Ukubhinqa umntwana akuyona nje indlela, kuyacetyiswa ngongcali zonyango.
Xa ndicinga ngomntwana ogqokeyo, ndicinga ngemama ehamba phambili kwi-Instagram, ebonisa imifanekiso emihle yazo zonke iimbasa ezithathayo kunye nomntwana wazo opheleleyo.
Ukugqoka abantwana, kuya kubonakala, kusemthethweni "kwi".
Kodwa inyaniso kukuba, umntwana ombetheyo akayena nje umkhangeli - ngokwenene ucetyiswa yi-American Academy of Pediatrics. Ngubani owaziyo?
"Ukunxiba abantwana" kunconywa kungekhona njengempendulo yokukhala, kodwa ukukhusela ukukhala nokukhuthaza ukunxulumana kwabazali kunye nosana lokuphuhlisa umntwana, "HealthyChildren.org, iwebhusayithi yezemfundo ye-AAP.
Ngoko ukuba i-arhente yebhola lebhola yonyango yinto yonke yokubhinqa umntwana, mhlawumbi sonke simele sibe ebhodini kunye "nomoya," na? Nazi izicwangciso ezimbalwa zokuqwalasela xa ucinga ngokugqoka umntwana wakho:
1. Kukho iindlela ezininzi ezahlukeneyo zabantwana abathwali
Xa ndiqale ndikhangele kwizithuthi zabantwana, ndandiphazamiseka ngokupheleleyo. Kukho ezininzi iimveliso ezahlukeneyo kunye nenkampani kunye nezitayela zonke ezibiza ngokuba "yinto engcono" endingazange ndiyazi ukuba ingaqala kuphi. Ngoko ndenza izinto ezininzi umama ezenzileyo phambi kwam kwaye ndaphendukela kwiimidiya zentlalo ukuze ndibuze amanye amama aye asebenzele wona. I-brand yeBhoba yafika ngokukhawuleza, ngoko ke oko ndagcina ndihamba nayo ukuze ndiqalise.
2. Iimfesane zengane zinokunceda kwinqanaba elitsha
Ngoko into enye kufuneka uyenze: i- baby wraps kunye nabathwali babantwana zizinto ezimbini ezahlukeneyo. Ukugqithwa kwabantwana, njengombumba we-Moby, luncedo xa umntwana wakho usana olusana okanye uncinci kuba lukhuni kwaye luncedisa nje ukugcina umntwana enqabile ngokusemzimbeni wakho.
Nangona umntwana wakho ekhula, unokufuna inkxaso eninzi ngesisindo sakhe (kunye nomva wakho), apho apho abantwana abathwali beza khona.
Abanye abathwali banokuvumela ukuba ubambe iqabane lakho kubo, nangona kunjalo, ukuba ufuna ukutshala imali kumntu oyithathayo-nganye-nqanaba, khangela umphathiswa womntwana onokuzalwa okutsha.
3. Awukwazi ukuphazamisa umntwana ngokusebenzisa umntwana ogqoke
Ndibambe okanye ndigqoke iintsana zam ngokubanzi kwaye ndifumanise ngamagqabaza malunga nokuba "baphanga" njani abantwana bam ngenxa yokuba bayathanda ukubanjwa. Kodwa ucinga ntoni? Iintsana zifuna ukubanjwa! Kwaye i-American Academy ye-Pediatrics iphantsi kwam. Bathi akunakwenzeka ukuphazamisa intsana ngokubambelela kakhulu kwaye ekubanjeni, ukugqoka abantwana kunokunciphisa ukukhala, okuyiyo ingxaki engaphantsi komntu wonke .
4. Ukuthwala emva kungenwasa
Njengoko ndingumfana womntwana obhinqileyo, kukho amaxesha apho andifuni ukuba ndibe nomntu obanjwe esifubeni sam. Kusemngciphekweni, umzekelo, ukupheka isidlo sakusihlwa okanye ucoce i-anyanisi ukuba kukho umntwana esifuba sakho, kodwa ngezinye izihlandlo ukutya kufuneka kwenziwe kwaye umntwana uya kundenza ndibe phantsi.
Yikuphi apho ukuthwala umva kungena kwi-handy ngempela. Ngokuqinisekileyo sifumene isikhwama esikhulu sokuhamba esikhwameni sokuthengiswa kwabantwana kwindawo yokuthengisa igalaji kwaye sele iphelele kakhulu ekuthwaleni iintsana ezinkulu okanye ezingaphezulu kwindlu xa ndifuna ukucima ezinye izinto okanye ndiyenze nantoni na into engingafuni ukuba bayifakwe kwisifuba sam .
5. Ukugqoka abantwana akuyena wonke umntu
Ezinye iintsana kunye nabazali abathile baya kufumanisa ukuba umntwana-egqoke nje akasebenzi kubo kwaye oko kulungile.
Ndenentombi enye eyayiyizondayo kunye nomnye owayeyithandayo. Wonke umntwana uhlukile kwaye ngamnye umzali uhlukile.
Kwakhona, ukuba ungumzali we-preemie, uya kufuna ukujonga ngumboneleli wengane yakho ngaphambi kokuba enze nantoni na egqokeyo ukuqinisekisa ukuba ufumana uhlobo olufanelekileyo lokuthwala ubungakanani bomntwana wakho nophuhliso, njengoko abanye abathwali bengabonakali ezaneleyo izihlunu ze-preemie baby.
Imithombo:
Ukugqoka abantwana. (Meyi 2015). HealthyChilden.org, i-American Academy yePediatrics. Kufike ngo-Agasti 5, 2015: https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/baby/preemie/Pages/Baby-Wearing.aspx