Iingxabano Zentsapho Nezinye Iingxaki Oogogo Nabantwana Abajongene Nabo

Iingxaki ezitshatileyo, iIndululo zeZisombululo

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Ixesha Elijongene Neengxaki

Akukho mntu uthe ukuzala ozala kunye kuya kuba mnandi. Imingeni ekhethekileyo kufuneka idibane nabatatatomkhulu, ootatomkhulu kunye nootatomkhulu kunye nootatomkhulu okhulisa abazukulu. Yaye ezo zongeza kwintlaninge yeentlobo zeentlobo zegadi kunye nezona zinto zibuhlungu kakhulu ngezinye iziphumo ezibangelwa ukuhlukana.

Bophelela phezulu. Kuyinto encinane yokuhamba.

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Ukugula, Ukufa nokuqhawula kwiNtsapho

Zonke iintsapho zihamba ngamaxesha amanzima. Kungekudala emva koko zonke iintsapho ziya kuba nokugula okanye ukufa. Imindeni enezixhobo eziphathekayo zothando kunye nolunye ulwazi olunokwaziyo lunokuxoxa ngezi zihlandlo ezinzima kwaye ziphume, ukuba zingenamandla, ubuncinane ubunobulumko.

Ngokuphathelele kwimicimbi yezempilo, ubunzima bomtshato bubangelwa imbandezelo yokubandezeleka. Ukwahlukana kungaxakeka kakhulu, kungekhona kuphela kwiinqununu kodwa nakwabantwana nangona ootatomkhulu. Kwaye oogogo noogogo abanakho ukungavumelani nomtshato, nokuba kunjalo.

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Hlangana Ngexesha Elihle Nelibi

Kutheni sonke singakwazi ukuhamba? Ukuvumelana ngokusemndenini kunokuba nzima, kodwa ulwalamano ngalunye lweentsapho lunamandla. Xa uyazi ngokuphathelele ulwalamano oluthile, ulungele ukulungelelanisa ukuba uya kuthatha ukungaqondani.

Ukufunda ukubona izinto ukusuka kwinqanaba lamanye amalungu entsapho kubalulekile, kodwa izakhono ezinxibelelwano ezintle zibalulekile, nazo. Ootatomkhulu nabo mabaqaphele ukuba ubukhulu babo bentsapho abubaniki imvume yokuthatha izigqibo kwabanye.

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Xa Ubundlobongela Bentsapho Buba Ngumtshato Wentsapho

Imfihlelo yokuba abaninzi ootatomkhulu bayazifihla. Bahlukeneyo kwilungu lentsapho. Nangona ootatomkhulu bavakalelwa kukuba abaphosakeli, bahlala behlazeka. Kwaye akukho siqhelo ukulungisa.

Xa ootatomkhulu bahlala kunye nabantwana abadala, bahlala benqunyulwa kubazukulwana, nabo banokukhathazeka. Eentliziyweni zabo, baziva banelungelo lokubona abazukulu babo, kodwa umthetho awuvumelani ngaso sonke isikhathi.

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Xa ootatomkhulu bayabaNonophelo

Uninzi lootata-nkulu namhlanje banakekela abantwana babo abantwana. Ngamanye amaxesha banamabhinti, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha banika inkxaso ngononophelo abazali abasebenzayo. Kukho imiba yokuqwalasela ngaphambi kokuba uzibophezele ekubeni ngumboneleli wezononophelo zabantwana, kunye neengcebiso zokwenza ukuba loo mihla yokubhabha i-babysitting ihambe kakuhle.

Abanye ootatomkhulu bayababelana ngezindlu kunye nabantwana babo nabazukulwana. Ngokwenza njalo, bangasindisa imali. Ukongeza, amalungu omndeni anokusebenzisana ukubonelela ngononophelo lomntwana kunye nokunakekelwa ngumdala. Kodwa ngezizukulwana ezintathu okanye ngaphezulu ngaphantsi kwephahla elilodwa, i-squabble inokuthi ingenakugwema.

Abanye oogogo nomkhulu, ukunyamekela abazukulu akuyona i-gig yexesha. Izibalo zibonisa ukuba ootatomkhulu bayabakhulisa abazukulu kwinani elikhulayo. Imiba esemthethweni kunye noxinzelelo lwemali phezulu uluhlu lwemicimbi eshushu yolu qela, kodwa impilo yengqondo kunye neentlalo zentsapho kunye nozukulu kunye nabazukulu kufuneka baqwalaselwe.

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Olunye Ucelomngeni olukhethekileyo Oogogo nomkhulu

Ngeentsapho ezininzi ezahlukana ngamakhulu nangamawaka eekhilomitha, ukugcina ulwalamano olusondeleyo lwentsapho lunokuba yingxaki. Ndiyabulela ubuhle kwi-teknoloji, evumela ukuba oogogo nabazali abaninzi bahlale kude kufuphi nabazukulwana babo naphezu kweekhilomitha.

Uninzi nootatomkhulu nabo banomdla-ozala-ntombi-ntloko, ikakhulu ngenxa yokuba banomntwana omdala ongumzali osisisombululo. Nangona izizukulwana zabazukulwana zinxulumano oluhle kunye nootata-ntata-ntombi, inxaxheba ekuziphatheleni inzala ingaba yinto eyahlukileyo.