Nangona ezinye iingxaki ze-intanethi zenza igalelo elifanelekileyo (njenge-Challenge ye-Ice Bucket), ezinye iindaba zentlalo zentlalo ayinayo injongo yangempela. Kwaye ezinye zazo, njengomngeni we-tape mngeni, zinokuba yingozi kakhulu.
Nangona kukho ingozi, i-media media ijonge umngeni. Intsha iyakulinganisa ukuze izame kwaye abaninzi babo babelana ngamavidiyo abo ngenzame yokufumana inqaku le-viral name.
Kwaye xa abanye abazali becinga ukuba imingeni ye-tape ingumngcipheko ongenakulimala, abanye abatsha bayabuhlungu. Kwaye kubalulekile ukuba abazali baqonde ingozi echaphazelekayo ukuze bathethe nabantwaba babo ngeengozi.
Yintoni I-Challenge Tape Challenge?
Umngeni mngcipheko weengcingo zibandakanya intsha iphosa umntu phezulu kwi-tape tape. Basenokubopha izandla zabo neenyawo zabo. Okanye, banokubamba intombazana kwisitulo-okanye nokuba nodonga. Emva koko, umntu obanjwe ngeteksi uzama ukubaleka.
Abanye abatsha bachitha iiyure bazama ukuguqula indlela yabo yokuphuma, ngelixa abanye basebenzisa iinqununu eziyingozi ukuze bafumane inkululeko.
Intsha ibhala ngokwayo izama "ukuphunyuka kwitheyipu" kwaye ifake ividiyo kwi-intanethi. Iividiyo zihlala zibelwana kwiindawo zoshishino zoluntu ezifana ne-Facebook kunye ne-YouTube.
Njengoko umngeni uqhubeka ukhula, abatsha bayaqhubeka bezama ukuphuma. Ngenxa yoko, imingeni iye yanda kakhulu yingozi ngenxa yexesha.
Imiba yoKhuseleko edibene neDuct Tape Challenge
Ngo-2016, i-Skylar Fish eyayineminyaka eli-14 inxaxheba kwiingxaki zeengcingo.
Wawa xa ezama ukukhulula.
Wayebetha intloko yakhe kwifreyimu yefestile kwaye waphahla kwikhonkrithi ethile. Wachukumisa isalathiso seso lesobunxele kwaye wafumana intlungu eyintloko. Wayehlinzwa kangangoko kunyaka ozayo kwaye oogqirha baye balumkisa intsapho engenakuze abuyibone kwiso lakhe lasekhohlo.
Intsapho yaseSillar yanquma ukuxelela ibali lakhe ukuba likhuphe ngengozi malunga nomngcipheko we-tape.
Kodwa, akubona wonke umntu ophulaphulayo.
Enyanisweni, abaninzi abatsha ngoku bathumela ingxaki yabo kwi-intanethi. Ukuba ucinga "umngeni we-tape umngeni uphelelanga" uya kufumana amavidiyo angama-miliyoni kwi-YouTube ebonisa abatsha ukuhlanza, ukukhala, nokuwa phantsi kwalo mngeni.
Xoxa Nomntwana Wakho Ngeengozi
Ngokucacileyo, umngeni we-tape mngeni awuyona yodwa yingozi eyenziwa ngabafana abakhuthayo ukuba bakwenze. Kukho imingeni efana ne-Cinnamon Challenge, iTransil ne-Ice Challenge, kunye neComm Challenge-nto leyo ingaba yingozi.
Njengoko le mihla iqalisa ukutshabalalisa, akungabazeki ukuba imingeni emitsha iya kubakho. Kwaye inethuba elihle umntwana wakho oza kuliva ngalo ngaphambi kokuba wenze. Awukwazi ukujonga imisebenzi yakho yeselula yonke ixesha. Kodwa, ungamnika izakhono kunye nezixhobo azifunayo ukwenza ukhetho oluphilileyo.
Thetha kwintsapho yakho malunga neengozi ezinxulumene nemisebenzi efana nomngeni we-tape. Nazi ezinye iingongoma ezibalulekileyo zokuthetha:
- Buza umntwana wakho ukuba uyazi ukuba ngubani na othatha inxaxheba kule mingeni. Indlela efanelekileyo yokuqala incoko ithi, "Ndive nje ngento ethile ebizwa ngokuba ngumngeni we-tape mngeni. Ngaba abantwana esikolweni bakho benza oko? "
- Buza wakho umntwana ukuba kungani ecinga ukuba abantu bathatha inxaxheba kule miba yemingeni. Ingane yakho inokukwazi ukunika ingqiqo ukuba kutheni intsha ithatha inxaxheba. Enoba uthi intsha iyakhathazeka okanye izama ukuba ziinkwenkwezi ze-YouTube, ziphulaphule iingcamango zakhe.
- Ucinga ntoni ngezingane ezenza ezo zinto? Buza uluvo lwakhe ngaphambi kokuba wabelane ngeengcamango zakho. Jonga ukuba ucinga ukuba intsha ezithatha inxaxheba iyamangalisa, ibuhlungu, okanye ikhetha ukukhetha.
- Xoxa ngendlela yokuqonda iingozi. Qaphela ukuba ezinye iingxaki zingamonwaba, kodwa ukuba abanye bangenobungozi. Buza ukuba uza kuqonda njani ukuba umngeni unokuba yingozi. Thetha malunga nendlela yokucinga malunga nemiphumo engaphambi kokuthatha inxaxheba.
- Thetha ngezicwangciso zokumelana neengcinezelo zontanga. Nangona umfana wakho eyazi into ethile engalunganga, unokuzama ukuhamba kunye nesihlwele. Ukuchonga izicwangciso zokumelana nokunyanzeliswa koontanga, nokuba ngabahlobo bakhe bammcukisayo okanye bafune ukuba athathe inxaxheba.
Indlela Yokusebenzisana Ngomntwana Othabatha Inxaxheba Kwiindawo Eziyingozi
Ingqondo yobutsha engekaphuhliswa ngokupheleleyo . Ngenxa yoko, intsha ibona ingozi ngokwahlukileyo kunabantu abadala. Ngako-ke, xa umntwana wakho engumntwana abe ngumfundi oqinileyo A, unokukwenza izigqibo ezingenangqiqo ngamanye amaxesha.
Ukuba umntwana wakho uthatha inxaxheba kwiingqungquthela eziphosakeleyo okanye ufumana ubungozi obunobungozi, ungayigxina ingxaki. Yiba nencoko enzulu malunga neengozi ezinokuthi uzibeke kuyo.
Xoxa ngezizathu ezithatha inxaxheba. Ngaba ufuna into enokuyenza- njengomsebenzi- ukuhlala ematasa? Ngaba uzama ukunyamezela abahlobo bakhe?
Cinga ukuba umntwana wakho unokufuna uncedo ekuhlaleni ezinye izakhono zakhe. Mhlawumbi ufuna uncedo ukwazi indlela yokuthi cha. Okanye mhlawumbi ufuna ukufumana izinto ezintle ezenza ukuba azixabise kangangokuba akavakalelwa ngathi ufuna ukuphazamisa abanye abantu.
Yenza okulindelweyo kucace. Yithi, "Ndiyilindele ukuba awuyi kuqhuba ngokuziphatha kakubi nje ngokuba ngabahlobo bakho bayayenza." Yithi nje ezo zintetho zamagama zingenza umntwana wakho acinge kabini ngokuthatha inxaxheba kwimingcipheko yokuziphatha njengomngcipheko we-tape.
Ukuba umntwana wakho ubonakala ungumngcipheko wendalo, mncede afune izicatshulwa zempilo. Mkhuthaze ukuba azinikele ngokubangela isizathu esilungileyo okanye umceli ukuba athathe imali yothando-nje kuphela xa eyenza ngendlela ephephile.
Ukuba umntwana wakho akabonakali ukuba angalindeli, okanye ufuna ukuthatha yonke into kwinqanaba elilandelayo, unqande amalungelo akhe. Emva koko, ukuba uya kuqhuba imoto, kufuneka ukwazi ukuba unokuthi hayi xa umngane wakho umngeni ukuba aqhube iikhilomitha ezili-100 ngeyure.