Ngaba uvumela abantwana bakho babe nembono kwiinkampu zasehlotyeni?
Ukukhetha izicwangciso zehlobo zasebuntwini yisigqibo esikhulu. Ihlobo lixesha lokuzonwabisa kunye nokuzonwabisa! Kukho iinketho ezininzi kunye neenkqubo zenzelwe abantwana babo bonke ubudala, ngokuthanda okuhlukeneyo kunye nobuntu. Kukho iinkampu zemihla, iinkampu zokulala, iinkampu ezizodwa, inkampu yeemfuno ezizodwa, kunye neenkampu ezihluka kwixesha leseshoni kunye neendleko. Abazali mabaqwalasele izinto ezininzi xa besenza isigqibo, kodwa enye into eyenziwa ngamanye amaxesha yinto ekhethwa ngumntwana wakho.
Kutheni Kufuneka Abazali Bandakanye Abantwana?
Ukubandakanya abantwana kwisigqibo senkampu kuya kubanceda bazive bevuyiswa kakhulu ngeenjongo zabo zasehlotyeni. Izingane ziziva zixhumeke ngakumbi kwimisebenzi abayikhethayo . Ukunika umntwana isihlalo etafileni kubanika amandla okuzimela kunye nokuzimela kwaye kunokunciphisa nayiphi na inkxalabo malunga nokuya kwinkampu. Ukuze uqinisekise ukuba umntwana wakho unamava entle ekampini, abazali kufuneka bathethe nomntwana wabo ngokufuna kwabo, iiminqweno kunye nokwesaba.
Nazi ezinye izinto oza kuziqwalasela xa uquka nabantwana kwinkqubo yokwenza izigqibo:
Ubudala
Njengoko abantwana bekhulile, kubalulekile ukuwafaka kwinkqubo yokwenza izigqibo. Umntwana oneminyaka engama-4 unokuthi ufuna ukuya ekampini kunye neetampampini ezininzi kodwa umntu oneminyaka eyi-12 ubudala unokukuxelela ukuba uya kuba nosizi kwinkampu yezemidlalo. Ukuthumela umntwana omdala ekampini abafuni ukuya kuyo kubamisela (kunye nawe) uphumelele.
Beka eceleni iimvakalelo zakho kwaye uphulaphule kakuhle abantwana bakho. Ngokuphathelele abantwana abancinci, themba umthambo wakho kwaye wazi ubuntu babo.
Ubuntu
Kubalulekile ukwazi ubuntu bomntwana wakho. Ukuba umntwana wakho uthi bafuna ukuya kwenkampu yobugcisa yonke ihlobo, kodwa uyazi ukuba baxhamla ubugcisa emva kwexesha elifutshane, mhlawumbi babathumele kwinkampu yobugcisa kweeveki ezimbini uze ukhethe ezinye iinkqubo zehlobo lonke.
Kukho iinkampu ukufanisa yonke iminqweno yomntwana kunye nezinga lokukhula.
Ukuthanda / ukungathandi
Ukuba umntwana wakho uthe akuthandi ngokwenene umsebenzi, kwaye loo msebenzi uyinxalenye ebalulekileyo yenkampu imini, mhlawumbi loo nto ayiyena mkhethe. Inkampu yasehlobo ihlose ukuzonwabisa kwaye inentsingiselo ukuze uqiniseke ukuba uvumele umntwana wakho ahambe kwindawo ethile ukuba aphucule.
Bahlobo
Ukuba umntwana wakho ucela ukuya ekampini ukuba bonke abahlobo bakhe besikolo baya kuzo, ngaba uyayivumela? Esi sinqumo esinzima kwaye sincike kumntwana ngamnye. Kwiinkwenkwezi ezininzi, ukuya ekampini malunga nokwenza abahlobo abatsha nokuseka "abahlobo bekampu." Le ngcamango ibaluleke kakhulu ekuphumeni kwenkampu. Ngenkampu yemini, ukhetho olunokuthi lunqunyulwe kwaye bonke abantwana abasesikolweni banokuya kwinkampu yosuku ndawonye. Abanye abaneentloni okanye abantwana abangenamava banokuziva bekhululekile kunye nobuso obuqhelekileyo. Ukuba umntwana wakho unenkathazo esikolweni, ukufumana inkampu yokhethekileyo kunye nabo bonke abantwana abasenokuba yinto enokuzithemba kwabo.
Iindleko
Abantwana abanako ukuqonda okuncinci kwabazali babo ngemali, kwaye iinkampu zinokubiza kakhulu. Ihlobo lihloselwe ukuzaliswa ngamava amatsha kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba kufuneka uchithe itoni. Ingaba okanye uvumelekanga ukuba umntwana wakho azi malunga neendleko zekampu isigqibo somntu siqu.
Ukuba umntwana wakho ucela ukuba aye kwinkampu ephuma kubhajethi yakho, wandise uphando lwakho kwaye ubonise ezinye iindlela.
Abazali bangababandakanya njani abantwana babo kwiNkqubo yokwenza izigqibo?
I-American Camp Association, igunya eliphambili ekuphuhlisweni kwentsha kunye namava eenkampu, icebisa abazali ukuba bakhethe inkampu yesigqibo seentsapho. I-American Camp Association inezintlu zezibonelelo malunga nendlela yokukhetha ikampu enhle yentsapho yakho. Sebenzisa i-database ethi "Fumana inkampu" ukuze unciphise ukhetho lwakho. Kodwa khumbula ukuthetha nomntwana wakho kwaye ubenokubandakanyeka kwinkqubo yokwenza isigqibo ukuqinisekisa ihlobo elihle lonke intsapho.
Hlola okukhethwa kwenkampu kwaye uhlolisise izixhobo ezibonelelwe ngeenkampu ezinokwenzeka. Kwakhona, qinisekisa ukujonga iisayithi ze-intanethi ukuze umntwana wakho akwazi ukujonga iifoto, iimephu, okanye iindwendwe ezithe tye kwiinkampu zenkampu, samphula iishedyuli zemihla ngemihla kunye namanqaku, kunye nolwazi malunga nabalawuli kunye nabasebenzi.
Xa kukho iinkampu zokutyelela, kubalulekile ukuba abazali babe neluhlu lwemibuzo . Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba enze kwakhona uluhlu lwemibuzo aze acinge ngeyona nto ibaluleke kubo ukuzonwabisa kwabo ehlobo. Yiya kwiinkampu ze-intanethi kunye ne-kid yakho, kwaye ujonge imifanekiso, iishedyuli zemihla ngemihla kunye nemisebenzi ekhethekileyo. Iwebhsayithi yekampu iya kukunika into efanelekileyo yokuba yintoni inkampu efana nayo. Ishedyuli yenkampu yeekampu zokulala kwiinkampu okanye ukuya kwiintsuku zokuzonwabisa iintsapho iintsuku zemihla kunye neentsapho zakho zonke. Vumela umntwana wakho agijime aze abe namava eenkampu. Ukuhlala kwenkampu kukunceda abantwana bathathe isigqibo sokuba zeziphi iintlobo zezicwangciso abaza kuzinandipha kakhulu, nokuba ngaba ukuhlola izinto, ukwenza ubugcisa kunye nemidlalo, okanye ukudlala imidlalo.
UDave Stricker, umnini weCamp Wah-Nee, inkampu yokulala yokulala eTorrington, CT ithi:
Abantwana banako, kwaye kufanele ukuba, bathethe kwisigqibo. Andicingi ukuba iinkampu ezininzi zifuna umnqweno ongenakunqwenela ukuhamba, apho kwakungekho ubuncinci entliziyweni yabo ukuba le nto yayiyindawo yokuzonwabisa! Kwakhona, kufuneka bavumelane kwaye bakuxelele ukuba inkampu inomsebenzi onqwenela ukwenza (kungekhona into esithemba ukuba bayakufunda ukuyithanda!)) Kodwa eninzi abazali abafunda kakuhle abantwana bethu -kuyazi apho iinjongo zabo zinyani ziza kudibana, ngelixa bebakhokela ngenyameko ukuba bazame into entsha. Kanti, ngokuphindaphindiweyo, abantwana batyelela iikampu ezininzi kwaye babanjwe kwindawo ethile (mhlawumbi i-go-carts, okanye i-ice cream)? Sifanele sazi kakuhle, kwaye singalingani nje ngemisebenzi okanye izibonelelo, kodwa inkcubeko nentliziyo yenkampu. Abazali badinga ukugweba loo nto, kwaye bakhethe indawo efana neyona nto inethemba lokuba abantwana babo baya kukhula! Kwaye kukhetho, abazali kufuneka babe neyokugqibela yokuthetha.
Ngoko ngoxa ungeke ufune ukuba abantwana bakho bakhethe ikampu, ukubandakanya kwinkqubo yokwenza isigqibo kwenkampu akusayi kwenza ukuba amava abe mnandi kubo, kunokunciphisa uxhalaba lwakho kuba uyazi ukuba umntwana wakho uya kuvuya izaliswe ehlobo!