Xa abantwana bebancinane, kwakulula ukulungiselela ukuphuma kwintsapho kwi-zoo okanye epakini yokuzonwabisa. Iqhinga eliphambili lokungawavumeli ukuba bazi ngaphambili kakhulu, hleze bahlaselwe, kwaye kwithuba eliphumayo ukuphuma ngaphandle kwenzalo (oh, i-dawns!). Njengoko abantwana behlenga abantu abadala, kunjalo, kuba nzima nakakhulu ukucwangcisa kunye nokufumana iifanelekileyo zokuzonwabisa njengenxalenye yentsapho.
Ngento enye, abantwana abadala bahlala bebonakala beceba. Ukufumana kunye nokulungelelanisa ixesha elikhethiweyo kunye nabo kungabakho umsebenzi. Kwelinye into, kukho i-gap yobudala-kunokuba nzima ukufumana imisebenzi yokuba abazali kunye nabantwana abadala bayakuzonwabisa kunye. Ekugqibeleni, nangona ufumana izinto onokuyonwabela kunye kunye, izinto zihlala zihamba ngexabiso. Akuyonto epholileyo xa uphonsa ipennies ukuba uwafake kwiikholeji.
Nangona ubunzima, abaninzi abazali banqwenela ukuchitha ixesha kunye nabantwana babo abadala kwaye bazimisele ukudala ukwenza ukuba kwenzeke oko. Ngelo xesha, abantwana abadala bangakufumana umnqweno wokuchitha ixesha kunye nabo. Xa ulungele ukuwukhupha, kunjalo, ukuvumelanisa kukuhle kubo bonke. Yingakho akufanele uvumele izizathu zabo zingakuvimbela ukuba kwenzeke ukuba kwenzeke. Ukwenza ixesha lokuba kunye nalabo abathandayo kuhlala kuxabisa umzamo ongezelelweyo.
Nazi iindlela ezili-10 zokuchitha ixesha kunye njengomzali kunye (umntwana omdala).
Khangela Iingxubusho Zamahala
Khangela amakhonsathi zamahhala epakini kwidolophu yakho. Yonke idolophu ineziganeko zamahhala. Kwaye xa bebanjwe epakini, i-atmospheric inomngane kakhulu. Kukho olu luhlobo olukhulu phakathi kwamalungu athile kubaphulaphuli ngenxa yokuba konke kuphelile.
Iqhinga lifumana ikhonsathi kunye nabantwana abadala bomculo kunye nabazali banandipha. I-Jazz okanye i-classic rock ingabamanyaniswa obugqibeleleyo ekunciphiseni igebe lomculo.
Thatha iQela kunye
Ngaba uhlale ufuna ukuthatha iklasi ye yoga? Okanye ufunde ukuphosa imbiza? Iikholeji ezininzi kunye namaziko asekuhlaleni anika iikhosi zasehlobo ezipakisha ukufunda ezininzi kwixesha elifutshane elifutshane. Iikhosi ezinjalo, ngelixa zingabizi-mali, ngokuqinisekileyo zijongene nokungcono kunokuba zibalekele kwindawo ekude kwaye zihlawulele amagumbi ehotele kunye nezidlo. Ngaphezu koko, nonke unenjongo yokufezekisa kwaye uyifumana kunye. Enkulu kwintsapho edibeneyo.
Hamba nge-Stargazing
Kukhona into nje malunga nantoni na oyenzayo ngobusuku phantsi kwezulu elivakalayo ehlanjwe ngeenkwenkwezi ezimhlophe kunye neenkwenkwezi ezimhlophe. Awudingi naliphi na izixhobo ezizodwa. Unokwenza i-stargaze ukusuka kwindawo yakho yokugcina / iplanethiyamu okanye usasaze ingubo kwaye wolule uphethile kumqolo wakho kwindawo epakiweyo ebumnyama. Fumana ingqiqo yobukhulu bendalo yonke. Zalisa ngeentlonelo ngeempawu ezibonakalayo ezisesibhakabhakeni ozibonayo. Akunjalo wena kunye nabantwana bakho abakhulileyo abayi ku libala eli lizwe elingenamsebenzi, elingenakufaniswa.
Hamba kwiNdwendwe yokuHlola yokuHlola
Ukujongana nayo, wawuhlala ufuna ukuhlolisisa isixeko sakho ngokubanzi.
Kodwa abantwana abancinci bathambekele ekufumaneni le nto. Ngesinye icala, abantwana banokukumba. I-Google "uhambo olukhokelayo" kunye negama lakho leedolophu kwaye unokumangaliswa kukufumana ubutyebi beenkcukacha ezifumanekayo ngokukhululekile. Ngokomzekelo, ukukhangela okungafunekiyo kukubonisa ukutyelela okutyekisayo ukutyelela i-Pittsburgh, iindwendwe zokuhamba nge-intanethi yaseChicago, kwaye ukhethe ukhenketho olukhokelayo okanye olukhokelayo kwi-Boston Freedom Trail.
IVolontiya kunye
Kukhona i-endorphins enokuvakalelwa ngakumbi kunokuzivolontiya kunokuba uke ufumane ukuvavanya! Ngaphandle koko, ngaba wakhawula ukuba ezinye zeengxoxo ezilungileyo kakhulu oye wazifumana kunye nabantwana bakho abadala ziyenzeka ngelixa upheka okanye ushicilela?
Enye into yokuba uxakeke ngezandla zakho yenza kube lula ukuthetha. Kutheni ungathathi usuku ukuvolontiya ndawonye kwikhitshi yesobho okanye kwindawo yokukhusela? Ngaphandle kokuba uxakeke ngezandla zakho, uya kukhonkxa ngaleli xesha elihlangeneyo lokunceda abanye.
Yiya kwiiNkqutyana zamaFama
Ukutyelela iimakethe zamafama, wenze into enomnandi. Hamba ungalindelanga. Thenga yonke into ekhangelekile kwaye enhle, uze ufunde oko uza kupheka kunye njengeqela. Iitampu ezintle zeepum kunye namaqabunga e-basil anamakha? Beka ibhokhwe enkulu ye-tomato sauce ekwazi ukuyenza. Njalo xa omnye usebenzisa ezinye zee-tomato sauce, kwaneenyanga kamva, ukuvumba kwamaxesha ehlobo kunye nokuthanda ukupheka kunye kuya kubuya kumanzi.
Yiba nobusuku bobusuku
Wonke umntu unamafilimu entliziyweni. Ungesabi ukufumana i-retro yangempela. Ngaba iimvumi zithandwa yintsapho xa abantwana bakho bekhula? Jonga ezintathu kubo emva. Yenza oku ngobusuku obushushu. Isitoreji kwi-snacks edibeneyo ye-movie efana ne-popcorn ene-buttered kunye nobisi. Fumana ngokupheleleyo. Hlalani nidansa malunga nekamelo lokuhlala. Uyakhumbula konke owakuthandayo kangako malunga nosapho. Uyakufumanisa ukuba kusekhona.
Umdlalo ebusuku
Ingaba i-Monopoly, chess, okanye imidlalo yemidlalo efana ne-Scrabble okanye i-Boggle, imidlalo iyindlela edibeneyo yokubambisana. Awukwazi ukugcina ubuntu bakho ekubeni ukhangele umdlalo wakho kunye nendlela ophumelelayo kwaye ulahlekelwe ngayo. Imfihlelo, isilumko, okanye isithethi? Imidlalo emihle? Yonke iya kuphuma. Beka umxube webridge, okanye mhlawumbi, ngoku ukuba zonke izikhukula, iwayini. Kukhona umgaqo owodwa: akukho namnye oshiya kusasa. Nina nonke nihlala kulo de kubekho umdlali ocacileyo. Iqhinga: Imiklomelo yobuqhetseba yintetho enhle.
Hamba ukuhamba
Ingumnqweno omdala, unomdla wekhaya lokuhlamba, kwaye awuyi kuphula i-bhanki. Kwakhona, uzakufumana kulula kwi-chillax kunye nabantwana bakho abakhulileyo kwindawo elula ye-bowling alley. Ukungathethi, zonke izixeko zinomnye.
Thatha uhambo lokuhamba
Ngoko akukho nanye inani ixesha, ukuthambekela, okanye imali yokuthatha umkhumbi kwiinqanawa. Kodwa oko akufanele kukuyeke ukuthatha uhambo lwemikhosi okanye ngokuhlwa. Unokuthatha uhambo lwangemva kwemini emva kokuhlwayela okanye ukuhlwayela. Kuyonwabile kwaye kuyahluka. Umntwana wakho omdala akayi kukwazi ukuthetha ngokungahambisani nombono wokuphuma emanzini, eqinisekisiwe.
Ngaba iivili ziyajika entloko yakho kwezinye zezi ngcamango? Ngaba ucinga ukuba, "Uya kuhamba loo nto," okanye, "Oko kuya kumnandi," njengoko ufunda kuloluhlu lwemisebenzi yokuzilibazisa onokuyenza nabantwana bakho abadala?
Ngoko cinga nje ngelokuqala kwakho. Emva koko qhubeka ukhethe enye. Ngamanye amaxesha xa wena kunye nomntwana wakho omdala unomsebenzi ophumelelayo okanye ukhenketho, wenza ukuba kube nzima ukuba uzame enye enye.