Utyando locwangciso lunokuyikrakra, nangona liyinxalenye yecala lokuzalwa kwengane yakho. Kuninzi ebhaliweyo malunga nokuhlinzwa okwenene, kodwa kuncinci kakhulu kunokufunyanwa malunga neentsuku phambi kocwangciso lwesigxina.
Ngaphambi koSuku olukhulu
Emva kokuthatha isigqibo ngomhla ogqityiweyo, mhlawumbi uyacelwa ukuba ubhalele esibhedlele apho umntwana wakho uza kuzalwa khona.
Oku kungabandakanya ulwazi kwikhadi lakho le-inshurensi kunye neengxelo zakho zokubeletha. Unokucelwa ukuba uqikelele ukuhlala kwakho nenkampani yakho yomshuwalense.
Ugqirha wakho angakunika imishanguzo yonyango kufuneka ithathwe phambi kokuhlinzwa kwakho. Nangona ungekho nto ngomlomo, kungekhona namanzi kwiiyure ezisibhozo ngaphambi kokuhlinzwa. Ukuba ukhathazeke ngokugqithiseleyo unokwenzelwa uncedo lokulala ngogunyaziso lwangokuhlwa ngaphambi kokuhlinzwa kwakho. Qiniseka ukuba uthethe ugqirha wakho malunga naloo nto xa ukhathazekile.
Unokucelwa ukuba ube noqhagamshelwano olukhethekileyo kunye ne-anesthesiologist yakho okanye nodokotela wengane yakho okanye oyingcali. Ezi zinokuthi ziqhutywe ngentsuku yokuhlinzwa okanye iiveki ngaphambi kokuhlinzwa ngokuxhomekeka ngexesha lokuzalwa kwakho .
Qinisekisa ukuba iibhegi zakho zipakishwe kwaye kunye nawe , nangona ungazicwangcisi ukuzifuna emva kokuzalwa. Unokuhlala uthumela umntu phantsi emotweni ukuze abenze.
Esi sicwangciso sisebenza kangcono kuninzi lwabantu ngenxa yokuzama ukuqhubeka kunye neengxowa njengoko uhamba ukusuka kwindawo yokuhlaziya ukuya kutsho kwidilesi yokunyamekela kweso sikhundla, kwaye ekugqibeleni, indawo yesithuba sokugqibela, ingaba nebhere.
Usuku lokuzalwa
Ukuba utyando lwenu luhlelwe kusasa kakhulu, kusenokufuneka ube esibhedlele ngaphambi kokuba ilanga liphume.
Ukuba awuyena umntu osasa, le nto ingaba nzima. Qinisekisa ukusetha ii-alamu ezininzi ukuqinisekisa ukuba uphuma ebhedini. Unokucinga ukuba uya kuvuyisa kangangokuthi awuyi kulala, kodwa kwenzeke okungakumbi kunokuba ucinge, ingakumbi xa unenkathazo yokulala ubusuku.
Umlingani wakho kufuneka adle, nangona kungekhona xa ujikeleze. Oku kunceda bahlale bekulungele ukuncedisa ngokubanika ukutya okuqhubekayo.
Thatha isikhwama sakho uze uhambe! Musa ukulibala ukuzisa isicwangciso sakho sokuzalwa sokuzalwa kwakho okanye icebo lakho lokuncelisa.
Xa usesibhedlele, faka indawo efanelekileyo yokupaka. Ngelixa uvumelekile ukupaka emsebenzini kunye neendawo zokupaka izithuthi, ezo zidla ngokukhawuleza kwaye zifuna ukuba uthumele imoto yakho ye-ASAP. Kungaba ngcono ukupaka kwindawo yokupaka ngokuqhelekileyo kwaye uhambe kuyo. Oku kukuthintela ukuba uhlukaniswe nomlingane wakho emva kokuzalwa. Ukuba udinga ukuhlaselwa emnyango ukukhusela ukuhamba, okusebenzayo.
Unokuba neemfuno ezizodwa zokwenza ngaphambi kokuba ungene ngemvume ukuze unyango. Qiniseka ukuba ubuze ukuba ufuna nawuphi na umsebenzi ogqityiweyo webhu okanye uvavanyo.
Ukuba unayo iindwendwe ezicwangcisiweyo ukulinda kwigumbi lokulinda ngexesha lokuzalwa, unokufuna ukuba ungene ngaphakathi kwaye ubonise uncedo okanye uwalathise apho kufuneka ukuba balinde.
(Ndicinga ukuba kulula ukuba bafike emva kokuba umntwana azalwe. Ukulinda kunzima kuwo wonke umntu kwaye iishedyuli zokuhlinzwa zivame ukugqithwa kalula.)