Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kubalwa kodwa ungaphumelela!
Ukuhamba ukusuka kwiibini ezimbini ukuya kwiintlobo zintathu umsebenzi kunye neentsapho ezikhudlwana oza kufuna ukuhlala uziyolo kwaye unamandla. Izakhono zobumbano zibaluleke ngakumbi kunanini ngaphambili xa udibanisa ekukhuliseni umsebenzi wakho. Ukuba uzibuza indlela yokwenza umama osebenzayo kunye nabantwana abathathu abasebenza apha ziingcebiso ezimbalwa ongayilandela.
Yakha ulandele iSicwangciso soSuku kunye nobusuku
Ukufumana abantwana abathathu, kwaye ngokwakho, ngaphandle komnyango ekuseni kukulula xa ulandela isicwangciso.
Okokuqala, kufuneka uvuke phambi komntu wonke. Ungalokothi utyeshele amandla okuthulisa. Xa unabantwana abathathu uxolo noxolo kulukhuni ukuza.
Gcina isicwangciso sakho sokuphuma sasekuseni siyaqhubeka. Ukugcina ukuphazamiseka ubuncinci kugcine zonke iingxowa, izicathulo, iebhatyi, kunye nantoni enye into efunekayo emini ngemnyango. Kuphazamisa kwaye kuphazamisekile xa kufuneka ukhangele into ethile ngomzuzu wokugqibela. Ngobusuku obandulela, vela izitya zomntu wonke, iikomityi kunye nempahla. Bese ufuna uncedo, ukuba unayo. Ukuba abantwana bakho bangakwazi ukulungiselela ukutya kwasekuseni kwabo bacele ukuba bancede abantwana.
Ebusuku, landela ishedyuli efana nokukhupha, ukwenza umsebenzi wesikolo, imidlalo uze ufumane umoya omtsha. Zama ukukhonza isidlo ngexesha elifanayo ubusuku bonke (kunye nokulungiselela ukutya ukuze wenze ixesha lemihla lula). Emva koko qalisa ixesha lokulala. Yitshintshela abantwana ngokusebenzisa indlu yokuhlambela ukuze wonke umntu angabikho ekulweni nomlenze wezinyo. Bafunde incwadi kwaye ujabulele ixesha elifanelekileyo.
Okokugqibela, beka abantwana balala ngexesha elifanayo ubusuku bonke ukuze uqinisekiswe ixesha elilodwa kunye neqabane lakho.
Ixesha leShedyuli nomlingani wakho
Xa unobuncinane ukuya kwintathu ukuya kwembini kubalulekile ukubonisa uthando oluninzi kumlingane wakho, i-aka lakho iqabane. Kulula ukubanjwa ebomini bentsapho kunye nomsebenzi kwaye ufake umtshato wakho kwicala.
Yingakho kubalulekile ukumbamba ixesha elide. Sneak in kisses okukhawuleza kungakhathaliseki ukuba abantwana bakho baphume kangakanani. Cwangcisa ubusuku bobusuku ukuze ufumane i-oksijini endiyidingayo ukubuyisana kwakhona.
Kunzima ukuba nencoko nabantwana abathathu ngeenxa zonke. Iziphazamiso ziyacaphukisa xa uzama ukufumana indawo yakho. Unokuthi into engafanelekanga ngesihloko esibuhlungu kunye nomsindo wakho nomlingane okanye ubangele ukudideka okunokuthi kugwenywe.
Yintoni eyona nto ephambili? Ukuthetha nomlingane wakho okanye nokuba nezingane. Hlola indlela isihloko esibucayi ngayo kwaye ukuba sinokulinda. Ukuba awukwazi ukulinda, bamba iqabane lakho uze ubafake kwigumbi elitshiweyo kuyo. Cinga ngolu hlobo njengokuthatha ixesha ngexesha lomdlalo. Gxuma ekamelweni, jongana nelihlo, ufike kwinqanaba, kwaye ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuvuma ukuthetha malunga nesifundo ngexesha elizayo. Emva koko, vula umnyango uze ubuye kumdlalo.
Management Time Time
Kuya kuziva ngathi bonke abantwana abathathu baya kufuna ingqalelo yakho yonke ixesha . Ngokukodwa xa beqhekeka kwiindawo zokumisela ukuba bakuxelele ngemini yabo! Kodwa kunzima ukuphulaphula xa bonke bathetha ngexesha elinye!
Kule meko, sebenzisa ixesha elifanelekileyo lolawulo. Chaza ukuba awukwazi ukuva nabani na ngokuba uthetha. Emva koko khetha umntwana omnye ukuba uphulaphule kwaye ubanike ixesha elincinane lokwabela ibali labo.
Umzekelo, unokuthi, "ULuka, ngowokuqala oko ufuna ukuxelela ntoni?" Emva koko ugqibe loo ncoko ngento enjengaleyo, "Kwakunzima! Siyabonga ngokubelana!". Emva koko uthetha nomntwana wakho olandelayo, "Lucy, ufuna ntoni ukuba undixelele?"
Esi senzo siza kubonisa ubuchule bokuphatha ixesha elifanelekileyo. Esikhundleni sokuba ukhungatheke ngomsindo oya kubonisa ukuba ungathatha njani ulawulo kwaye uhloniphe ibali labantu bonke. Abantwana bakho abathathu baya kufunda ukuba bahlonele ukuba ngamnye wabo uthetha. Ngaphezulu bonke baya kufumana ingqalelo abayifunayo.
Sebenzisa i-Car yakho njengeziko loLawulo
Abantwana abathathu esikolweni, ezemidlalo, kunye neminye imisebenzi kuthetha ukuba uhlala emotweni rhoqo ngeendawo ezininzi.
Esikhundleni sokwesaba ixesha oza kuchitha ukuqhubela abantwana bakho ngeenxa zonke yenza kube yindawo yakho yokulawula. Okokuqala, funda umzila kwiPandora okanye i-Radio iTem Radio eya kukupompa emva komhla wokusebenza omde. Ukuba ungena kuma-podcasts uphulaphule ngelixa usenza i-carpool abantwana kwiidolophu.
Emva koko, gcina imoto yakho igxile. Yiba nenqwelo yemoto kuzo zonke izesekeli ukwenzela ukuba ungahambi ngaphandle kwefowuni okanye ithebhulethi yakho. Kwigumbi lakho leglavu, gcina ipeni kunye nephepha lephepha kunye, iteksi yokuqala yokuncedisa, kunye ne-sanitizer. Faka ifolda phakathi kwesitulo sakho kunye nekhonsole yakho yeendawo ukuze wenze iphepha kunye neerisi. Ukuba izihlalo zakho zeemoto zinezikhwama ezisezantsi zazo zigcine iiplastiki, iphepha lezindlu zangasese, amathenyile ephepha, ithawula lesandla, kunye neesula. Awukwazi ukuba luhlobo luni lwamathambo akho ayenayo!
Okokugqibela, gcina ingxowa enkulu okanye isitya seplastiki kwimoto. Ungayisebenzisa ukuphosa izinto ezingafunekiyo ezifunekayo ukungena endlwini okanye kwizixhobo zemidlalo. Akukho mntu uya kulahla ixesha ekhangela izinto xa zonke zihlala kwindawo enye.
Ukunyamekela Umntwana Wakho Omdala Kunabo Bonke
Omdala kunentsapho kufuneka "azi kakuhle" kwaye " uncede ngaphandle kwendlu ." Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha abazi kakuhle. Kungenxa yokuba beyena mdala kunokuba asitsho ukuba bayabulumko. Kwakhona, ngenxa yokuba banako ukwenza uhlamba kunye nezitya kuthetha ukuba ngumsebenzi wabo.
Khumbula ukubonisa wakho omdala uthando olukhulu. Mhlawumbi basebenza kanzima bejikeleze indlu bebanceda abanye baphumelele. Banike ukubanga okungakumbi kunye nokubonga kwaye nithi ngibongele rhoqo ngezinto ezizenzayo. Uphakamisa inkokheli. Bakhombise inkxaso abayifaneleyo ngokungayisebenzisi inzame, ixesha kunye namandla.
Kunzima ukucinga indlela yokuphatha ukuba ngumama osebenzayo nezingane ezintathu. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba bangaphi abantwana obakho apho kuya kuba nemingeni endleleni. Iminyaka embalwa yokuqala ingaba nzima, kodwa emva kokuba bonke esikolweni, kuba lula. Ukuba udala inkqubo enenkxaso enamandla kwaye uhlala uhlelekile njengoko unakho, unokwenza ukuba usebenze.