Abazali abaninzi abazange bakhule kunye nokuthumela imiyalezo. Ngenxa yoko, abanakho ukuthumela imiyalezo kwi-radar yabo njengengozi ebonakalayo kubantwana babo. Okwenyani, noko ke, ukuba ukuthumela imiyalezo kunokuba yingozi kwimpilo kunye nentlalo yolutsha. Nazi ezinye izingozi zokuthumela umyalezo abazali abafanele babe nazo.
Ukuthumela imiyalezo kunye nokuqhuba: Ukuhlanganiswa okubulalayo
Abazali bam babekhathazekile malunga nam ngokubetha umdlali wekhaseteti xa ndibe ngumqhubi omtsha.
Ngoku, abazali kufuneka bakhathazeke ngabadlali be-MP3, iinkqubo ze-GPS kunye neefowuni. Kungabonakala kucacile, kodwa ukuthumela imiyalezo kunye nokuqhuba ukuqhuba akuhambisani. Naliphi na ixesha lakho ingqalelo kwintsholongwane yakho yentsholongwane, isetyenziselwe ingozi. Njengoko thina baqhubayo bayazi, izingozi ezinokuthi zifike ngokukhawuleza xa uqhuba. Ukuba uphazamiseka, awukwazi ukuphendula ngokufanelekileyo okanye ngexesha.
Uphando olwenziwa yi-Virginia Tech Transportation Institute luchaza indlela ukuthumela imiyalezo enobungozi kunye nokuqhuba imoto ngokwenene. Abaphandi bafundela abaqhubi abaqhuba izithuthi zabo kumgama oqokelelweyo weekhilomitha ezili-6 ezigidi. Ukubhalwa kwemiyalezo kwakungakhange kufundwe kulawo mafutha asebenzayo, kodwa ukuthumela imiyalezo ngelixa uqhuba iloli kwandisa ingozi yengozi nge-2320%. Ukufowunela ifowuni ngelixa uqhuba imoto kwandisa ingozi yengozi ngo-280%; umngcipheko xa uqhuba isithuthi esinamandla sanda ngo-590%.
Abaphandi baphetha ngelithi, xa ukuthumela i-texting, amehlo aphelile kwindlela yokufumana ixesha elaneleyo lokuhamba kwindlela ekude kwintsimi yebhola xa uhamba ngeekhilomitha ezingama-55 ngeyure.
Lexesha elide lokungaqwalasela oko kwenzekayo phambi kwakho. Uphononongo lubonisa ukuba ixesha elingakhange lijonge kwindlela ligalela kwinani eliphezulu lezengozi.
Nangona imithetho isasemsebenzini yokunqabela ukuthumela imiyalezo ngelixa uqhuba, intsha akufanele ikwazi ukuthumela imiyalezo ngelixa iqhuba.
Ukuqhuba kuyilungelo lakho kumntwana, kwaye wenze imithetho. Ukuze ukhuseleko lwenkwenkwe yakho kunye nabanye abashayeli endleleni, akukho myalezo wokuthumela umyalezo xa uqhuba ukuqhuba kufuneka ube ngumgaqo. (Kuyafana nabantu abadala).
Ukubhalwa kwemiyalezo kunye nokulala: Ingozi yokuthumela imiyalezo
Ngaba uke wambona umntanakho wehla eqaqa amehlo ngenxa yebanga lokulala ngokwaneleyo? Zingaphi izihlandlo ezi zinto ngenxa yokuba umntwana wakho uphakamise ukuthumela imiyalezo ngobusuku bonke?
Iintswelo zidinga ukulala ngokwaneleyo nokungaphazamisekiyo ukuze ziphapheme kwaye ziqaphele umhla ozayo. Impembelelo ebonakalayo yolulo lusebenza emsebenzini wesikolo, kunjalo. Enyanisweni, iboshwe kumazinga aphantsi okusebenza eklasini.
Kodwa nangakumbi ngokuphazamisayo, i-National Highway Traffic Safety Administration iqikelela ukuba kuneziganeko ezingaphezu kwe-100 000 ngonyaka unxulumene nokulala.
Umntwana osele ebusweni ungumfundi ongenamdla - kunye nomqhubi. Ukuba uyazi okanye uyakrokrela ukuba umntwana wakho uthumele i-texting ebusuku, cinga ukuba udibanise ifowuni yakhe kwindawo eqhelekileyo - okanye igumbi lakho - ngokuhlwa.
Ukuthunyelwa kwemiyalezo
I-Sexting yinto ekhulayo. Kukho inani lamatyala kwiindaba malunga nentsha ezithatha imifanekiso ecacileyo ngokwabelana ngesondo kunye nokuyithumela komnye umntu.
Kwezinye iimeko, intsha ifuna ukuba imifanekiso ibonwe kuphela ngumntu ayithumele kuyo. Nangona kunjalo, kukho iimeko zeemifanekiso ezidluliselwa kwabanye, ezinokubangela ukunyeliswa, ukuhlazeka, okanye ukuthunyelwa koluntu.
Kodwa kukho enye. Kwezinye iimeko, ukuthatha okanye ukusabalalisa imifanekiso ecacileyo okanye yesini yomntu oneminyaka engaphantsi kwe-18 yinto yolwaphulo-mthetho (umntwana oononografi). Yintoni engacacile ukuba imithetho yamanqaku e-pornography yamanje isebenza njani kwimifanekiso ethathwe ngumntwana omncinci. Ukongezelela, le mithetho isebenza njani xa umfanekiso usasazwa ngummkeli ofunyenweyo naye oncinci?
Eminye imithetho yaseburhulumenteni ijongene nale ngxaki inzima, kodwa abazali bafanele bahlangabezane nentsha yabo malunga nalo mcimbi okwangoku. Abanye abatsha batyhutshiswa phantsi komthetho okwangoku kwaye ngoku banokuthi bahlwaywe njengoko bathatyathwa njengabaphulaphuli ngokwesondo. Ingane yakho kufuneka ikwazi ukuba kukho imiphumo emibi kunye nobomi bokuthunyelwa kwe-post.
Ngokubhekiselele kukunyuka kwengcinezelo yentsholongwane yokuvakalelwa kukuba isondo. Izibalo kubantwana kunye nesondo zibonisa ukuba malunga nesiqingatha sabafundi besikolo esiphakamileyo abazange balalane ngesondo. Lo awusona isigidimi esona nto intsha inayo, nangona kunjalo. Imvakalelo kukuba abaninzi abatsha banesondo kunye nokuba umntwana wakho akaqhelekanga ukuba akayi kuvula.
Ukuba "intetho" kunye nentsha yakho ingenakukhathazeka, kodwa kubalulekile ukugcina imigca yonxibelelwano evulekile nomntwana wakho malunga nesihloko sesini. Xa uthetha ngesondo nangendlela yokuziphatha ngokwesondo, cinga ukukhupha isihloko sesithumela nge-imeyile. Umntwana wakho akavisanga ukuba azive okanye aziphathe ngokwakhe njengento yesini, nangona uxinzelelo. Thetha malunga nendlela ukuthunyelwa kwe-imeyli kunokuthintela njani ukuziphatha ngokwesondo. Ukuba le ngxoxo inokunceda umntwana wakho ukuba abone ukuba ukuthumelelana nge-imeyile akuyona nto inobungozi, kwaye kuya kuba nemiphumo emva koko.
Iingozi zombhalo zingabonakala okanye zingabonakali. Ukuba ubona ingxaki, khawukhawuleze ngokukhawuleza. Ukuthumela imiyalezo, njengokuqhuba, kuyilungelo kwaye abazali banelungelo lokukhusela intsha yabo nayiphi na ingozi abajamelana nayo. Abazali banokwenza imigaqo-mithetho eqhelekileyo yokuphepha ezi zinto kunye nezinye izingozi zokuthumela imiyalezo. Ingane yakho iya kubhikisha kodwa, njengemithetho emininzi, iyenzela yona.
Imithombo:
Idatha emitsha evela kwi-VTTI inikeza i-Insight kwiSelfowuni Ukusebenzisa nokuphazamiseka kokuqhuba. I-Virginia Tech Transportation Institute. Kufumaneka: Septemba 13, 2009. http://www.vtti.vt.edu/PDF/7-22-09-VTTI-Press_Release_Cell_phones_and_Driver_Distraction.pdf
Vuka Uze Ulale Abanye. Ulawulo lwezoKhuseleko lweSiThutho kaZwelonke. Kufumaneka: Septemba 13, 2009. http://www.nhtsa.gov/people/injury/drowsy_driving1/human/drows_driving/