Ukubuyela esikolweni kunokuba nzima kubazali nezingane
Abantwana abaninzi (kunye nabazali) banokuziva bexhalabile xa besondela kunyaka wesikolo esitsha. Kusuka kwimimandla ehamba phambili ukuya kumaphulo omzuzu wokugqibela, imisebenzi emininzi eyenza iishedyuli ezixakekileyo zonyaka wesikolo ingaba nzima kubazali kunye nabafundi, okubangela ukuba maxa wambi uxinzelelo olunzulu kunye nokuxhalabisa. Nazi iindlela ezinhlanu onganciphisa uxinzelelo:
Qala Ngokuqala Ukuthintela Ukulahleka Kokulala okanye Ukulahla
Ngaphezulu kwehlobo, ezininzi iintsapho zithatha iindlebe zazo elangeni kwaye zihlala emva koko.
Ngelixa kunokuba lunokuzama ukugcina ubusuku obusesikhatjeni bumnandi benyukela kude kube sekupheleni, ukuqala isikolo sakho kwiiveki ezimbalwa kusenokwenzeka kunokunceda uguqulele ukubuyela esikolweni. Iiveki ezimbini ukuya kwethathu ngaphambi kokufika kwesikolo, qalisa ukulala kwaye uvuke ngaphambili uze uzame ukutya kwishedyuli eqhelekileyo kwakhona. Le ngcebiso ayikho nje abantwana abancinci; abatsha nabadala badinga ukulala okusemgangathweni ngokufanelekileyo nokusebenza kwishedyuli yakho ngoku ngoku kuya kunceda ukunqanda ukungazinzi okanye ukulahlwa kokulala xa isikolo siqala. Ukuphumla okulungileyo kunokunceda umntwana wakho angcono ukulawula uxinzelelo ngosuku lokuqala.
Yenza Ukuhamba
Ngelixa sisesihloko sokuqala kusasa, yinto efanelekileyo yokutyelela isikolo ngaphambi komhla wokuqala. Kwabantwana abaya kuba ngabokuqala bexesha lokufundela, ubanga lokuqala, isikolo esiphakathi okanye esikolweni esiphakamileyo, oku kunokubanceda bazive bekhululekile kunye nendawo entsha kwaye bafumane ingcamango engcono yokuya phi xa belapho.
Ngaphandle kwabafundi ababuyisayo, akukhathazi ukuba yiphi iklasi lokufundela, nithi bonwabo kunoma yintoni na umsebenzi oya kulungela kwaye uqale ukuvuyela ngokubuya.
Isitaki I-Deck
Ukuba unayo nayiphi na ingeniso kwisabelo somsebenzi wakho weklasini yomntwana, ingcamango enhle ukuqinisekisa ukuba kukho ubuncinane omnye umhlobo eklasini okanye iiklasi lakho umntwana uya kubakho.
Ukuba iiklasi zinikezelwe ngaphandle kwempembelelo yakho, thetha nabanye abazali kwaye uzame ukufumana ukuba ngubani umntwana wakho oza kubelana ngeklasi ngaphambi kwexesha, kwaye ubazise. Ukwazi ukuba ngubani eklasini yabo uya kubapha into enokuyilindela kuyo, kwaye ukhumbuze oko bakuzonwabisayo ngesikolo. Ukuba umntwana wakho ungena kwi-kindergarten okanye kwibanga lokuqala, kungaba yinto efanelekileyo yokuba nomdlalo wokudlala kunye nabantwana abaya kubafundi babo kwiklasi ngeveki ngaphambi kokuba isikolo siqale ukubanceda bazive bekhululekile kwaye bavuyiswe ngakumbi xa bebona nabahlobo kwakhona esikolweni. Ukuba ungumtsha kummandla okanye ungayazi na umntu, zama ukujonga amaphepha eendaba ezentlalo ukuze ufumane abanye abazali kunye nezingane.
Lungela
Ukubuyela kwisitolo esikolweni kunokunceda umntwana wakho ajabule unyaka wesikolo esitsha. Ukuba umntwana wakho akakwazi ukunyamekela ngento yokuthenga, unokwenza ngokukhawuleza kwaye ungenabuhlungu, kodwa kubantwana abathokozelayo izigqibo zonyaka zempahla, iimpahla zokukhusela, kunye nezinye izinto zokuzikhethela, kungaba yindlela elula yokunciphisa umntwana wakho kunyaka omtsha.
Kule miqolo, nwabisa ukulungiselela indawo yokufunda yomntwana wakho. Kubalulekile ukuba umntwana wakho unendawo epholileyo, ezolileyo ukuze afunde. Ungaphinda ufune ukwenza imizila yakho ikulungele; njengoko ubuya kwishedyuli yangaphambili, yenza ukuba abantwana bakho baqale ukubeka iingubo zabo ngobusuku bobusuku, begcina izicathulo zabo ngasemnyango baze babuyele kwiminye imikhuba yasekuseni ekuncedayo ukuba uphume emnyango ngaphandle kwenkunkuma.
Oku kunokukunceda uhlaziye umgangatho wakho kwaye wenze ukuba kube lula ukuguqulela esikolweni lula.
Thetha omnye nomnye
Enye yezona ndlela ezintle zokukhupha ukuxhalaba esikolweni kwaye uzilungiselele unyaka ozayo kukuthetha nje nomntwana wakho malunga nokuba unokuva njani. Xa isikolo esikolweni sifika, makumxelele into enomdla ngayo esikolweni kunye nokuba yintoni enokubangela ukuxhalabisa. Ukuba umntwana wakho ubonisa ukungabi nantoni ngokuphathelele isikolo, musa ukukhupha ngokukhawuleza ukukhathazeka kwakhe; Kunoko, gxininisa ekuqinisekiseni iimvakalelo. Emva koko unokunceda ukufumana izicombululo okanye ukutshintsha ugxininiso kwizinto ezintle ezifana nokubona abahlobo, ukugubungela izinto ezintsha kunye nokukhula.
Le ngethuba elifanelekileyo lokuxoxa ngezinto ezibalulekileyo ezifana nendlela yokusingatha ukuxhatshazwa, uxinzelelo lwaontanga kunye nezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo. Ukudala imigqa evulekileyo yonxibelelwano kwenza umntwana wakho azi ukuba uya kufumaneka inkxaso.
Into ebalulekileyo ekufuneka uyikhumbule ekujonganeni nokubuyisela esikolweni i-jitters kufuneka ilungiselelwe ngokwengqondo nangokwenene. Yazi ukuba ungalindela kwaye uzilungiselele, kwaye ube nesicwangciso sokugcina izinto eziphathekayo. Emva koko landela icebo. Ukuba ubonisa intshiseko yakho kwinto esetyenziswayo yonyaka wesikolo esitsha, abantwana bakho bayaqiniseka ukuba bathathe kuwo kwaye amandla omnyuba aya kuvuyisa.
Umthombo:
I-Beilock S. Ukubuyela kwiSikolo: Ukujongana noxinzelelo lwezifundo. Umbutho wezeMpilo waseMelika. 2011.