Akukho nto. Yilokho oogqirha abacebisa abantwana kunye nentsha ngeenkomfa zokwenza ngexesha lokuqala. Nangona iinconywa zonyango ukuba zingenzi nto zinokuzwakala njengendlela enkulu yokuphumla, ingaba yinto enzima kakhulu kubantwana nakwishumi. Kule meko, akukho nto ithetha ukuba akukho misebenzi enokuthi ifune ngokomzimba okanye ngokwengqondo.
Kumntu onomngcipheko, oko kuthetha ukuba akukho kufunda, akukho ukuthumela imiyalezo, akukho mithombo yekhompyutha, akukho nto yokucinga, kunye nomsebenzi omncinci owenziwe ngokomzimba. Oku kunzima kulutsha olusebenzayo, nje ulutsha olusemngciphekweni wokufumana ingxubusho.
Ubungakanani besikhathi umntwana wakho okanye umntwana oya kubuyela kuzo kwi-ingxubusho iyahlukileyo kwingqungquthela nganye. Abantwana kunye nentsha badla ixesha elide ukufumana abantu abadala. Amathuba amaxesha okwenzela ukubuyiswa ngokupheleleyo kuya kuthatha iiveki kunemihla embalwa.
Ingqungquthela nganye ineempawu ezikhethekileyo. Iimpawu ezingumntwana wakho zineenkcukacha malunga nokuba ziphi na izinto ezinokusingatha. Ukuba awuqinisekanga, jonga ugqirha wengane yakho ukuqinisekisa ukuba umsebenzi awunzima kakhulu kumntwana wakho ukuba ayenze ngelixa elula ukuvela kwingqungquthela.
Inqununu kule mininzi yale mi sebenzi kukugcina ukuba ingqondweni okanye inzima. Ngamanye amagama, ixesha lokubuyisela ingxaki akusiyo ixesha lokufumana izinto ezinqabileyo okanye zasendle kunye nale mihla yokuzola.
1. I-Crafts Crafts
I-yezandla ingaba yindlela efanelekileyo yokudlula ixesha. Kukho imisebenzi embalwa elula ekwazi ukugcina umntanakho uxakekile ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka. Umntwana wakho unokufuna ukunikela ezinye zezinto ezizenzekelayo ngesandla njengezipho kubahlobo kunye nosapho.
- Amacwecwe amancinci amancinci ayenziwe kwi-embroidery floss, amaqhina amancinci amancinane, okanye ubuhlalu.
- Imidwebo elula eyenziwe ngokulahla iibhola zokupenda kwiphepha ukwenza izinto ezizodwa. Ukutsala ngepende kwindlela yokupenda ngaphandle kokucinga.
- Cima iphepha leqhwa elikhethiweyo okanye izilwanyana zase-origami ezilula ezikwazi ukuzenza.
- Sebenzisa iincwadi zokubala okanye unikezele iphepha lakho lokubala lomntwana oziprinteleyo kwi-intanethi ukuba ubenze umsebenzi olula. Ngexa abantwana abasebancinci behlala befuna iphepha lokubala kunye nabalinganiswa babo abathandekayo bamabonwakude, ii-design mandala zithandwa ngabantu abasebancinci nabaselula.
2. Ukuvakatyezela okuKhuselekileyo kunye nabahlobo
Ulutsha olusesikolweni aluthandi ukuba luye esikolweni kunye neontanga zabo. Yiba nomhlobo oza kubakho uhambo oluzolileyo. Oku kuya kunciphisa ubunyulu kunye nokunyamezela. Oku kunokukunceda ukugcina umntwana wakho angavavanyi isidingo sokubhaliweyo okanye ukusebenzisa amajelo asekuhlaleni ukuze agcine ubuhlobo babo, okwenza kube lula ukuphepha ixesha lokubhenqa.
3. Ukuqokelela Izinto Ezifunyenwe Ngaphandle
Umntwana wakho unako ukuphuma e-yard okanye kwi-driveway ukukhangela amatye, izityalo, iintyatyambo okanye ezinye izinto eziqhelekileyo aze azifake ngaphakathi kwiindawo zokuqokelela. Oku kunokufumana umntwana wakho umoya omtsha kunye nokunyakaza ngenkqubela ngenkxaso ngokuzinikezela ukuba benze.
4. Yichitha ixesha kunye nezilwanyana ezilumkileyo
Ingaba unayo ikati okanye inja ethanda ukuyihlutha, kodwa ayiyidlala kwakhona?
Mhlawumbi intlanzi yeentlanzi edibanisa xa ibhada itanki? Umvundla omncinci othanda ukuhlala ehleli? Ukuzilalisa, izilwanyana ezinokuzondla zingabonelela ngokuzonwabisa kunye neentambo ezingayi kuphazamisa iingqondo.
5. Dlala kwi-Zen-Style Sand Garden
Uyakhumbula izididi ezincinci zase-zen ezithandwayo ezihlotsheni ze-ofisi ekuqaleni kwawo-2000? Yenza enye yomntwana wakho okanye umfana wakho ukuba asebenzise umdlalo wokuphumula. Gcwalisa isitsha esingenanto esifana nesitya se-casserole okanye ipenki yepayi kunye nesihlabathi kwaye ungeze izinto ezincinci ezinomdla. Umntwana wakho okanye umfana wakho unokuchitha ixesha ekutsaleni kwisanti ngokwawo okanye ukulungiselela izinto entsimini yesanti.
6. Thatha kwiNdwendwe elula ukuyidla
Ukuthabatha umntwana wakho emotweni eyithulekileyo kwindawo yokutyela kungenza umntwana wakho angene endlwini ngethuba elincinci ngelixa ephepha ukuvakala kwengxolo kunye nokufunyanwa kwintlanzi.
Ukufumana unyango ozithandayo kunokubonelela ngokunyaniseka emva kokuba kunzima ukuba yedwa kwaye ungenzi nto yonke imini.
Iipikiniki kwindawo yokuzimela epakini -ngabikho indawo yokudlala, nangona-esele ijwayele kumntwana wakho nayo inokubonelela utshintsho lwezinto eziqhelekileyo ngelixa uphepha ukucinga, ukuvakala komsindo okanye ukuvakaliswa okubonakalayo. Ukuba umntwana wakho akakulungele ukubuyela esikolweni, unokusebenzisa ngokuninzi ukuba abanye abantwana baya kuba sesikolweni emini, kungekhona epakini. Ukungabikho kwamanye abantu kunokubonelela ngokuzinzileyo umntwana oya kuwufuna.
7. Thatha iBhati ehle kakuhle
Uyazi ukuba unomdla onjani wokuhlambela? Umntwana wakho unokunandipha enye, naye. fumana iindlela zokwenza ibhedi ibe yimnandi kubo. Iibhola ezininzi okanye izitya ezimbalwa zokugalela amanzi ngaphaya nangaphandle kunokubonelela ngokuzonwabisa. Unokutshintshela ukukhanya xa zijongene nokukhanya.
Igama elivela kwi-Verywell
Ngethemba, umntwana wakho akayi kuba ekhaya iintsuku ezininzi ngelixa elinde ukubuyela esikolweni okanye kwimidlalo. Xa bebuya, ukunyamezela kuya kuhamba ngokukhawuleza. Khumbuza umntwana wakho ngokuqhelekileyo ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani ukuthatha ixesha kunye nokubuyiselwa. Ukubeka ingozi kakhulu kumsebenzi wandisa kuphela inkqubo yokubuyisela kwaye kunokukhokelela kwimiphumo emide.