Nangona abantwana abaninzi abane-Disositional Defiant Disorder okanye i-Disorder Disorder bafunyaniswa ukuba baneempawu ezinxulumene ne-neurologically ngexesha, ingxaki ephambili yokuziphatha. Abazali badinga i-arsenal yeendlela zokulwa nokunciphisa iingxaki zokuziphatha ekhaya. Isinyathelo sokuqala ukuxilongwa ngempumelelo kunye nonyango ngumbono onamava ekukhathazeni kwengqondo yobuntwana.
Phantse zonke iindlela zokuziphatha ezinxulumene neengxaki zokuziphatha eziphazamisayo zingabonwa kubantwana abaqhelekileyo ngezikhathi ezithile. Ukuxilongwa kwezifo zokuphazamiseka kwezimo eziphazamisayo zenziwa xa ubukhulu kunye nokuphikelela kwezi zimpawu kubangelwa ukukhubazeka kliniki kwimisebenzi yoluntu, yezemfundo okanye yezemisebenzi. Ukulawulwa okuqhubekayo ngumbhali wezempilo yengqondo kubalulekile kuba iziphazamiso zokuziphatha eziphazamisayo zihlala zihamba kunye nezinye izifo ezifana ne-ADHD, ukuxhalaba kunye nokukhathazeka kwemizwelo.
Iseluleko kubazali ekujonganeni neengxaki zokuziphatha eziphazamisayo ekhaya
- Abantwana abanesidingo se-DBD nqanaba eliphezulu lokulawula ngaphezu kwabanye abantwana abaneminyaka efanayo. Nangona kunjalo, iliso alisoloko liba nomzali. Enyanisweni, kuba ukuziphatha okungahloneliyo kudla ngokubhekiselele kubazali kunye nootitshala, abazali banokufumana ukuba abanye abantu abanomdla, njengabantwana abafanelekileyo abancedisayo okanye abancedisayo, banako ukuhlakulela ubudlelwane obuhle nomntwana obonelela ngokufunda uluntu kumntwana kunye nokufumana umvuzo oxabisekileyo bazali.
- Ukuxhaswa kunye nokuxhaswa kwabazali kubalulekile kuba abazali kufuneka babe nokulawula zabo iimvakalelo ngexesha leziganeko ezinzima kunye nomntwana. Ezi ntwana ziyakuthanda ukukhupha, kwaye zilungile kuyo. Abazali kufuneka bahlale bengabandakanyeki ngokomzwelo xa beka imiyalelo okanye nemiphumo kumntwana ophazamisayo. Olu buchule aluveli ngokwemvelo kwaye kufuneka lwenziwa kwaye lugqibelele ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Ukuba abazali abafunde ukulawula iimvakalelo zabo xa beyala umntwana, isiqhelo sisoloko sinobudlova kunye nokukhula kwesifo.
- Fumana iindlela zokugcina ubuhlobo obuhle nomntwana wakho. Nika ingqalelo kwiimpawu zakhe ezilungileyo uze ufumane uvuyo ngexesha lokusondelana. Ngokuqhelekileyo siphephe abantu abangela ukuba sibe nexhala kwaye bacaphuke xa besichukumisa. Kodwa, siyabathanda abantwana bethu kwaye kusishukumisela ukuba sifune ukuphulukisa kubo kunye nathi. Ufuna i-outlet yakho kwimvakalelo yakho, ngoko-ke, khangela inkxaso ukuze kukuncede. Abazali abaninzi banokufumanisa ukuba badinga ukuxhasa ukugcina umtshato onempilo, oxhasayo kwiimeko ezinzima.
- Fumana icebo uze unamathele kuyo. Funda konke unokukwazi malunga nendlela yokuphatha kakuhle indlela yokuziphatha komntwana wakho; fumana oko kukusebenzelayo, bese usebenzisa ezo zicwangciso ngendlela echanekileyo neyakhekileyo. Imizila kunye nokulindela okucacileyo kwintlawulo yokuziphatha bonke abantwana. Zizinto ezibalulekileyo ekuphuculeni impilo enomntwana ophazamisayo.