Akukaze kube mva ukufunda imikhwa emitsha
Ngethuba ixesha umntwana wakho afikelela esikolweni esiphakeme, usenokucinga ukuba selephuzile kakhulu ukufaka ezinye izakhono ezisisiseko. Ayiyo! Kubaluleke ngaphezu kwanamhlanje ngoku ngakumbi ukuba umntwana wakho uceba ukuya kwikholeji. Ungathethi ukuba ulungelelwaniso kubaluleke kakhulu kumsebenzi wobuchule. Sebenzisa ezi cebiso ukukunceda umntwana wakho ahlelwe isikolo esiphakamileyo.
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Kukho iintsuku xa umntwana wakho ebuyela ekhaya ememeza esithi "Cinga into eyenzeka kum, Mama!" Mhlawumbi, baya kuhamba emnyango baze baqonde ngqo kwigumbi labo ngaphandle kokuthetha okukhulu.
Ukuba unjengabaninzi ngabazali besikolo samabanga aphakamileyo (ikakhulukazi abafana), mhlawumbi ufumanisa ngezinto malunga nomzuzu wokugqibela okanye emva koko.
Intlanganiso nganye yeveki inokukufumana kwi-loop ngaphandle kokumkhathaza umntwana wakho. Ngexesha leCawa ngexesha leentsuku zokuhlangana kwintsapho ukuba uhambe kwizinto ezinjenge:
Wonke umntu kufuneka avelise abacwangcisi bawo okanye iikhalenda. Ukuba abayenawo, qiniseka ukuba uwafumana. Sebenzisa indlela yakho ngosuku ngalunye ucela ukuba yeyiphi na umntu oye walungiselela umsebenzi, izenzo, imidlalo, kunye nemisebenzi yangaphambili yesikolo. Emva koko, misela iimfuno zokuhamba. Ingaba umntwana wakho uhamba ngokuya kwimeko nganye kwikhalenda okanye uya kufuneka ukuba unikezele ngezothutho enye okanye ngaphezulu kweentsuku?
Izinto ezijongene nezikolo ezijongene nezikolo. Ngaba ziphina iiprojekthi ezifunekayo okanye eziphambili iimvavanyo ezicwangcisiweyo? Ingaba umntwana wakho unazo zonke izixhobo okanye iimpahla ezifunekayo?
Ekugqibeleni, gcina ikhalenda yabo yentlalo. Ngaba bafuna ukuya kumdlalo webhola wangoLwesihlanu ebusuku, uye kwiifilimu kunye nabahlobo okanye ube nomcimbi wokuzalwa?
Ukuba kunjalo, xubusha iimfuno zesiganeko ngasinye njengezothutho, ngaba umntwana wakho ufuna into enjengeempahla ezikhethekileyo ezihlambulukileyo okanye ezomile zicocekileyo, okanye isipho. Emva koko ulungele izinto zokulungiselela kwikhalenda yakho.
Nangona iintlanganiso zangeveki ziza kuba zibalulekile kuwe njengoko ugubungela bobabini imisebenzi kunye neentsapho, uxanduva lwabo lokwenene lufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba acinge kwaye ahlele phambili.
Yiyo isakhono esiza kusebenza ngokuyiminyaka ezayo.
Cocina iifowuni zakho kunye
Umntwana wakho uphila kwi-backpack yakhe yonke iveki, njengokuba wenza isikhwama sakho. Ekupheleni kwintlanganiso yakho yeveki kuthathe ixesha lokukhupha zombini iibhegi zakho ndawonye. Ngokwenza njalo ukhokela ngomzekelo ukuba kukuhle ukuqala iveki ngokuqala kokuqala.
Kanye nje ngekhwama yakho inamaqela amaninzi eenkampu ezisekhwameni, nazo. Yenza iphuzu lokucoca yonke i-pocket encinane. Izicubu ezingcolileyo kunye ne-gum wrappers zinomkhonto wokubambelela kwiindawo ezincinci.
Ukulindeleke ukuba baya kuhlaziya
Abaninzi abaselula bayabonakala bexhomekeke ekuzilandeleni. Nangona oku kuya kuqhuba abanye benu bahlobo ba-A badibanisa kodwa baxhathise intshutshiso ye-micromanage. Nazi ezinye iindlela zokukhuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba ayeke ukuhlaziya.
Ungazami ukuba nengxoxo enengqiqo malunga nokumisa umntwana wakho xa bephakathi kokufumana into ethile kwimizuzu yokugqibela. Izilingo ziya kutshabalala kwaye akukho nto ivelisayo.
Kunoko, xubusha le meko kamva. Cela umntwana wakho ukuba achaze iimeko ezikhokelela ekugqibeleni kweyokugqibela. Ukujonga emva, ngaba kukho into abaya kwenza ngayo? Ngelo cwangciso sesenzo, bancede baqaphele ukuba bangayisebenzisa njani kwiprojekthi okanye uvavanyo lwabo oluzayo ukuze baphephe ukuhlaziya kwakhona.
Abantwana abaninzi abazange bafunde indlela yokufunda kwaye bababambe esikolweni esiphakeme. Izikolo ezininzi kunye neeklasi zokufundisa zinika iklasi yezakhono zokufunda ezilungiselelwe ukufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba afunde ngokufanelekileyo nangempumelelo. Cinga ukubhalisa umntwana wakho kwenye yezi zifundo. Utyalo-mali ngezabelo ezide.
Ukuseka izilindele kunye neziphumo
Ngesikolo esiphakeme, kufuneka ube nokuqonda okucacileyo kwamandla omntwanakho. Xelela ngokucacileyo umntwana wakho oko ukulindele ngokwemigangatho kunye namazinga okuvavanya ngokusekelwe kwezi zinto. Abanye abazali bawafaka kwisivumelwano esithile esibhaliweyo phakathi kwabo kunye nomfundi.
Ingaba udibanisa ukulindela kwakho ngomlomo okanye ngokubhaliweyo, kufuneka udibanise nemiphumo xa izilwanyana zingalindelekanga. Qinisekisa nabantwana bakho ukuba iziphumo ziya kuba njani ukuphelisa imisebenzi yangaphandle, kungekho imicimbi yentlalo yeveki okanye ukulahlekelwa kwefowuni okanye amalungelo okudlala.
Xa kufikelele ekuphatheni kwexesha kunye nentlangano, esinye sezifundo ezingcono kakhulu ongayifundisa umntwana wakho uxanduva lomntu kunye nokuqonda ukuba kukho iziphumo kuzo zonke izigqibo.
Musa Ukubambisa Umntwana Wakho Ngaphandle
Ngomhla ka-9 ntambama kwaye umntwana wakho uza egijima egumbini lakho ephethe iifomu ezingcolileyo abayidingayo kwimidlalo enkulu yomso. Ingaba wenza ntoni? Ukuba ezi zinto zenzeke kangangoko, unokuzihlamba. Kodwa ukuba ziyimvelaphi eqhelekileyo, thintela ukukhwela umntwana wakho.
Ukuba ubenzela ibhayili, uqinisekisa ukunyanzeliswa kwemikhwa engafanelekanga yomntwana wakho. Ubuye uthumele umyalezo ukuba awunandaba nokuba uhleli okanye awukho; konke kusebenza ekupheleni. Ngeke ubekho ekholejini, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo abayi kuba khona xa befumana umsebenzi wabo wokuqala wekholeji.
Oko akuthethi ukuba kufuneka uhlale unqabile ngale nto. Uvelwano lweengxaki kwaye ubonise umdla kwimibono yengane yakho yokusombulula ingxaki. Unokufumana ukuba banokuphuma ngaphandle kokuncedisa. Yindlela enhle yokwakha ukuzithemba kunye nezakhono zobomi.
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Ukuba badinga ukugcina amanqaku kwithuba elide lokubazisa ukuba baxhomeke kwiintambo ezibophelelweyo ezintathu, i-puncher yabo emithathu, kunye neethebhu. Enye indlela yokufumana ifayile ye-accordion ukulungiselela iphepha elivulekileyo.
Kwakhona, bafumane i-timer yabo, bajonge, okanye babonise indlela yokusebenzisa i-timer kwifowuni yabo. Siyazi ukubaluleka kokuthatha ikhefu ngexesha lethu lomsebenzi kunye nomnye onokufundiswa kwintombazana yakho. Batshengise indlela ukuphulukana ngokukhawuleza kwemizuzu eyi-15 kunokubanceda banqobe iibhloko zombhali okanye bancede ukusombulula loo ngxaki ye-math.
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