Ukusingatha ukuthobeka xa Ungeke Uwabethe Ubomi Bakho Amabini okanye aMaqela
Naphezu kwemizamo yabo engcono, uninzi oomama abaninzi ababanako ukuncelisa amawele abo , ama- triplets , okanye ngaphezulu. Imingcipheko abajongene nayo ininzi. Kwezinye iimeko, ukuphazamiseka kokukhulelwa okunzima kuthatha umthwalo onjalo kumzimba womama ukuba akakwazi ukuvelisa ubisi obaneleyo. Ngamanye amaxesha aphindaphindiweyo abazalelwa ngaphambi kokudala badinga unyango olwenza indawo engabongiyo yokuncelisa.
Kwaye kaninzi, iimfuno zokunyamekela iintsana ezimbini okanye ngaphezulu zivelisa uxinzelelo oluninzi. Ngomlomo omibini ukondla, kuyenza ingqiqo ukufumana enye into.
Uxinzelelo lokuxiliswa
Akunakuphika ukuba ubisi lwebele lubonelela ngesondlo esifanelekileyo kwiintsana. Ubungqina obucacileyo kwaye iingxabano zininzi. Oomama abaphindaphindiweyo bayazi kakuhle izibonelelo ; zichazwe kuyo yonke incwadi, iwebsite, kunye nendaba yephepha. Abahlobo abanentsingiselo, izihlobo, kunye nabasebenzi bezogqirha baphinda baphinde bavuselele amandla okuncelisa, njengoko bekhuthaza oomama ukuba baqhubeke noonesi. Oomama abaninzi abaphindaphindiweyo bayabalandeli abancedisayo bokuncelisa; Ngokuqinisekileyo babeya kukwazi ukuba benako.
Yonke inkcenkcazo entle iyanzima kakhulu ezintliziyweni zomama abanzima. Abaxhasi besondlo bakhuthaza ukuba kufane nomlingo wemilingo yonke imiba yobomi: ukulahlekelwa isisindo ngokukhawuleza, ukugcina imali engakumbi, ukunciphisa umngcipheko wakho womhlaza, wenze abantwana bakho baqaphele, baphile kwaye banokukhuseleka.
Eyona nto: Unomama ongcono xa uncelisa.
Oomama abangenakukwazi ukuwenza ukusebenza, ityala linokuba lukhulu. Bafuna ukunyamekela abantwana babo, kodwa abaphumelelanga. Baye bafunda iincwadi, bafuna uncedo kubaqeqeshi bamacandelo , bazama ukunyamezela. Kwezinye iimeko, bazincama ngempilo yabo kunye nobutyebi kwizame.
Abafazi abaphindaphindiweyo ngenxa yonyango yokungabikho kwengqondo banokuziva ngathi umzimba wabo uphinda ubathengise. Baziva bengasebenzi. Baziva bengaphumeleli.
Into enokuyenza Ukuba Uvakalelwa Inetyala
Ukuthotywa malunga nokuncelisa kungabonakali. Ayincedi inkqubo yokuhlamba kwaye ayiyikuvelisa nayiphi na inzuzo koomama okanye iintsana. Ukuba uziva unetyala ngokungalinyanga amawele akho okanye ukuphindaphinda, khululwa. Cinga ngezi ziqinisekiso:
- Yi nyaniso; oku akusilela. Nangona ukunyamezela ngokuqinisekileyo kunika iingenelo, ukuncelisa ibele akuyingozi. Ngeke kubangele ukuba abantwana bakho bathathaka ngokugula kunye nama-IQ aphantsi. Kukho amaninzi amawele kunye neeninzi ezifumana ifom njengentsana evuyayo, enempilo, ehlakaniphile, ekhuselekile. Le ngxenye enye yendima yakho njengomama; kukho ezininzi, ezinye iindlela ezininzi onokubangela inhlalakahle yabantwana bakho ngendlela enhle.
- Qaphela ukuba ungumama ongcono kakhulu kule ntsana, kungakhathaliseki ukuba uyondla njani . Uwenze isigqibo sokubondla ngendlela engcono kakhulu - inketho ephilileyo kuwe nakwiimeko zakho zangoku. Yiba nethemba ngokukwazi ukubanina.
- Cima isigwebo. Abantu abayinikezelayo abazange bahambe ngeembadada zakho. Benza okulungileyo kwintsapho yabo; wenza okulungileyo.
- Yazisa umzamo owenzileyo-nayiphi na isantya sobisi lwebele olusayo abantwana bakho luya kubanika inzuzo ebalulekileyo.
- Zizenzele ngenkxaso. Tune abaxhasi kwaye bafumane ukukhuthazwa kwabanikezelayo. Uya kufumana inkxaso eninzi kumama wakho wasekuhlaleni kweqela leenkampu kunye nakwi-intanethi.