11 Iidlanzi ezilungileyo ezilondolozayo (kwaye zifundise) Umntwana wakho

Ngokulungileyo, ndiyathanda ukuba abantwana kunye nabazali!

Njengabazali, sinokuthanda ukugcina ibhokisi lebhokisi lethu lokudlala kunye neentsontshi ezilungileyo, akunjalo? Kwaye ndicinga ukuba sonke sinengcamango yento eyenza ithoyizi elungileyo, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha abantwana bethu baphela kunye, ngokufanelekileyo, amathoyizi amnandi, umz

Ngoko, ndikhethile iithayi kuloluhlu ngenxa yokuba bayamnandi, bebandakanyeka kunye nemfundo-ngaloo ndlela. Ngaphezu koko, abayidingi inkathalo yabantu abadala, ubuncinane emva kokumiselwa kokuqala kunye nemiyalelo. Kwaye nantoni nawuphi na umzali onokuyibona ... kodwa umzali osebenzayo ekhaya uyafuna.

Xa ugqithisa olu luhlu ugcine engqondweni ukuba ezinye iizatho ezingabonakali kakuhle kubantwana ekupheleni komncinci wendawo yokucetyiswa kwexesha labakhonkco zikaninzi, ngokwenene, zinkulu kwiintsana ezindala. Cofa kwiikhonkco ukuze ubone ezinye iingcamango ezithile kwixesha elide ngalinye kulezi zixhobo.

Iidlanzi zokuKwakha

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Ukwakha amathoyizi ugqugquzela ukucinga. Umntwana unokwenza umdlalo ongeyiso lakhe engqondweni kwaye udlala naye. Ukwakhiwa kwamathoyizi kulunge ngakumbi kuba iphela iminyaka. Iintsana zinokubeka iibhloko, ngelixa abantwana abaselula banokuthi badlale kunye neLlegos (nangona bengenako ukuvakalisa oko kubahlobo babo).

Dlulisa amehlo kwiiYayinithi zokuKwakha

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Iseshya zoTitshala

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Ukuqeqesha iisethi kufana nezakhiwo zokudlala ezakhayo uze udlala, kodwa zinevili. Into ethile malunga nevili ayinakunyaniseki ngokupheleleyo kubantwana. Izitimela zam ozithandayo yiTomasta Injini yeTanki isebenza kuba izitishi zinabuntu. Ngoko bafana namodoli ... ngevili.

Dlulisa amehlo kwiSeshya zoTywala

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Imidlalo

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Imidlalo ibona amathoyizi amnandi ukugcina abantwana bahlala ixesha elide, ubuncinci xa abantwana bekwazi ukudlala ukudlala kunye nemidlalo emihle. Mhlawumbi umama kufuneka abe nxaxheba kakhulu ukuba athole nayiphi na imisebenzi eyenziwe. Iimidlalo ezininzi zidinga ngaphezu komdlali omnye; Noko ke, kukho imidlalo kumnye. Dlala imidlalo kunye nezingane xa ungasebenzi ngenxa yokuba bayazi ukuba badlale njani - kwaye benze ngexesha lomdlalo.

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Brainteasers kunye nePuzzle

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Iibhola ze-Brainteaser kunye ne-puzzles zigcina iingcinga zezandla kunye nezandla zengxowankulu. Ngexa abantwana abaninzi beengxaki zokudlala amathoyizi abantwana kufuneka babe malunga ne-8 ubudala okanye ukwenzela ukuba baphumelele kwaye baxhasane, abantwana abancinci bangazama ukubhala iincwadi zamaphepha, ezinokuthi zijoliswe kuyo nayiphi na ubudala ukusuka kwiintsana ukuya kwintsholongwane. Ndithanda iipuzzle eziyi-100 ze-jigsaw puzzles kuba zingathathi ixesha elide ukugqiba (ngaloo ndlela ungagcini itafile yakho yekhitshi ngeveki), kodwa ingaba ngumngeni.

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Izindlu zeDola

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Izindlu zedololi zifike ixesha elide ekubeni sasingabantwana. Ewe, kusekhona idoli ekhohlakeleyo yama-Victori kunye nenkqubo yokupenda eyinkcazo, kodwa amantombazana namakhwenkwe namhlanje banokuyonwabela indlu yodololi "ebomvu" okanye mhlawumbi i-ski chalet. Naluphi na uhlobo lwama-doll indlu abantwana abakhethayo, uhlobo olufanayo lokudlala umdlalo oluyingqungquthela luya ngaphakathi kweendonga ezincinane, njengoko kwenzayo xa sasingabantwana.

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Imidlalo yokuDala iFashion kunye neeDysk

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Mhlawumbi kungekhona wonke umntu oza kubeka iifayili ezinxulumene nemfashini njengemathoyizi enhle. Kwaye andifuni ukuqinisa imisebenzi yezesini kuba ndiyazi kumava amaninzi amantombazana aya kudlala ngeetoni kunye nezakhiwo zokudlala. Kodwa ubhekane nayo, kukho intombazana eninzi engayi kuyenza. Iqhinga lokudlala ixesha elide lifumanisa oko kukhuthaza umntwana. Kwaye amaninzi amantombazana (kunye mhlawumbi namanye amakhwenkwe) aphefumlelwe yimfashini.

Izambatho zokugqoka

Ibhokisi yeengubo ezigcobile kakuhle ngumhlobo omhle kakhulu womama. Kwaye akudingeki ukuba uthenge konke ngokukhawuleza. Izingane ziyakwazi ukuhlala ziba neengcamango ezifanelekileyo kunye nezinye izesekeli. Izambatho ze-Old Halloween okanye izinto ezithatha ukuthengisa igalaji zenza ifowuni enkulu yokugqoka iimpahla.

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Iimidlalo zokudlala

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Ukuphula umculo - okanye ukudlala - kunokugcina abantwana bexakekile xa usebenza. Kodwa ukuba uzigcine ungakhathazeki okanye uphazamisekile (kunye neendlebe zakho ekuqhekekeni), uya kufuneka ukubonelela izixhobo ezifanelekileyo, ezinokuquka i-earphones, izifundo okanye amathoyizi omculo. Unako ukunika umntwana omncinane i-xylophone, kodwa ungalindelanga umculo, kunene? Izifundo zomculo ziza kubonelela abantwana abasisiseko abafuna ukuzincoma ngokwenene umculo. Kodwa ngelixa befunda okanye ukuba izifundo zomculo zingaphezulu kunokuba ufuna ukutshala imali, khuthaza ukuba basebenzise amathoyizi omculo njengemidlalo yokudlala.

Iimidlalo zeMculo kuzo zonke iAgu

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Iincwadi

Nangona kungengamathoyizi, iincwadi zilungile kubantwana. Bagcina abantwana bebandakanyekile kwaye banokunikela ngeengcamango zomnye umdlalo ocingayo njengokugqoka okanye izakhiwo zokudlala. Kwaye, ngokungafani neTV, ivuselela ingqondo kunye nayo yonke into yokucwangcisa nokusebenza. Ewe, abanye abantwana abayithandi ukufunda okanye abangazi ukuba njani. Kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba iincwadi azikwazi ukuba yingxenye yesifuba somntwana.

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Iimpahla kunye neKhithi

Ubugcisa yindlela enhle yokugcina abantwana bexakeke. Kodwa ubugcisa bunokuba buhlungu, kwaye ubugcisa bunokuthatha i-supervision yabantu abadala. Ngoko, khetha iprojekthi yakho yobugcisa ngokucophelela, kwaye wenze indawo yobugcisa ekhaya lakho. Ubugcisa kunye neengcweti zengcweti zixhaphake ukuba zinezinto zonke ozifunayo ezihlanganisiweyo kunye nezikhokelo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ufuna abantwana bakho basebenze ngokuzimeleyo kwi-kit yobugcisa, qi ni sekise ukuba bawela kumgca ophezulu woluhlu lwamaxesha okuphakanyiswa ngumenzi.