Oogogo nomkhulu bangaba ngabazali ngeendlela ezininzi. Abanye banceda nje kunye nabazukulu babo, bathatha uxanduva oluninzi ngaphezu kwexesha de kubekho olunye usuku bayaqonda ukuba bakhulisa ngempumelelo. Abanye bangatshintsha kubazali ngefowuni ngokukhawuleza - banokufumana ifowuni engalindelekanga, ngokuqhelekileyo kwiinkonzo zentlalo, baxelele ukuba abazukulwana babo bafuna indawo yokuhlala.
Kwiimeko zombini kunye nakuzo zonke iintlobo zabo, oogogo nomkhulu bangafuneka ukuba benze isimo sabo ukuze bakwazi ukunyamekela abazukulwana babo ngokufanelekileyo. Kwakhona kugcinwa ngendlela enye okanye enye.
Ukugcinwa komntu ogqwetha oomkhulu kuza ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, kwaye imimiselo yomthetho yale fomu iyakwazi ukuhluka kwilizwe ukuya kutsho. Kodwa oomkhulu ozala abazali banokuba nolunye lwalamano olusemthethweni kunye nabazukulu babo.
Ukugcinwa Kwemvelo Ngamandla Amagqwetha
Xa abazukulu behlala nootatomkhulu nootatomkhulu banomthwalo wokuphila kwabo kwimihla ngemihla, ootatomkhulu "ugcinwe ngokomzimba." Le meko ibonakala ikhona xa umzali okanye umgcini-sicelo ecela ukuba ugogo nomkhulu ukuba anakekele umntwana ngokukhawuleza. Oku kufuthi kwenziwa njengelungiselelo elingavumelekanga.
Ootatomkhulu kufuneka bafumane igunya lommeli, obizwa ngokuba yi-POA, abanike igunya lokusemthethweni lokujongana neemfuno zonyango kunye nezinye iimfuno, ngokukodwa kwimeko engxamisekileyo xa abazali abangenako ukufikelela.
Oku kunokuba lula njengoko umzali angayinisa ifomu engaziwayo kwaye ayithumele enkundleni. I-POA ihlala isebenza ukususela kumhla ochaziweyo ngaphakathi kwayo, okanye ade umntwana engaselula. Kukho nawuphi na umzekelo, umzali angenza ifayile ukuba inqume i-POA nanini na.
Amanye amazwe anamafomu okuvuma ezonyango kunye neefom zokuvuma zemfundo ezingenza unamandla okwenene wamagqwetha angadingekile.
Ukongezelela, ezinye iindawo zenza amalungiselelo okuba kungenzeka ukuba umzali angaphiwa kwaye avumela ootatomkhulu ukuba bafake iifayivithi kule nto ukuze bafumane i-POA okanye enye imvume.
Ootatomkhulu nootata njengabazali abahluphekileyo
Oogogo nootata banokufumana ithuba lokuba bakhonze abazali xa uhulumeni esusa abantwana kubazali babo. Ngelo xesha ngamalungiselelo enkxaso yothando. Unogogo uyabagcina, kodwa urhulumente ugcina oko kubizwa ngokuthi "ukugcinwa kwezomthetho" -nelungelo lokwenza izigqibo ezinkulu malunga nenhlalakahle yomntwana.
Ootatomkhulu banokunyamekela umntwana ngaphandle kokunyamekela okanye ukuncedwa nguRhulumente, kwaye ngezinye izihlandlo kuthiwa ngononophelo olusesikweni. Kwamanye amazwe, ootatomkhulu bangafuneka bahambe ngokuqeqeshwa kunye nesatifikethi esifanelekileyo ukuba babe ngabazali abangabantwana abasemthethweni. Oomkhulu-ntloko bahlawulwa umyalelo wokunyamekela njengokuba abanye abazali abangabantwana. Ukuba ngaba ngabazali abasemthethweni, ootatomkhulu nabo baxhomekeke ekutyelelweni nasekuhlolisweni kwabasebenzi beeNkonzo zoKhuseleko kwabantwana.
Ucwaningo luye lwabonisa ukuba abantwana banako ukukhula kwaye bakhuthaze ukufakwa kwamathuba okuba banokuhlala unaphakade xa abantwana bebekwe nezihlobo.
Umthetho wesigqeba odlulileyo ngo-2008 ufuna ukuba iinkonzo zentlalo zifumane indawo kwaye zazise izalamane zabantu abadala xa abantwana bethatyathwa kwi-state custody. Ebizwa ngokuba yiNtsebenziswano yokuXhasana noMthetho wokuThuthukiswa komThetho wokuThuthukisa, umthetho uhlose ukudibanisa abantwana abadinga ukunakekelwa kwabantwana kunye nabanakekeli abanomdla. Inika inkxaso ukuze kwenziwe ukuba ezo zikhuthazo zimelele. Isenzo sinikeza izikhuthazo kwizihlobo ukuba zithathe abantwana abazinzileyo.
Umthetho kunye noMthetho
Omkhulu ozala ofuna ukulawula okungakumbi umzukulu angaya enkundleni aze acele imvume yokugcinwa komthetho kunye nokugcinwa komzimba, kokubili kusekwa kwintlawulo yenkundla.
Nangona kukho umyalelo wenkundla, abazali banokufumana kwakhona imvume, kodwa kufuneka bacele inkundla. Kwiimeko ezininzi, abazali banamalungelo okutyelela nangona oogogo boomntwana banalo.
Ukuqinisekisa
Igama elithi "umgcini" linomlinganiselo omkhulu kakhulu kunentsingiselo yazo zonke iifom zokugcina abazali. Ukuqinisekiswa lixesha elisetyenziselwa ukugcinwa kwezomthetho kwamanye amazwe, ngelixa abagadi bamanye amazwe banamalungelo angezelelweyo, kuquka ilungelo lokubiza omnye umntu ukuba anakekele umzukulu xa umkhulu ugogo engakwazi ukwenza loo misebenzi. Ngokuqhelekileyo, umzali ugcina amalungelo okutyelela xa umntwana ephantsi kolawulo.
Ukwamukelwa
Ukwamukelwa yilungiselelo elisisigxina esingenziwa phakathi komzali ozala kunye nomzukulu wakhe. Ukwamukelwa kusisigxina kwaye kuphelisa amalungelo omzali. Iphelisa nayiphi na intlawulo yokunyamekela abantwana abangayifumanayo, kodwa ootatomkhulu owamkela umzukulu unokufumana ilungelo lokuxhaswa kwemali kunye neentlawulo zerhafu yokumkela okanye zombini. Umzukulu unokuhlala ekulungele ukunakekelwa kwezonyango kwilizwe nangemva kokumkelwa.
Ulwazi oluthe ngqo malunga nokugcinwa kwabantwana boogogo lufumaneka kwi-Grandfamilies State Law noMthombo weZibonelelo, ezixhaswe yinxalenye yi-American Bar Association.