Yiyiphi i-Self-Concept ibhekisela kwiTweens

Isibonakaliso esibalulekileyo sendawo yakho

Iingcamango zokuzimela zibhekisela kwindlela umntu acinga ngayo ngamakhono abo kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo zobomi, kubandakanya izifundo , iimbaleko kunye nentlalo yoluntu .

I-Self-Concept ngokuzimela

Xa kuthelekiswa nokuqala kwangaphambili ebuntwaneni, i-tween ine-self-view. Ngenxa yokunyuka kwamava kunye nokuphucula izakhono zokuqonda, iinjongo eziqhubekayo zikhula njengoko abantwana behamba esikolweni esiphakeme.

Iingcamango zokuzimela zihlobene nokuzithemba , kodwa imiqathango ayifani ngokufanayo. Ingcamango yomntu ngokwakhe ithinta ukuzithemba. Ngamanye amagama, iinjongo zobuqu zibhekiselele ekuqondeni ngokubanzi kobuqu kunokuzimela. Ukongezelela, ukuzithembela kusekelwe ekuhloleni kwamakhono akho, ngelixa umqondo wokuzimela awuyikugweba ngokwemvelo.

I-Self-Concept kunye ne-Self Self

Njengoko i-13 ikhula ikhula, iyakwazi ngakumbi into ebenza bahluke. Umbono wabo ngokuzikhethela kwabo ngokwahlukileyo kuquka ukuziphatha kwabo kunye neempawu zabo zikhula. Esi sibhloko sakhiwo esibalulekileyo sengqondo. Ngaphandle kokuzihlukanisa ngokwahlukileyo kunye nabanye, i-tween ayikwazi ukubona into ekhethekileyo evela kubo ngokwabo. Ngethuba nje iintsana ezimbalwa ezindala ziqala ukuziqonda njengabantu ngabanye, kodwa ziqala ukumba ubunzulu kwaye zibone kwaye zifana njani nehlabathi.

I-Self-Concept ne-Categorical Self

Njengoko i-13 ihlakulela kwaye ibona ukuba ikhona, ikulungele ukuhlula kunye nokuzifanisa nabanye. Izikhundla ezifana nobudala, ubulili kunye nobukhulu yimiba yokuqala yabantwana njengabantwana abancinci. 4. Kwixesha elivisayo, nangona kunjalo, ukuzibonakalisa ngokwezigaba kubonakala ngokweenkcazo zeempawu zengqondo ezifana neendlela zokuziphatha, ingcamango kunye nemvakalelo.

I-Tweens isebenzisa ezi zinto ukuziqhathanisa nabanye. Kukho iindidi ezidumileyo ezidlulileyo ezikholelwa ekubeni zingazihlukanisi ngokwahlukileyo kwezesini. UMiley Cyrus kunye noKee Palmer baye bathetha ukuba babe ne-pansexual, oku kuthetha ukuba abahluli ngokwabelana ngesondo. I-middle yakho ingaqhelana nalo mxholo, kodwa ingcamango yabo ayifanele ibe nefuthe elibi nangona abafuni ukubhekisele iinkalo ezithile.

Umfanekiso, Ukuzimelela, kunye nokuzimela

Ukushwankqiswa kwezinto ezikhoyo kunye nezigaba zokuguqulwa kwamabandla ukuze wenze u-self-worth and self-esteem. Ukuba i-kati yakho inombono omuhle ngamakhono abo kunye nawo ngokwawo, inqanaba eliphezulu lokuzixabisa. Iimvakalelo ezingekho phantsi kwezinto abanye bacinga ngazo, ukungathembeki, okanye ukunqwenela ukuba njengomnye umntu zonke iimpawu zokungazinzi. Xoxa phakathi kwakho malunga nokubaluleka kokwamkela njengabo, ngelixa bezama ukuba boqobo. Bancedise ukusekela iinjongo zokuphucula izinto abazicingayo kufuneka zitshintshe ukuze bakwazi ukuzithemba ukuzithemba ngakumbi kwaye baqinise iimeko ezilungileyo zabo.

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_{UManning, uMaureen A. Ukuzimela, kunye nokuzimelela kwi-Adolescents. IiNkonzo zabafundi. Fe bruwari 2007.}