imingeni yentsapho: Misela intsebenzo yamasonto onke, njengokuba ngubani onokwakha i-card ephezulu okanye i-castle yentlabathi.
- Dlala kunye nomntwana wakho: Ingaba uyaphonsa ibhaluni yamanzi omnye komnye, okanye udibanisa intloko-yokuqala phantsi kwe-slip-and-slide, ungabi ngumbukeli. Bonisa wakho umntwana ukuba uzimisele ukungena apho kwaye ujabule kunye.
- Jabulela ixesha elithile loxolo: Hamba kwipikiniki yentsapho uze usebenzise imini emva kokujonga amafu. Okanye, yibamba ibhola yebhodi yentsapho endala ekhaya.
- Yenza umdlalo wokutya: Kungakhathaliseki ukuba wenza ice cream yakho okanye ujika ngokukhetha ukhetho lokutya, kukho amathuba amaninzi okuguqula ukutya kwimisebenzi yentsapho ejabulisayo.
Cwangcisa iiprojekthi ezingagcina zonke ihlobo
Yakha iprojekthi eya kuyenza intombazana yakho ixakeke, kodwa enye iya kunika umntwana wakho umva wokufezekisa ekupheleni kwehlobo. Hlala phantsi kunye nentombazana yakho uze ucacise ezinye izinto. Nazi iiprojekthi ezimbalwa umntwana wakho onokufuna ukuzama.
- Qala umyezo: Ukulima ingadi ye-pizza, ukuqala kwintsimi yakho yemifuno, okanye ukwakha intsimi yeentyatyambo kunokunika umntwana wakho into yokuba enze ihlobo lonke. Ukususela kwimikhwa yokutya okunempilo ukuze kuphuculwe inhlalakahle yengqondo, ukulima kwintsimi inika intsha izibonelelo ezimangalisayo .
- Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba azinikele ngokuzithandela: Thetha nentombazana yakho malunga nokuzithandela kulo lonke ihlobo. Imibutho emininzi, njengezibhedlele, zamkela amavolontiya asetsheni. Ingane yakho inokukwazi ukuthatha inxaxheba kwiingxowa-mali okanye iyakwazi ukuzonwabisa ukwenza izenzo ezinobungozi .
- Qala ishishini: Nangona wakho umntwana usemncinci ukuba athole umsebenzi, unokuhlala eqala ishishini . Inkonzo yokunakekelwa kwelawn elula okanye inja yokuhamba ngenkonzo ingaba yindlela ephezulu yokufundisa uxanduva kwaye ifumana enye ingeniso.
- Cwangcisa isiganeko: Vumela umntwazana wakho uncede ukucwangcisa iholide yentsapho okanye umxelele ukuba angaphonsa iqela lokubuyela esikolweni ukuba wenza lo cwangciso. Ukucwangcisa isiganeko kunokukunceda wakho umntwana ukuba asebenzise izakhono zobomi, njengokubhajethi, ukulawula ixesha, kunye noqhagamshelwano.
Khuthaza Imisebenzi Eya Kugcina Iintsholongwane Zakho Zisebenza Ngokwempilo
Ngemisebenzi emincinci yezemidlalo, iholide zasehlotyeni zingakhokelela ukuba intsha ibe yindawo yokuhlala, engeyona impilo kwimpilo yabo. Nantsi indlela yokuthintela umntwana wakho ukuba abe yitata lokulala.
- Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba asebenze yonke imihla: Ukuba umntwana wakho engabandakanyeli kwimidlalo ehleliweyo kwiinyanga zasehlobo, mkhuthaze ukuba afumane iindlela zokuhlala ekhuthele. Umngeni wakhe ukukhwela ibhayisikili yakhe ngamamayela amahlanu ngosuku okanye ukudada kwidama leedolophu eziliqela ngeveki.
- Cwangcisa imisebenzi yeentsapho ezibandakanya umzimba: Hamba ukuhamba njengentsapho ngeveki okanye uhambe ngokuhlwa rhoqo emva kokuhlwa. Khangela imisebenzi emitsha ongayenza njengentsapho, nayo. Enoba uzama i-golf frisbee okanye uthatha izifundo ze-surfing ndawonye, yenza ujabulele umzimba.
Khuthaza Imisebenzi Eya Kugcina Ingqondo Yakho Iminyaka Eyasebenza
Ubunzima beengcambu zentsholongwane zingabangela ingxaki yangempela, ngakumbi ukuba umntwana wakho uselula iintsuku zakhe edlala imidlalo yevidiyo. Mkhuthaze ukuba athathe inxaxheba kwimisebenzi eya kumnceda ahlale engqondweni yakhe. Mncede athole imisebenzi emnandi ekhuthaza ukufunda.
- Cinga ngelixa elizayo: Ihlobo lixesha elihle lokukhuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba agxininise kwixesha elizayo. Ukutyelela iikholeji kunye okanye ncedise umntwana wakho kumthunzi womsebenzi umntu osebenza kumsebenzi omthandayo.
- Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba afunde: Thatha uhambo lweveki ukuya kwilayibrari uze ucelomngeni wakho umntwana ukuba afunde incwadi entsha nganye iveki. Mkhuthaza ukuba ahlolisise iintlobo ezintsha okanye aqale iqela leencwadi kunye nabahlobo. Ukufunda kunokunceda ukugcina ingqondo yakho yentsholongwane isebenze kwaye inokuyenza ibe ngumfundi ongunaphakade.
- Sebenzisa i-elektroniki ngendlela ephilileyo: Endaweni yokujonga inkqonkqoza, khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba akhiwe iwebhusayithi okanye afunde ukuyila.
Cwangcisa i mi sebenzi
Kubalulekile ukucwangcisa loo mihla yezulu okanye ukutshisa iintsuku ezishushu xa umntwana wakho engenako ukuphuma ngaphandle. Fumana imisebenzi yangaphakathi eyenza umntwana wakho akwazi ukugcina engqondweni ukuze akwazi ukukhathazeka. Nazi ezinye iingcamango ezingamenza zixakeke.
- Ukubonelela ngezixhobo zobugcisa: Iiprojekthi zezobugcisa zingaba lula njengekholeji ezenziwe kumaphephancwadi amadala okanye zibandakanya ubugcisa obuyinkimbinkimbi ezifana nokuthunga ingubo entsha. Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba abhale iingoma, udwebe imifanekiso, kwaye udale izibongo.
- Khuthaza imisebenzi yasekhaya: Kukho rhoqo izinto ezinokuthi zenziwe kwindlu. Yenza umntwana wakho atyhale igumbi lakhe lokulala ngombala omtsha okanye anikwe imisebenzi , njengokucoca igaraji. Umngeni wakhe ukuba akubonise ukuba unokunyanzela.
Imisebenzi Yenkxaso Ngomntwana Wakho Wokuthandana Nabangane
Kubalulekile ukuba ulutsha luhlale luhlobo lobuhlobo. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha, ngexesha lokuphumla kwehlobo, ukuxhaswa ngabantu abadala abadala kunokuqinisekisa ukuba abo bahlobo bahlala bekhuthele xa kungekho sikolo. Nazi izinto ezimbalwa ezonwabileyo ezenzelwe intsha kubantakwabo ngexesha lehlobo.
- Vumela umntwana wakho ukuba abe nabahlobo phezu kwaloo nto : Kukho into eninzi ekuthethwa ngayo ukuba uyaziphi na umntanakho kunye naye ohlala naye kunye naye, ngoko-ke makhe uzimisele ukubamba i-marathon ye-movie yobusuku okanye uvumele ukuqhubela abatsha olwandle. Ukuba umntwana wakho akasaboni abahlobo kaninzi, mkhuthaze ukuba acwangcise iziganeko ezininzi kwiinyanga zasehlotyeni.
- Uncedise ulutsha ukuba lubandakanyeke kuluntu: Iintsholongwane zininzi ixesha ehlobo, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo, uluntu lunentswelo. Zama ukudibanisa nomntwana wakho kwimisebenzi yoluntu, njengokuhlela umcimbi okanye ukufunda abantwana kwilayibrari. Ngoxa uncedo oluncinane luqalisile, abaninzi abatsha banandipha ukubandakanya ngakumbi kwiindawo zabo.
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