Ukukhetha ngokugqibeleleyo ukufunda okanye isipho kumntwana ebomini bakho
Sonke siyazi ukuba ukufunda kubantwana bethu kubalulekile ekuphuhliseni kwabo bonke (ngaphandle kokukhankanya umbandela wokubambisana), kodwa ukufumana incwadi enyanisekileyo yabantwana ingaba ngumyalelo omude. Nangona kubalulekile ukufumana iincwadi zezingane eziza kubamba ingcinga yengane yakho kwaye zibancede bafunde into yonke ngexesha elifanayo, abaninzi abazali bayazi ukuba imfihlo kubantwana abakhulu ngokwenene bafumana into endiyithandayo, ngokunjalo, ekubeni incwadi endiyithandayo iya mazifundwe ixesha kunye naso.
Phakathi kweencwadi zebhodi kunye neencwadi zeengcamango, abo baneentsimbi kunye neentsimbi kunye nezinye iintsimbi kunye neengcingo, kukho izinkulungwane zeencwadi zokukhetha abantwana. Ngenhlanhla, ukhetho olu luhlu luye lwahlolwa ngabazali abangaqinisekanga ukuba bafunde amaxesha amaninzi. Ingaba ufuna into ethile yintsana okanye encinci, into enokumnandi kwaye ibe nemibala okanye into ebalulekileyo kunye neyoyikisayo, enye yalezi zikhetho iya kuqinisekiswa ukuba uya kukukholisa.
UMargaret Wise Brown's Goodnight Inyanga sele ijikeleze iminyaka, kodwa isabonakala kwiintlobo ezithengisa kakhulu, kwaye ngenxa yezizathu ezifanelekileyo. Abantwana bathanda ukuva konke malunga negumbi elikhulu eliluhlaza kunye nazo zonke izinto eziqulethweyo, kwaye bathanda ukuthetha ubusuku obubodwa kwinto nganye, enye ngenye, kunye ne-bunny encinci ehlala egumbini. Okwangoku, abazali bafumanisa ukuba ukufunda le ncwadi ngokuphindaphindiweyo-nangomculo weengoma-akunjalo. Khetha ikopi ngokukhawuleza ukuba uqale ukuthetha ubusuku obubodwa kuyo yonke into kwiqela lakho kunye neyakho.
Njengokulandela isihlwele esikuthandayo i- Little Blue Truck , abancinci bathanda ukulandela iinjongo ze-Little Blue njengoko ehamba ngendlela yakhe kwisixeko esikhulu. Iimventa zifunyenwe njengoko iilori zonke ezithandayo zihlangana nemoto yamapolisa, iiteksi, ii-vans kunye ne-limousines-kwaye ifunda izifundo ezinkulu kunye ezibalulekileyo endleleni.
Yintoni enhle ngale ncwadi, kwakhona, kukuba enye yechungechunge, ngoko ke ukuba umntwana wakho unamathela ngokwenene kulo mnye, kunokwenzeka ukuba uya kuthanda ezinye iinguqulelo, ngokunjalo, oko kuthetha ukuba ' Kuya kuba lula ukuba wenze utshintsho phakathi kweencwadi ukugcina izinto zintsha.
Iintsana ziyakuthanda isigqi, isicatshulwa somxholo oza kufumana kule ncwadi enhle ye-Mem Fox, kwaye abazali bayaqiniseka ukuba bayayithanda umyalezo obanzi olwabalalisa ngobuhle babo bonke abantwana, kungakhathaliseki ukuba luhlanga lwabo, ngesini, okanye apho bazalwa khona . Kuzo zonke iincwadi zakhe, i-Mem Fox iyinkosi yokupenda umfanekiso ocacileyo wendlela sonke sihluke ngayo kwaye yinto eyenza sibe yinto enhle. Imifanekiso elula ye-watercolor kulula ukuba iintsana zilandele kunye, kwaye, njengebhonasi, umntwana wakho uya kuthanda ukujonga imifanekiso yezinye iintsana, ngokunjalo.
Abazali abakhuluma isiSpanish bayakuthanda incwadi enomdla-eguqulela "izinto uThigogo athi" -inokuthi u-ugogo ufundisa imilinganiselo kubazukulwana bakhe kunye nabahlobo babo ngokusebenzisa amagama aseSpeyin. Kubhalwe ngelizwi lenkwenkwe encinci elithetha rhoqo ngemini yakhe-efafazwe ngayo ngcebiso evela ku-Ugogo ngokuziphatha-le ncwadi iya kubangela umdla kubantu abadala kunye nezingane. Abafundi bathi le ncwadi ibaluleke kakhulu kwaye iyakuthandeka kwaye imemeza ngokucacileyo imizekeliso kunye nemibala ekhanyayo njengokuba ibhenela kubantwana.
Akuyimfuneko ukuba ube nezingane iminyaka kunye neminyaka ukuqonda ubuhlobo phakathi komzali nomntwana. Ndikuthande Kususela Ngunaphakade , eyapapashwa ngo-Matshi ka-2018, yabhalwa nguHoda Kotb ukususela namhlanje ukubonisa incwadi enothando phakathi kwabazali nezingane zabo.
Ukuphefumlelwa kukaKotb kule ncwadi kwakwamukelwa yintombazana yakhe, uHaley Joy, kunye nothando olukhoyo yonke indawo phakathi kwabazali kunye nabantwana babo. Isicatshulwa somculo (singathethi isigidimi esifanelekileyo) siya kugcina abantu abadala banomdla xa befunda incwadana ngokuphindaphindiweyo, kwaye iifoto ezimnandi ziza kugcina abantwana babuyele ngokunye.
Ukuba uzama ukufundisa umntwana wakho malunga nokubaluleka kokungayeki, le ncwadi yimi. Landela uhambo lukaGerald xa ezama ukuphindaphinda ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuze afunde indlela yokudansa. Ngomyalezo ochaphazelayo ngokunyamezela-kunye nokuhamba ngokubetha kwabadlali bethu-uGerald ekugqibeleni uyaphumelela ekufundeni indlela yokudansa, kodwa emva kokufumana iingcebiso ezikhuthazayo kumhlobo ongenakwenzeka.
Iigirafi azikwazi ukuDanisa ngokuqinisekileyo isixhamla-sihlwele, kunye nama-3,000 ukuphononongwa, okwenza i-Amazon ibhetele kakhulu. Abazali bayancoma le ncwadi ngokufundisa ukuzithemba nokuzithemba, nomzali omnye ekubhengeni ukuba kuthenga kakhulu abantwana abaneemfuno ezizodwa.
Wonke umzali ubona ubunako obungapheliyo kumntwana wakhe, kwaye uEmily Winfield Martin usebenzisa isingqisho sesiganeko kwibali lakhe ukubonisa zonke izinto zothando abazali abacinga ngazo xa bejonga abantwana babo. Kwakhuthaza ukuba abantwana babe nomusa kwaye banakekele kwaye bancede abanye xa kuyimfuneko, esi sifundo sobomi sonke esifanele sikhunjuzwe ngaso.
Ezinye izinto ezimangalisayo eziza kuba yiyiphi enye i-Amazon bestseller. Abafundi babibiza ngokuba mnandi kwaye kulula, kubhalwe kakuhle kwaye kuboniswe. Abaninzi abahlaziyi bayiqaphela lesi sipho esikhulu kubantwana bemvula, imihla yokuzalwa, kunye naziphi na ezinye iimeko ezizodwa.
Ukuzithemba yigama lomdlalo kunye nale ncwadi yokuzonwabisa yabantwana. Ngemizekeliso yayo enesibindi kunye nemibala kunye nokuzonwabisa kunye neengqungquthela ezinqabileyo, Ndiyithanda Ngomntu ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba uhlalutye rhoqo kwintlu yakho yokufunda. Abazali abayi kucinga ukufunda ibali ngokuphindaphindiweyo kubantwana babo, nokuba, njengoko bedlula umyalezo wokuthi abantwana babo baphelele ngendlela abayiyo-kungakhathaliseki ukuba zabo iinwele eziphazamisayo, ukuphefumula kwe-beaver, okanye ukuba zihamba ngokukhawuleza, okanye nokuba bahamba.
Nangona iincwadi ezinomyalezo oqaqambileyo, ngamanye amaxesha wena nomntwana wakho nifuna ukufunda into engenangqiqo ukuze uhlehle ukuhleka. I-New York Times eyithengisa kakhulu, Dragons Uthando lweTacos lufundwa kakhulu kubantwana kunye nabazali njengoko lixoxa malunga nokuba iidonons ziyakuthanda kangakanani i-tacos, kodwa xa zidla into ecocekileyo bhetele uqaphele!
Le ncwadi inamagama amaninzi ngoko ezinye zikhethwa kwiluhlu lwethu, ngoko oku kuyafaneleka ukulungiselela abafundi basekuhlaleni kunye nokuphakanyiswa, kunye nokuba akungena kwincwadi yebhodi yebhodi xa umntwana wakho enokubhukuda amaphepha. Ababuyekezi bakubonisa oku kwenza abantwana babo bahlekise ngelizwi ngelixa abanye bathi akukho myalezo olungileyo apha-ngoko ukuba ufuna inkcazelo enzulu unokufuna ukhethe olunye ukhetho oluvela kwiluhlu lwethu.