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Njengoko intsha iguqulela kuba ngabantu abadala, uqeqesho lwabo ludinga utshintsho. Bafuna ukungenelela kwabazali abangaphantsi xa beqala ukwenza izigqibo ngokwabo.
Nangona kunjalo, bonke abatsha benza iimpazamo kwaye kaninzi, bafuna uncedo oluncinane ukuguquka ezo mpazamo zibe ngamathuba okufunda. Ngoko inxaxheba yakho kufuneka ishintshe ekubeni ngumphathi ukuba ube ngumkhombisi ukuze uvumele umntwana wakho ukuba ahambe kwiinkalo ezininzi zobomi bakhe kunye nenkxaso yakho.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, umntwana wakho uya kusasa imiphumo xa ephula imithetho okanye enze ukhetho olubi. Kodwa ngoku ukuba i -out-outs-outs kunye ne-sticker sticker, luhlobo luni loqeqesho olufanelekileyo? Kukho izicwangciso eziliqela ongayisebenzisa ukuze ufundise izifundo zakho zobomi ezibalulekileyo njengoko uguqulela kumntu omdala osemdala.
Beka iMigaqo ecacileyo kunye neelindelwe
Yenza okulindelweyo kucace. Yithi izinto ezinje, "Ndikulindele ukuba undibize ukuba ubani uphuza kule phondo kwaye ndikulindele ukuba ungatsho ukuba umntu uyakunika isiselo."
Ukuchaza nje ngokulindelayo ngokulivakalayo kunokuhamba ixesha elide ukuncedisa umntwana wakho ukuba enze izigqibo ezintle.
Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuxelela umntwana wakho ukuba iziphumo ziya kuba njani ngokuphula imithetho. Ngokomzekelo, cacisa ukuba ukuza ekhaya emva kwexesha lokufika kwikhaya kuya kubangela ukuba kubekwe iiveki enye. Okanye utshele wakho umntwana ukuba akayi kuvunyelwa ukusebenzisa imoto ngeveki ukuba akafumani umsebenzi wakhe wenziwa ngexesha lonke leveki.
Ingxaki-Sombulula Ngomntwana Wakho
Xa kuphakama iingxaki, hlala phantsi nomntwana wakho ekufikeni ingxaki-uphendule kunye. Xa umfana esinegalelo ekuxazululeni ingxaki, unokukwazi ukulandela isisombululo.
Ukucela abafana ngeengcamango zabo malunga nendlela yokusombulula ingxaki kunokukhokelela kwizixazululo ezithile zokudala.
Zama ukuthetha into enje, "Uhluleka ukwenza izibalo kodwa usitsho ukuba awunakho umsebenzi wesikolo. Yintoni esinokuyenza ukuze ufunde ibanga lakho?" Unokwazi ukuba uyafuna ukuhlala emva kwesikolo ukufumana uncedo olungakumbi kwimathematika.
Okanye, nithi, "Ufikile emva kwexesha lakho lokubuya kwikhaya kabini kwinyanga edlulileyo. Yintoni esinokuyenza ukunceda ukuba ufike ekhaya ngexesha?" Mhlawumbi ukubeka i-alamu kumnxeba wakhe okhumbuzayo xa kufuneka aqale ukuhamba ekhaya kuya kunceda.
Khumbula, ingongoma yakho intsha ukuba ifunde indlela yokusombulula iingxaki ngokuzimeleyo phambi kokungena kweli hlabathi. Isikhokelo sokunikela ngaphandle kokulungisa ingxaki kuye.
Vumela iziphumo zendalo
Ungesabi ukuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba ahlangabezane nemiphumo yemvelo . Xa eneminyaka engu-17, ukuba ufuna ukuphuma ngaphandle ngaphandle kwengubo, myeke aye. Ukuba uyabanda, uya kufaka ijacket yakhe ngexesha elizayo.
Oku kunokunceda ulutsha luphucule izakhono ezingcono zokuthatha izigqibo njengoko ziqala ukwenza izigqibo zisekelwe kwimiphumo yempilo yangempela kunokuthi, "Umama uthi andinako."
Ewe, akufanele uvumele umntwana wakho ukuba enze ukhetho olungaphephile. Ukukhawuleza, ukusela utywala kunye nokuxhoma kunye nesihlwele esibi kungakhokelela kwimicimbi yokhuseleko.
Susa ama lungelo xa kuyimfuneko
Xa abatsha bengenzi izigqibo eziphilileyo, baqhagamshelana ukuba bafuna izikhokelo ezingaphezulu.
Xa ufuna ukungenelela, ukususa amalungelo kunokuba isicwangciso soqeqesho esisebenzayo.
Thatha amalungelo abalulekileyo kubantwana bakho, njengokusebenzisa i-electronics okanye ilungelo lokushiya indlu engagqithwanga.
Ukuthetha ngokucacileyo ukuba amalungelo angabuyiselwa njani. Esikhundleni sokuthi, "Unokubuyisela ifowuni yakho xa ndiyakuthemba kwakhona," uthi, "Unokubuyisela ifowuni yakho xa uthethe inyaniso kwiiveki ezimbini ezipheleleyo." Emva koko, wakho umntwana uya kukhuthazwa ukuba athathe amanyathelo okufumana amalungelo akhe.
Fundisa izifundo zoBomi
Xa i-adolescence yakho ikhupha, yicinge ukuba ayikho izakhono zobomi ezibalulekileyo.
Ngoko cinga ngamanyathelo onokuthatha ukuze ufundise wakho umntwana ukuba enze ukhetho olungcono kwixesha elizayo.
Khangela iziphumo ezifundisa ukuzimela, kunokuba zixhaphaze. Ukuthabatha amalungelo akho amantombazana ngonaphakade okanye ukusebenzisa izijeziso ezinobungozi.
Ngoko qiniseka ukuba iimpazamo zakho zentsha zibe zifundo ezibalulekileyo zokufunda. Thetha malunga nendlela yokufunda kwimpazamo nendlela yokwenza ngcono ixesha elizayo.
Yiba ngumzekelo omhle. Yamkela uxanduva xa wenza iimpazamo kwaye ubonise umntwana wakho ukuba enze izilungiso kunye nendlela yokufunda kwizenzo zakho.