Indlela Yokujongana Nokulahlekelwa Ukudibanisa Nabazukulwana

Into onokuvakalelwa ngayo kunye noko unokuthi unokukwenza

Ukulahlekelwa kukudibanisa nabazukulwana bavame ukuphumela kwiimvakalelo. Ukuhlenga ngokuqinisekileyo oko uvakalelwa kwaye ukuphuhlisa isicwangciso sokujongana neemvakalelo zakho kunokubaluleka kwimpilo yakho, engqondweni nangokwenyama. Uya kuziva uhlungu xa nje ukuhlukana kuqhubeka, kodwa ezi zicwangciso zokujamelana nazo zinganciphisa umonakalo.

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Ukutshwenyeka nobushushu

Ukuba ukuhlukana kwabazukulwana bakho kwenzeka ngokukhawuleza, usenokuziva utyhafile. Ukuba kukho imbali yeengxabano, usenokutshatyalaliswa kukuba abazali bazimisele ukuthatha inyathelo elinjalo. Ukutshitshiswa kuya kulandelwa ngokusondeleyo ngumsindo.

Amanyathelo okuQala ukuthatha

• Qaphela ukuba utshaba lwakho luyingozi kakhulu, kuba kunokukwenza ukuba wenze into eyonakalisa ukuphulwa.
• Ngelo xesha, ulaka olungacatshulwa lunokuba ngumonakalo. Thetha ngeemvakalelo zakho kumhlobo, umcebisi okanye iqela lokuxhasa.
• Ayikwazi ukufumana iqela elifanelekileyo? Cinga ngokuqalisa iqela lakho lokuxhasa.
• Abafundisi kunye nabacebisi ngokomoya nabo banokuba ngabafihlakeleyo abafanelekileyo ukuba unokuthetha nabo malunga neentsapho.

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Ukudideka nokukhungatheka

Ngokuqhelekileyo ootatomkhulu bacinga ukuba baye banqatshelwa ukudibanisa nabazukulu babo ngokungenangqiqo, kungabikho nxaxho yabo. Baziva bedidekile kwaye bexhalabile. Ngokwenene, kukho iindlela ezimbini. Ingaba unetyala lephutha ekugwebeni, kwaye abazali baxhalabelekile, okanye isijeziso esinikezelwa ngabazali (ukwahlula ozala kunye nomzukulu) akanalo ulwalamano oluncinane "nolwaphulo-mthetho".

Hlela Ngayo Yonke

• Ukuvavanya ngokunyanisekileyo ukuziphatha okubangele ukuphulwa.
• Ukuba unetyala, xolisa, uxolise, uxolise. Isidima sakho asibalulekanga njengokubuyisela ubudlelwane kunye nomzukulwana wakho.
• Ukuba emva kokuvavanya ngokunyanisekileyo, usakholelwa ukuba awukho mpazamo, xolisa nanini kwaye nethemba elifanelekileyo.
• Unako kwakhona ukukwazi ukuphinda uqhagamshelane nabazukulwana.

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Ukungenakunceda nokungafihli

Ukuba uzame ukuphumeza ukuxabana nabazali bakho nabazukulu bakho, kwaye akukho nto iyenze, unokuziva uncedo kwaye ungenathemba.

Hambisa phambili Ubunzima

• Ungazivumeli ukuba ube nexhala, ezinokuyingozi nakwabunye ubudlelwane.
• Vumela ukuhamba kwengxaki. Qaphela ukuba akuphelelwanga. Yiguqulele kumandla aphezulu ukuba ukholelwa kwelinye.
• Khangela amandla akho kwimisebenzi emihle eya kwenza umehluko ebomini bomntu, nokuba ngaba ayayi kukwazi ukusombulula ingxaki yakho.
• Ungakwazi kwakhona ukuhlala iminyaka yakho kamva ngokugcwele.

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Umona nekhwele

Unokuziva umona nomona kwabanye ootatomkhulu, ngokukhethekileyo abahlobo, abanokukwazi ukuba nabazukulwana babo. Ukuba ngaba oogogo nabazali bakho boogogo bavumelekile ukuba bababone, le mivakalelo inokuthi ixhaphake.

Musa ukuKhupha kwabanye

• Qaphela ukuba impendulo yakho ayinangqiqo. Akufanele unqwenele ukubona abanye ootatomkhulu entlungu, ngenxa yokuba uhlupheke.
• Gcina ugxininiso kwizinto ezilungileyo kubazukulwana. Kwimeko yabazukulwana bakho, mhlawumbi kulunge xa ​​beqhagamshelana nabanye ootatomkhulu babo.
• Kwakhona kubalulekile ukufunda indlela yokuphepha ukhuphiswano lwabazali nabazali.

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Ukugwenxa nosizi

Ukuba ngaba ngumntwana wakho obandakanyeka kulo mkhuba owonakalisayo, unokuba uzive ungaphumeleli. Unokuzibuza ukuba umzali wakho wenzani. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuziva usizi, kodwa ngokungafani nentlungu echaphazelekayo nokufa, akukho kuvalwa.

Yamkela imeko

• Qaphela ukuba wakho umzali angenako ukuphosa. Kwimeko yeengxabano, abantwana abatshatileyo bavame ukuthanda abafazi babo ngabazali babo.
• Ukugcina iphephancwadi ngumsebenzi obalulekileyo kwabanye.
• Ungayeki ukuzama ukulungisa ubuhlobo obuphukileyo.
• Phanda amalungelo akho omthetho wokutyelela.
• Joyina imibutho ekhuthaza amalungelo omkhulukazi.
• Ungayeki ukuzama ukuhlala ekuthinteni. Thumela amakhadi kunye neencwadana kubazukulwana bakho. Gcina ithoni nayiphi na inxibelelwano yothando kodwa ilula.

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